Are there straight women out there that don't want tall, handsome guys? (Page 2)
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I like handsome guys, sorry.
But white guys aren't my type, i prefer east Asian guys.
Of course physical attractiveness isn't the only thing that i want in my partner but i can't date a very unattractive guys, just no.
If he's not that handsome at least he's average, i can accept him.
Because all of my opinions are odd. I'll give another one of my odd opinions. As much as I like to look at conventionally attractive males I have ZERO desire to date/marry one. I like a hot looking guy, but I know my confidence and insecurity would SOAR if I even had an ounce of a chance with a typical hottie. I prefer men 5'7 to 6'2. I don't need the muscles and all that mess. I want a good dude who isn't attracting half the damn room to him.
Women have different ideas of what they consider handsome. You might be handsome to one woman but another woman might think you're unattractive. I am not going to lie and say I have a type. Everyone has a type. My type tends to be huge South Asian guys with great big beards. However, only one of my exes actually fitted this type. The rest of the guys I've been with looked the complete opposite of this.
Height isn’t everything , would I be mad if my fiancé suddenly turned into a midget? Nope. Would I be mad if he suddenly turned into a Sasquatch? Still nope. His looks is what reeled me in , but his personality? That shit lasts a lifetime and I’m staying put.
There’s no definite answer if being shorter or taller is more attractive because it’s all about accepting the one you love for all their good qualities and not so good qualities.
There's someone for everyone. Yes it's more common that a girl likes tall, dark and handsome but it boils down to much more than just stats on paper. It's much more about a compatible partner and finding the right match. Chemistry. That isn't determined by height or face shape.
What's the point of having a guy in my life then if he can't even look good enough to entertain me? But you know, very less women think so I guess, majority women (especially beautiful ones) settle for ugliest guys and then I keep on wondering "Why God why? Why are they contributing to lowering standards for other women"
*entertain me and keep me interested
😔😔😔😔, I'm doomed to die alone a loser and a virgin
I'm also a virgin but that doesn't make me or anyone a loser! And better start respecting yourself and pursuing women in your league to avoid dieing alone!
Also, you've nothing to worry about since there are literally more number of beautiful women dating uglier men than those dating handsome ones so you have a good chance that way too (in case you think you're ugly).
Honestly my boyfriend isn't tall or "the best looking guy" to everyone else by to me he's perfect.
The only thing that's the breaking point is when he's worried about his looks, his height, saying how other girls look at him in disgust and all of that and constantly talking about it.
It took me years of him talking and ranting about it to finally see the flaw and kinda ruined my perspective of him.
I still love him, but dammit he ruined that view I had of him and I'm trying to rebuild it.
Don't forget that appearances are subjective. Also, are you worth more than your looks? Is there more to you? Or are you as shallow as your reflection? If you are the latter, that could be why they don't care if you're attractive, because your value is low and is face value at that. Show them that you are more than just a pretty face.
I'm so in love right now. The guy is about 6 ft or 5'9 I think - just slightly taller than me. He's a bit skinny and before I got to know him, I thought his face wasn't particularly attractive (glasses, huge nose, skinny face, acne scars).
But he's the nicest guy ever, he's funny, he's smart, he's attentive, he loves the same things I love...
To me he's now beautiful.
How tall are you?
@oneandonly1 5'7
Would you date a guy same height as you?
@AJC997 yeah. Have done too.
Are you good looking?
@AJC997 of course I am :p
No joking. How would I know xD I'm fine I guess
Could you date a guy who looked very young? Almost child like
@AJC997 no
Yes there really are. The stereotypical hot guy you described isn't a type that appeals to me. I actually fine shorter more chunky guys better looking. But honestly a guy can make up for not being conventionally attractive by being funny and kind, you are lucky like that. An ugly woman doesn't have as much luck (as I know from experience)
I’m over fifty. Not talk. I date young women as well as mature women. If you not getting a woman it’s because you don’t have game. It because women are shallow. Period. If I can get a pretty 20 something women so can ANYONE. You just have to have game. In other words real self confidence. Any other argument is an excuse.
Not tall.
What is game?
You ability to talk to anyone, in particular, this of the opposite sex with out being nervous and having self confidence. Believing in you!
Without arrogance, not being the “Nice guy”.
Your find women will respect you more.
I notice same thing as you. There was this video where girls where asked what type of guy they want all of them said
a guy that is dark hair, bad guy type ,6ft tall and business owner. Something like this guy in the photo.
The fact is, many of us definitely prefer tall and handsome BUT only because a guy isn't necessarily tall and handsome doesn't mean that he's a miss or he can't have any other desirable qualities on him. 🤷
What if he is short and handsome?
That's okay too
You actually reminded me of a guy who's 5'4" but still was a very fashion freak kind of guy and already radiated positivity and confidence. I actually admired him a lot. And yeah his face was handsome too.
I am not very confident cause I am about to ask this but do I sound handsome? I have a defined jaw, high cheekbones, light brown eyes, mid to light brown thick hair...
@AJC997 sounds good so far
What else?
@AJC997
I actually talked to a group of girls in college about stuff like this during a psychology class. They said its a stereotype but it was actually something many of them still liked. They also said they like the bad boy and even abusive personality. A hot guy is a relative term, but why date someone they dont feel attracted to.
Yes. That's me. I don't focus on looks too much. But at the same time, I need to be attracted to that person naturally. Not because of what others think I should be attracted to physically.
As long as he’s taller than me, I don’t care. I’d just feel uncomfortable looking down at my man, personally.
What if he's an inch taller?
I’d prefer my height as an absolute minimum & anything above to be great
There are girls who don’t want tall guys. There are girls who don’t want guys who fit your description of “handsome.” But they probably consider other things handsome. Everyone has a different type.
Hi Weasley! Sorry to bother you. Could you please give an opinion on the question I posted?
Absolutely. It's not as common, but girls like that exist. What you described is not my type at all, I like feminine men. Excessive masculinity is boring.
There are many guys in relationships who don't fit the criteria you listed.
I want to be in a relationship
I dont about height as long as he is not shorter than me. He has to be handsome but not super handsome, just handsome enough. Ugly and cute at the same time.
And yes there are women who dont care too much about height and want someone who's sweet. Grow up.