I am in shock to have found out, that women actually don't love men. Have we been fed lies, that women are the hopeless romantics, that are always wanting love from her boyfriend?
Unfortunately that is exactly what is not happening. Women don't love men. I don't see it happening. I never had it and neither did my peers. Men on the other hand go through such great lengths to pursue and ask a woman out.
What should we do now if we dreamed so much to find love but women really do not love men? Will we die younger without a woman's love? I thought men and women were designed to be together and to love each other.
I was hoping to get a woman to love me because i do love them.Love means nothing when women don't love men. Well that's it then. Good life and well lived so far. Now begins the real challenge. Truth is: There's no such a thing as love or girlfriend😐 (change my mind) We're on our own guys.No such a thing as love or girlfriend
What kind of self-pittying dribble is this? Seriously you need to Man Up! Love is real and real Women love hard. A girls love is conditional, a woman's love is unconditional.
You aren't old enough to made any conclusions at all. You won't find a real woman either until at least the age of 28. Our brains don't stop developing until around 25 years old. What's the difference between a Girl and a Woman? A woman has become stronger than her emotions. What's the difference between a boy and a Man? A man realises that he actually has and is in tune with his emotions.
Your attitude is what is unlovable. That's on you to fix.
1. Dating... it's all backwards now. Women are now the pursuers, (definitely the oppositeof 10 years ago). Go and watch a romance movie... then... do the exact opposite. While women love those fairytales... it's the oppositein reality, despite what they say;
2. Women fall in love very slowly over time Don't expect for her to be in love until around the three month mark typically as an earliest possibility. Now.. we Men fall very hard and fast, so do not show your hand of emotional cards. It's okay to have emotionsand you will... but bury them until she reveals her hand first. Do not be needy, thirsty or clingy. The Lust phase can last for 1 to 2 months. Don't do crazy shit.. do what you normally do. Don't sleep or manwhore around but definitely date around. Don't throw all your eggs in one basket ;
3. DO NOT try and make her like you or attract to you. YOU CAN'T! Just be yourself. If you do try.. you'll just push her away.
4. Be a challenge, (doesn't mean play games). But she needs to know that she has to work if ahe wants you. Know your worth. Do NOT try to please her. Just be you (as above). Be a climber not a crawler.
5. Do not communicate with dates as if you are in a relationship... EVER. Keep communication short and only where necessary. No good morning/night texts unless responding to hers. Don't have long phone calls outside of dates. She needs to wonder about you. Don't give any info out unless you're on a date. The only time you should call her... is to set up a date, or... to confirm a date.
6. Work on yourself. Get new clothes, definitely some nice cologne and work on your self grooming. You have nothing to gain and everything to loose by trying to rush. You need to want a future partner... rather than need one. Your life needs to be complete and you meed to be happy being single. Partners are desired to compliment our life... not complete it.
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