I asked my grandma if my cousin was prettier than me and then she told me that everybody has a different beauAnd does that mean she's prettier?

[Anonymous]

I guess you could say I'm kind of jealous insecure and confused because my grandma tells me that I am simply cute or pretty and then she says that my cousin is Very pretty she doesn't say this at the same time but she never says that I'm very pretty just simply cute or pretty. And I'm confused because my cousin swear very heavy makeup and it does not look good even the eyebrows are very brick and black they look like they're drawn with a marker and she has a big nose and I was just confused and felt a little bad I feel disappointed for talking this way and thinking yeah

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She said that everybody's has a different beauty that was her answer

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And she told me not to compare myself with people that she does not like that and that I am very pretty

[markscott]

I don't know what your grandmother was thinking. She may have thought you were less pretty, and didn't want to hurt your feelings, or maybe didn't want to say you were prettier, and have it get back to your cousin. Either way, it's a very bad idea to be asking people if you are prettier than someone else. It often doesn't end well for someone.

[barnfir3]

Don't get caught up in what others think. Beauty is not just the way someone looks. Jealousy is not pretty. Being insecure is not pretty. you need to understand that you are you discover your strengths and exploit them to the fullest your confidence will shoot threw the roof and you are beautiful!!!

[Anonymous]

In your grandmas eyes your cousin is probably prettier. But that doesn’t mean you’re not pretty or that you should feel bad because just like she said: beauty is in the eye of the beholder so her personal opinion doesn’t matter

[MlleCake]

Stop comparing yourself and asking your family to decide such a thing.

I promise you are wildly more beautiful than you think you are.

[nerms123]

Grandma probably thinks cousin is pretty but that doesn’t mean she has good taste.

[Asker]

Is she saying that she's prettier in a nicer way?

[barlow]

She doesn't have a ranking. Stop turning it into a competition.

[Secret6620]

It just means she is not engaging in a silly conversation. 😊😊

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Why are you asking your grandma of all people? Better of asking someone you know won't be partial.

[nixon1509]

Grandma has early onset dementia and your cousins a whore. And unless you want to bump uglies with grandma you shouldn't care if the old coot thinks you are pretty or not.

[blondfrog]

Your grandma was telling the truth.

[Asker]

Is she saying that she's prettier in a nicer way?

[blondfrog]

No she was saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[yucef]

She told u the truth

[Asker]

Is she saying that she's prettier in a nicer way?

[yucef]

If ur cousin ask her the same question , she ll have the same answer , belive in ur self

[teamvic]

Low key yeah😂