Why does this girl spy on me?

[DarthC0okie]

Ok so , there’s this girl. We’ve known each other for a few years now. We talk a lot every day. She’s seeing a guy at the moment but it’s early stages. She’ll keep spamming my phone even when I’m with a friend there’ll be a 3 different WhatsApp messages a Facebook post that sort of thing. She’ll spy on my WhatsApp stories. She’ll seem to get jealous if I’m having a coffee date with another girl , but she says she’s not in to me. She’s even spammed me a few times when she’s been with this guy.

[Gena-Midwest]

What makes looking at a whatsapp story "spying", as opposed to just looking?

[DarthC0okie]

Cause she’ll seem to not read my message but she’ll see my story

[DarthC0okie]

Or she’ll see my story as soon as I’ve literally posted it

[PrincessGrail]

She is rather clumsily flirting with you.

[DarthC0okie]

Is she? Even though she says she’s not interested in me?

[PrincessGrail]

Yes. She is.

[DarthC0okie]

Why do you think that?

[PrincessGrail]

Spamming you, spying on you and getting jealous are all signs of flirting.