Are woman really fickle minded?

[im_sad]

i really don't understand what woman is thinking.. one moment she said there is no way in patching up with her ex boyfriend , soon after they patched up again... can a woman's words be trusted ? or are they really just fickle minded ?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Maybe some women are fickle minded, but generally know.

Women have a complex thought process in situations. We have to analyze everything and process it throughly. She may have stated, no, I'd never do that, but in her mind, she was figuring ways to solve the issue appropriately. We don't just have final answers. Never. We may say one thing and be thinking something totally different. She reconsidered the issue with her ex and figured it'd be best to patch things up for whatever reason. Maybe she still has feelings? Maybe she felt it was the best thing to do?

When women think, we get deep into the details and try to work out the best plausible situation for ourselves and who will all be affected by our descision. Every outcome is considered before a finalized answer or action.

This is how we think. Not so fickle is it?

[im_sad]

thanks for the comment.. but I guess I will never understand how others think...

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

yea, hell no one knows how they really think themselves lol but it's okay, becuase that's what keeps people interesting

[jrose]

Haven't you ever changed your mind about something you said you wouldn't?

I certainly have, especially when the heart is involved. Women are always thinking, analysing, rethinking, and re-analysing the decisions they make, particularly if there are strong emotions involved because we want to be sure we're not basing it entirely on emotion. We re-evaluate the situation when the facts change, our viewpoint changes, or our feelings change- which happens all the time. It doesn't necessarily mean we always change our minds, but sometimes it does. You might call it fickle, I say it's better to know your mind before your act on your decision, so changing your mind is practical.

[Anonymous]

People are often hung up on their Exes. that's just the way it is.

When it comes to emotions, a person's word can pretty much never be trusted. If you can tell a guy/gal is still hung on up his/her Ex, you should just give up right away and stop being stupid enough to hope s/he'll pick you.

[im_sad]

thanks for the comment.. I like what you said :)

[Anonymous]

It depends on how she acts, with me if I really wanna be with someone than I work it bout but if I don't I second guess it . You think guys are the only one who play with hearts, girls do it to.

[im_sad]

i agreed but I just hate people who plays with relationships..

[arsenal25]

idk but this has happened to me with guys too. So I guess it goes both ways