I accidentally pulled down her bikini, what are the chances she thinks I did it on purpose?

[asd_nasa]

My family recently had another family over for a pool party, and they brought their two sons and daughter. The daughter is my classmate and a good friend. Anyways we were playing Marco Polo in the pool, and I was playing polo (the blind player who had to tag someone using the direction of their responses). Anyways at point during my time as being “it” I heard her respond “pool” very close to me. So I immediately lunged in her general direction and my hand found her underwear (or whatever you call the bottom piece of a bikini). My finger snagged on the end and I accidentally pulled it loose. Fortunately this was all underwater so no one else saw (I had my eyes closed the whole time). Anyways when I resurfaced I immediately apologized but she seemed a little quiet. The rest of the time went well I think, though needless to say I was extremely embarkation coming off as a creep. What do you think she felt or thought? Does she hate me now or think I’m a perv? I didn’t go into detail with what happened with her, as I wanted to avoid the awkwardness.

[KezHarris]

If a guy pulled my bikini bottoms by accident, i wouldn't care that much, since im not shy about my body, so if its a guy similar age to me, or a few years older or i know the guy, then i would just laugh it off and i might even be turned on by it!! 😂 ... there was one time when a guy (who im friends with) caught me peeing in a bush... so i wiggled my naked bum at him and he said "nice, perky ass, Keziah!" 😂😂(but thats because i have a confident personality).
However, if it seemed like the guy did it on purpose and he was a pervert or a complete stranger, i'd frown at him and tell him to f--- off and tell everyone what he did to me!!

[asd_nasa]

Well then

[jacuzzi75]

would you ever pull down a friends swim trunks if you knew he had a small dick?

[Anonymous]

Were you serious about the apology? It can be taken as insincere id you were saying sorry and smiling or giggling bc of awkwardness. The apology has to have no sign of laughs so it doesn't come off as insincere and even taken lightly

[asd_nasa]

I was quick about the apology, I was like “I’m so sorry” but either she didn’t hear me or she ignored me. It was just normal and I had an embarrassed kind of tone.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you're fine she's just embarrassed as well i think

[markscott]

A lot depends on you past relationship with her. If you have always been decent to her, she will more likely forgive. Is she tends to be quiet, she may have more difficulty understanding. Just ignore the situation for now on, and it will help her get over it. The exception is if she seems to hold a grudge or distrust you. Then you might simply say "I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to do it." And say nothing more. Or you could do the same with a note. But definitely leave it alone is she doesn't pull back from the friendship.

[asd_nasa]

She’s likes to talk to me a lot but I’m much more quit and reserved, that could come off as creepy since she doesn’t really understand or know me too well

[markscott]

asd" If she still talks to you a good amount, say nothing more. If she avoids you, then for you to maintain the friendship, you may have no alternative than to briefly apologize to her in person. That would be the better way. And of course, in the apology, say it was an accident. But make the apology short.

[asd_nasa]

I just want to know how she viewed it, because if most guys had this sort of thing happen to them by a girl, they may take it as a signal or something, you know what I mean?

[asd_nasa]

And since I don’t know the fame pysche, I’m curious

[asd_nasa]

Female pysche*

[markscott]

asd: I think a most girls would think it was a mistake, and forget it. A few more would think it might have been deliberate, but not a big deal. A few others, would think it was deliberate, and not want to talk to you again. It largely depends on her thought process.

[andreasderjuengere]

Results count. Not the methods or motivations. You did a great job.
And she will forgive you.
…
one day ;)

[asd_nasa]

What do you mean?

[andreasderjuengere]

You over think this meaningless 'incident'.