Guys: Is it a turn off if a woman tells you she’s still a virgin? (Page 3)

[xkforcesc2]

It doesn't matter if it is or not, you're better off making your boundaries clear and if that pushes some men away so be it. You know what you want and should be weeding out those men that aren't compatible in that way sooner rather than later.

[litty]

It's not a turn-off. However, telling me that information makes me think they are interested in losing it. So there could be a huge miscommunication there, and if she didn't clarify, then that could awkwardness could be a potential turn-off

[bklynbadboy1]

For me that's a major turn on for me but the problem with that is your attracted to a guy that has had sex and has wants and needs so if your not ready you have to tell him asap

[ManOnFire]

Not a turn off, but nothing that would excite me really. I think I would have to be extremely crazy about her to be excited that she's a virgin.

[Anonymous]

I’ve heard arguments from both sides. The pro is: when you have sex, it has the greatest effect on her attachment to you. Con: once you have had sex, she is heavily encouraged to cheat so she can try to find the most pleasurable dude. The first one was from many sources and the second is from a female friend of mine as a way to console me from an ex who just (most likely) cheated on me and was also a virgin.

[xkildy]

Lord no... I would nearly marry the women on the stop... If she told me she was a virgin and was interested in me...😍😍😍

[markscott]

Being a virgin is not a turn off. If I were dating, I'd be glad to hear that a girl I'm interested in is a virgin.

[NoPoliticsPleeease]

For a long term relationship any guy would prefer you

[MissDawn7961]

If you have had sex then you have dated unless your a hoe ! Thanks

[goaded]

From the context, I'm guessing she meant never, not nevertheless.

[Wvguy]

You are your own person. If he doesn’t respect your wish to remain that way until marriage, it’s his problem. It wasn’t meant to be if he tries to force the situation. Just tell him.

[Vesta]

As long as she has no STD's and or children, and or legal trouble, and or current boyfriend (cheating on him with me). I'm ok with her sexual history

[Aphrodite801]

Girl if he has slept around you might as well break it off right now. He isn’t gonna wait

[lightbulb27]

that was me as well. no it is not at all, it's a positive.

[AngelLily]

If I was a dude I definitely wouldn't have a problem with it I actually would like that she's one even more.

[hahahmm]

Not if the guy wants very deep/serious. Otherwise maybe

[sawno]

Don't worry about it and be open. Guys don't mind but will be more gentle if they know.

[N192K001]

Hell no! If she has the internal-strength & moral-conviction, that's a plus.

[Docnomania]

I wouldn't ever date a virgin unless i saw some serious long term potential.
Just my opinion

[Mr_Mad]

its really a big big big turn on for me.
I like and love virgin girls

[pinkhoodie53]

You should tell him. If he gets upset about that then he doesn’t deserve you