22...never been kissed or asked on a date?

[ilovenerds]

Hi! I'm 22 and about to graduate from college (Go Bruins!) and have never had a guy show interest in me. I am friendly and definitely approachable and easy to talk to. I have a great memory when it comes to meeting people so I have no problem approaching others. I'm a goofball (but not in an immature way) and my friends laugh at my jokes, people tend to laugh at my scenes in my theater classes, etc.

l've been told that I am cute, funny, nice, smart, great smile (yah braces for 6 years!), entertaining, nice singing voice, have the best hair, loyal, "super nice..." BUT I swear no guy has shown interest in me and no guy has definitely asked me out or tried to pursue me. They always squeeze me in a hug and stuff, but not in a romantic way or anything.

All my friends are either dating or in relationships. This doesn't bother me, but people will ask me why I am not in a relationship or dating and then it gets me thinking. I have shown interest in some guys, but the feelings were never reciprocated.

Just wanted to hear some thoughts on this. Thanks!

Updates

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I forgot to say I'm Asian and at UCLA. I'm not "fobby" if anyone is wondering that lol.

[rdxhai]

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say there intimidated by you for some reason.

Maybe, maybe, not but just by the way you described yourself it doesn't sound like it should be any thing else.

[ilovenerds]

I don't think I'm intimidating lol. I've asked my friends that before and they say I'm faaar from that.

[LivelyMind]

Wow ! tht's pretty sad I must say am 16 turnin 17 real soon & neither so I feel your pain , all in time all in time or jst maybe your not takin the initiative yourself ?

[JaDeDxCaLcuLaTeD]

ok perfect example here look at this girl she's stunning and she's never been kissed or dated. She's really intimidating so I wouldn't approach her lol

[ilovenerds]

What makes a girl intimidating? If a girl is friendly and approachable where does the intimidation come from? I'd understand if a girl (or guy) is super attractive and lots of people are interested that is definitely intimidating, but for everyone else...?

[LivelyMind]

Jst by my pic? aha thanks :P your sweet<3

as they beauty is a curse or a blessin , seems more like a curse @ this point

& what makes a girl intimating is of course her looks via sex appeal, the other person may feel they are not deserving , her attitude or how successful and independent she is

[Anonymous]

well from your username I'm thinking you are a nerd as well? from what people say you are I'm guessing you are very intimidating

[ilovenerds]

Haha no I'm not a nerd. I mean I study and do my work (everyone here does), but I still party and have a social life. I don't "look" like one either. I generally dress casual and dress up a bit more when I go out. I don't get how I could be intimidating though because I honestly do not feel that I am. Can you explain please?

[Opinion Owner]

hmm are you a bitch to guys? I heard guys don't like bitchyness

[Anonymous]

i'm 23 and never had a girlfriend