Are there women out there who aren't attracted to men who are 6'2 or taller, with blonde or dark hair, small forehead, square face, hunters eyes high cheekbones, small symmetrical nose, and a chiseled jawline? I dont think so all women want hot men, also when women say they dont care about looks and want a sweet and caring guy its bs. They only say that because it's what they feel they should want but dont.
Are there women who don't want the stereotypical good looking guy
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*Are there straight women that dont want tall and handsome guys?
Are there straight women out there that don't want tall, handsome guys?
There are lesbians aren't there? So its not women. sweet doesn't mean a push over sweet doesn't mean doing whatever the fuck I want. Sweet doesn't mean just buying me gifts sweet doesn't mean just doing protocol and texting i love you every night like its a schedule. Sweet doesn't mean reading women as one item and then doing Sweet doesn't mean just being a robot. Sweet doesn't mean just about me.
Caring doesn't mean to just follow my every whim. Caring doesn't mean to just let me have everything I want.
If a parent did that to their children do you think its healthy? Look out Andrew cunanan turned out. So what makes you think that women will accept those men? What do you know about what a woman goes through with those sweet caring men? We lose either way. We say no, then we are heartless, we continue with them then we are horrible for not spending time with them or not breaking up with them. This isn't a pity party. Women aren't here to kiss every freaking man that walks into their life. We don't need to approve of every single man and this goes vice versa with men.
What do you call a masterful key? one that can open every lock What do you call a lock that can be opened by every lock? a broken lock.
Maybe men should start picking women in their league versus expecting victoria secret angel , get rejected, and post stuff like this on forums asking why ALL women toss and use men etc etc.
I dont expect to date a model and, I dont feel entitled to affection or attention from any woman, I wasn't born genetically blessed in fact, I'm genetically inferior trash , I'm not surprised no women find me attractive.
I honestly don't care about a mans height, I've had crushes on guys shorter or same height as me. As for the ''handsome'' features you described, everyone has different taste. ''small forehead, square face, hunters eyes high cheekbones, small symmetrical nose, and a chiseled jawline'' wtf are hunters eyes? and personally I have a thing for guys with big noses, they are sexy and masculine. small noses are what men want on women. you have the internets version of what an attractive male is. but that is not how attraction works. looks are only a fraction of what makes a man attractive. just look up previous G@G questions men asking what makes a man attractive. you will see as many opinions as there are women. there is not just one type of man that is attractive.
Although most people would like to have a good looking partner, there's a lot of people who doesn't care very much and doesn't find an average look a deal breaker. In my country there are many average none good looking people dating each other all the time. People goes for personality, achievements etc. more often than looks. Good looking people are rare anyway, so most people lowers their expectations a lot. Just I don't and that may be the reason why I'm still single. I knows less than 2% are attractive in my eyes.
There are also a lot of straight people from both genders that are attracted to average looking people or people that the Western beauty standard consider physical unattractive like short, bald and chubby people.
I sees more straight women dating less good looking men than visa versa. It's because of from my experience there are more beautiful women than men in the world; or at least where I lives. There's science theories saying the same.
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Every PERSON wants a partner who they consider to be attractive but my idea of attractive may not be attractive to you. Every guy does not want a blond haired, blue eyed girl with 36D boobs and every girl does not want the classic tall and ruggedly handsome stereotype.
In addition to that distinction, you also need to realize that having an idea for our ideal partner doesn't mean that nothing else will do. I like petite girls - 5' 0" to 5' 1" - 105 lbs, size 4, 34B or smaller, tiny hiney, blonde hair blue eyes. Many girls I have dated have had some of those features but I never had a girlfriend who actually fit that mold precisely. . . and all of the women who I dated more than once were women who I considered to be very attractive.
In my opinion, anyone's fixation on height is more of a product of how people are mostly hypothetical when they refer to their sexual or even aesthetic preference.
The observations of women saying that they prefer tall men are seen (by men of below average height) as unfair or judgmental. And men with this complex often search for much shorter women, because they believe the difference in height is what matters, ultimately making their own preference unfair to women who are taller or even the same height.
But in my opinion, anyone who has a mental list (or even a written one) of hypothetical requirements (or heavily preferred physical preferences) when it comes to the opposite or the same sex, are only determining those preferences based on previously experienced relationships, or observed relationships.
We may be animals, but we are also inherently scientific in ways we don't usually think about.
Meaning that we base our preferences or perceived compatibility on previous experiences. When we are looking for a partner after just ending a relationship, or ending one a long time ago, we are selective based what worked and what didn't work in our previous relationships.
Those who have never BEEN in a relationship form a hypothesis on the type of partner that would be the most compatible for them, based purely off of recorded observations, with a little help from sexual stimuli. When people often form a hypothesis about a relationship they observed in media, their potential to test a hypothesis is a lot less likely, and is often going to be a result of personal fixation rather than familiar connection.
Which is usually why both men and women who use these sorts of sites (IE: G@G) are already destined to have Rocky results if they actually take the advice they are given on this site, especially if the context is unknown.
Preferences are never an attack on another gender, nor race, because they are entirely produced from personal experience and observations, and shouldn't be taken seriously, and especially not personally.
well, i love this guy who is definitely not a model by any objective standards. but he is tall and smart and kind, and i swear, the guy can do anything. hell, his intelligence intimidates me. probs past 6''2. i don't usually find short guys attractive (i am 5''2, so as long as you are taller than me, i don't mind). but if i see a guy that's 5'0 or below, I probably won't be too attracted. unless of course he has a great personality. there has to be something about him physically that i like though. i am not too shallow, i can like average looking guys as long as they have good personalities. but if he is obese, balding, and short, i am sorry. i don't think i can. men have standards too. they all want thin women with big busts and long hair. correct me if i'm wrong. how tall are you? honestly, as long as you're taller than 5''2, i personally would not care. Unless you had a great face and personality, then i can overlook height. and lastly: most important thing: i may not look at you and be wowed upon first sight if you are short, but if we get to know each other, and you are sweet, kind, and intelligent, nothing else matters. unless you're obese. that matters. sorry.
See, here’s the problem with how you set up your question: you’re making several assumptions. 1. That girls only want guys who look a specific way and 2. That all girls have the same taste in men. The fact of the matter is that I can find plenty of different looking guys attractive. Tall, short, blonde, dark haired, blue eyes, dark eyes, light skin, dark skin, glasses, no glasses, beard, no beard, thin lips, big lips... I can find an infinite amount of combinations attractive. There’s not just one look that makes me go ”wow”, you know? All of my crushes have looked wildly different.
Also, what i find attractive, someone else might find unattractive. I’m with a guy who’s my height (170 cm), who wears glasses, has a slightly receding hairline, an amazing smile, beautiful eyes, strong arms and a great personality. I think he’s super fuckin’ hot and I get along with him so, so well, but plenty of other women would probably not want to date him because they don’t see what I see. There are as many preferences as there are women. Remember that.
I could also sit here and claim that guys only want women with thick thighs, a big ass and a big pair of boobs, but then I’d be lying because I have none of those and I still have a boyfriend.
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Read people man. You'll see that EVERY person has a preference in how they want there partner to look. If I have to rate myself based on my looks I'll rate myself a 4/10 but when I imagine a girlfriend for me, I imagine at least an 8/10 to almost a supermodel-looking girlfriend. There is no girl who would NOT PREFER a handsome and tall guy and there's no guy who would NOT PREFER a pretty girl. Problem is, most of us guys are so desperate for a relationship that we make it easy for girls to choose according to their preferences.
Now here's the thing, I almost fell in love with a girl who I would rate a 5 or 6/10 if I rate her completely based on her looks. I started liking her a lot because of how much we connected. She doesn't feel the same way for me though coz she's dating another guy in another city 😅. Point is, girls and guys both can actually start loving someone because of how strongly they bond. Which ultimately brings the preference to personalities. So when people say they choose their partners because of their personality they're not really lying. Even if girls want tall and handsome guys, they CAN like a short and ugly one if they connect very well. Of course when they say they don't care about looks it's a lie, everyone cares about it, but bonding can change things for everyone.
I guess if you don't think you look good and aren't tall, you can just have platonic relationships with girls and just spend time with them, talk to them, as a friend. If some girl feels you have a strong bond she will ask you out or you can. I'm no relationship expert, I've been single all my life but maybe give it try? 😐
Looks are one thing of many to look for in a partner, and it's not the most important.
If you're mean, your good looks won't apologize to me.
I'll tell you a "secret" fyi: a girl only looks for "acceptable" appearance, in her own standards of course. If the minimum requirements are there in terms of look, then she will evaluate personality compability and whether the guy is communicative enough to understand her needs and communicate his. Girls look for a partner that makes a good teammate. There's more to that than looking good
Yes there are plenty of women out there that aren’t even attracted to that kind of description of men.. of course it’s always nice to look at.
However, I have a list that I look for. I always find myself attracted to men that at 6’0 or taller, pale skin, dark hair, has a beard, light eyes, average body. Etc etc. But my boyfriend is only 5’9, a little bit of tan skin ( he’s French Canadian and native ), he has brown eyes, and has a “dad bod” which I love, can’t exactly grow a beard only a goatee and I’ve never been more attracted to a man in my entire life.
It’s because they’ve been led on flirted with and when they tried to pursue a so called Demi. God or such human ranks of such men ; they were heartbroken and it led them to question their womanly hood.
Guys like that shift blame of drama to women and make them escape goats to blame for the fizzled out bond , relationship or attraction. Then women get exhausted and also want to be treated well. So they chose the guy who treats them sincerely with no fuss and blame shifting , cold stone walling then is not existent. The result is happier women and happier sincere guys for they know it’s intelligent to behave the way they do. Survival of the fittest. By mental aptitude not only looks. What will you guys do admire yourselves talking endlessly to your mirror reflection on why you are worth it while the true experience of life is led by sincerity in a man or woman?
Yes if he has a good personality but most of the times these men think they to good to for a not so decent looking lady most the time woman like that will go for less attractive guys but you won’t find many that’s willing to go with not attractive looking men. Unless they aren’t the best looking themselves now this isn’t all the time but you will find more woman dating fugly men than a man dating a fugly girl even if they look bad themselves cause I guess a man has this mindset that they won’t allow themselves to date a lesser attractive person
Statistically speaking, obviously yes because there are far more, well, average to below average looking guys in relationships with women as defined by societal standards of beauty, then there are these model types of guys portrayed in movies/magazines. I would also point out that if women didn't want sweet guys, there would be far more women with black eyes and in abusive relationships then there are those that are in loving relationships with good men. I think the reality for men in the same---there is a society standard of beauty or sexy for women that is idiolized by a lot of men, but again, the odds of them actually being with those types of women are less likely, but just like women, I doubt they would date or marry a woman they didn't find attractive or sweet to them.
Well I don't and I know few women that doesn't care about weight, looks, or height. My boyfriend is 5'8 or 5'9 weighs 150 pounds with a chubby stomach and no muscle tone. He also had red hair but his hair is receding. He also has a disability and a learning disability, but I still love him and everyday I fall in love with him just because of his personality. One of my ex's weighed 300 pounds. I had a huge crush on this guy that was umarried and he was shorter than me and I'm only 4'11. So my answer is. They're women out there, thats doesn't want the " stereotypical good looking guy".
I believe that most women in the world would want a man that they find attractive, but attractiveness is subjective, meaning that the old saying is true where "beauty is in the eye of the beholder." One woman's opinion of a handsome man might not be handsome to other woman. For example, the features that you used to describe the supposed handsome man in your details could very well be unattractive to me. Not every man requires those features to be attractive. As for height, men can be attractive whether they are average height, taller, or shorter than average. Personally, I am 5'4" and height does not matter too much to me. I could possibly date a man around my height if he is handsome. As for handsomeness, men can be handsome to me in various ways. I don't have a specific "type" of man that I am attracted to.
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My opinion is that no one really DREAMS of dating or marrying a short ugly person.
I love hugging and kissing ugly men, the ugliest the better. Wouldn't it be bizarre if women actually said that?
But then life (and love) happens. A man may be short or too short or too skinny for me, but just perfect to someone else. Or maybe he's so charismatic (or possesses whatever other lovely quality) that at the end of the day his height becomes sort of irrelevant. Then beauty is in the eye of the beholder or, in Portuguese, "quem ama o feio, bonito lhe parece". Moreover, no man was ever required to be handsome in order to be considered attractive. Even the heroes in romance novels, like at least half of them, are described as "not particularly handsome". I remember one character who had a complex about his huge protruding nose, yet the heroine loved kissing it and apparently never thought it to be that big. Oh well.
Girls like this do not exist and i can tell you that straight up Im 6'2 with stuble blue eyes, cut shaved bald and i got big D also im honest about that
I got a girlfriend since 9 months and she told me face to face i look like chad fuckboi not a boyfriend material , but we are together since 9 months And i see she is jealous every time she catches any girl looking at me or whatsoever
Im generalyl bigger then any dude i know im 88 kilograms its like 197 pounds i think
And i see many girls looking a me even sometimes staring , flirting in clubs , bars even in a coffe shop older chick talked to me and really started flirting she was like 28 30 even tho im 24
"Attracted to" might not be the right term, you can find someone attractive without wanting to build a relationship with them. I personally have different visions of how attractive I find guys: some have the "model look" which I'm not into as some just look too unreal for me to develop feeling for, and, then there's my idea of handsome that I find attractive but doesn't suit your description as he's not necessarily over 6ft (I'm 5'3ft I don't need someone crazy tall) and he's a bit chubby, I want a bit of a chubby man (I'd prefer him to be a bit overweight rather than skinny...).
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A sweet caring man is good but a HOT and TALL sweet caring man is better. But if I already dated the ugly sweet carring man I wouldn’t leave him for a better looking good even if they had the same caring personality. A promesse is a promesse. Look is definitely important, but it’s not the MOST important thing. I admit that an ugly guy have to make more efforts than a good looking man to get a girlfriend and that being carring is a must for him if he want a chance with girls. It’s unfair, but hey! Who said that life was fair?
I'm sorry but your comment about women saying they just want a sweet guy is bs is wrong. I can say personally that I thought my high school boyfriend was SUPER ugly, but I was with him because we aligned when it came to things like personality and vision. People told me all the time I could do better than him because he's ugly lol.
I truthfully dont care if people look good, but I'm not going to say no to someone just because they're tall and handsome.
Yes there are girls who dont mind but, more than normally guys never date them. The reason being is they aren't as pretty as other girls and yes not so attractive guys chose to not even date them either because, a lot of unnattractive men feel like they can get a good looking woman if their only nice enough to her. This isn't reality to be honest and yes there's a scientific reason behind it. This is how humans work im sorry :/
The older I get the more I realize that attraction is about far more than just looks. I've met model good-looking guys who do nothing for me and plain looking guys that I've fallen head-over heels for. I can be attracted to a way a man carries himself, his intelligence, his sense of humour. And on rare occasions just good old fashioned chemistry. I've been insanely attracted to some men for no apparent reason other then just feeling drawn to him.
@AJC997 There isn’t anyone out there for anyone. Finding a relationship often comes down to two things openness and luck. Do I think there is someone out there who would love to be in a relationship with you? Absolutely, I’m willing to bet there are tons but you aren’t going to find them sitting there feeling sorry for yourself.
I don't care about height but I don't see why anyone would want someone who they're not attracted to. Isn't that the whole point? Of course I don't mean just physical appearance with attraction but it's definitely a part of it.
However, what you describe as "handsome" isn't that for everyone. Attractiveness is subjective and people don't all find the same things attractive.
Don't be so salty. If a girl of your dreams offered you a relationship - u 100% would have accepted it. Don't try me with denying it. Now, the thing is though, people have other beauty standards - like I prefer them a smidge taller than me because otherwise I look enormous. I don't care about specific features - I just need to like the face overall. And I would be glad if they were sweet and caring ffs it's a relationship we're talking about
I like handsome guys, sorry. But white guys aren't my type, i prefer east Asian guys. Of course physical attractiveness isn't the only thing that i want in my partner but i can't date a very unattractive guys, just no. If he's not that handsome at least he's average, i can accept him.
Because all of my opinions are odd. I'll give another one of my odd opinions. As much as I like to look at conventionally attractive males I have ZERO desire to date/marry one. I like a hot looking guy, but I know my confidence and insecurity would SOAR if I even had an ounce of a chance with a typical hottie. I prefer men 5'7 to 6'2. I don't need the muscles and all that mess. I want a good dude who isn't attracting half the damn room to him.
Women have different ideas of what they consider handsome. You might be handsome to one woman but another woman might think you're unattractive. I am not going to lie and say I have a type. Everyone has a type. My type tends to be huge South Asian guys with great big beards. However, only one of my exes actually fitted this type. The rest of the guys I've been with looked the complete opposite of this.
Height isn’t everything , would I be mad if my fiancé suddenly turned into a midget? Nope. Would I be mad if he suddenly turned into a Sasquatch? Still nope. His looks is what reeled me in , but his personality? That shit lasts a lifetime and I’m staying put. There’s no definite answer if being shorter or taller is more attractive because it’s all about accepting the one you love for all their good qualities and not so good qualities.
There's someone for everyone. Yes it's more common that a girl likes tall, dark and handsome but it boils down to much more than just stats on paper. It's much more about a compatible partner and finding the right match. Chemistry. That isn't determined by height or face shape.
What's the point of having a guy in my life then if he can't even look good enough to entertain me? But you know, very less women think so I guess, majority women (especially beautiful ones) settle for ugliest guys and then I keep on wondering "Why God why? Why are they contributing to lowering standards for other women"
I'm also a virgin but that doesn't make me or anyone a loser! And better start respecting yourself and pursuing women in your league to avoid dieing alone!
Also, you've nothing to worry about since there are literally more number of beautiful women dating uglier men than those dating handsome ones so you have a good chance that way too (in case you think you're ugly).
Honestly my boyfriend isn't tall or "the best looking guy" to everyone else by to me he's perfect. The only thing that's the breaking point is when he's worried about his looks, his height, saying how other girls look at him in disgust and all of that and constantly talking about it. It took me years of him talking and ranting about it to finally see the flaw and kinda ruined my perspective of him. I still love him, but dammit he ruined that view I had of him and I'm trying to rebuild it.
Don't forget that appearances are subjective. Also, are you worth more than your looks? Is there more to you? Or are you as shallow as your reflection? If you are the latter, that could be why they don't care if you're attractive, because your value is low and is face value at that. Show them that you are more than just a pretty face.
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I'm so in love right now. The guy is about 6 ft or 5'9 I think - just slightly taller than me. He's a bit skinny and before I got to know him, I thought his face wasn't particularly attractive (glasses, huge nose, skinny face, acne scars). But he's the nicest guy ever, he's funny, he's smart, he's attentive, he loves the same things I love...
Yes there really are. The stereotypical hot guy you described isn't a type that appeals to me. I actually fine shorter more chunky guys better looking. But honestly a guy can make up for not being conventionally attractive by being funny and kind, you are lucky like that. An ugly woman doesn't have as much luck (as I know from experience)
I’m over fifty. Not talk. I date young women as well as mature women. If you not getting a woman it’s because you don’t have game. It because women are shallow. Period. If I can get a pretty 20 something women so can ANYONE. You just have to have game. In other words real self confidence. Any other argument is an excuse.
I notice same thing as you. There was this video where girls where asked what type of guy they want all of them said a guy that is dark hair, bad guy type ,6ft tall and business owner. Something like this guy in the photo.
The fact is, many of us definitely prefer tall and handsome BUT only because a guy isn't necessarily tall and handsome doesn't mean that he's a miss or he can't have any other desirable qualities on him. 🤷
You actually reminded me of a guy who's 5'4" but still was a very fashion freak kind of guy and already radiated positivity and confidence. I actually admired him a lot. And yeah his face was handsome too.
I am not very confident cause I am about to ask this but do I sound handsome? I have a defined jaw, high cheekbones, light brown eyes, mid to light brown thick hair...
I actually talked to a group of girls in college about stuff like this during a psychology class. They said its a stereotype but it was actually something many of them still liked. They also said they like the bad boy and even abusive personality. A hot guy is a relative term, but why date someone they dont feel attracted to.
Yes. That's me. I don't focus on looks too much. But at the same time, I need to be attracted to that person naturally. Not because of what others think I should be attracted to physically.
There are girls who don’t want tall guys. There are girls who don’t want guys who fit your description of “handsome.” But they probably consider other things handsome. Everyone has a different type.
Absolutely. It's not as common, but girls like that exist. What you described is not my type at all, I like feminine men. Excessive masculinity is boring.
I dont about height as long as he is not shorter than me. He has to be handsome but not super handsome, just handsome enough. Ugly and cute at the same time.
No matter what they say they always go for tall and handsome guys. I am quiet average and 5’6” myself. But I have other qualities , intelligence , can play violin , can cook, draw have many hobbies. Still never have a girlfriend. Even average girls reject me. Some say I am too good , some say how can you think a girl like me go out with someone like you.
There are some, so not all of them are as you describe.
I think dropping the defeatist attitude would improve your chances a great deal.
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Is there any guy who doesn't want a long haired perfect face curvy yet slim body short and cute yet perfectly proportioned girl? Come on now. Men have crazy ass standards too.
Well i’m bi, but still🤷🏼♀️ I have been attracted to short, tall, chubby, big nose, etc. guys, I am mostly attracted to humour and wits, but I am human, so I also have to find him physically attracted
I posted this one before but I did a survey of female friends of mine and they all said they couldn't care less about a guy's height. However I am sure most women want handsome.
@AJC997 I am 56. 5’6” tall. My current girl is 22 and pretty. I’m not rich, I am not “Hot”. What I am is a man. Confident honest a gentleman when I need to be, bad boy when I want to be.
I don’t worship women, I like women. I respect them, I don’t put them on a Pedestal.
I don’t try to be anything I am not so I don’t come off false.
And biggest thing,,,,,,,,,, I don’t give a fuck if she says no, these another woman 10 feet away.
@AJC997 5''6? hell that's tall. i'm 5''2, and there are so many petite girls out there. I honestly don't want a guy that's too tall. we would look so damn weird. i'd need a ladder every time i tried to kiss him.
@AJC997 what? no way man. Are you crazy? Unless you are filthy rich like celebs, please don't do that to your body. You have no idea how risky it is. Your life is more important than how you look, or what anyone thinks of you. Don't worry. Honestly, you're a great height. I don't think short girls want really tall guys anyways. I don't.
Excellent question. I'm an average looking short guy with glasses. I know such women exist. I've dated a few. In the end, nothing came of it and we parted ways.
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