Dating, sure, so long as she keeps it to herself and out of my house, car and away from me and that she knows I won't cover her and bail her out if she gets caught with it.
If I am looking at her as marriage material, the answer is no. I want her to be a role model for our kids and doing drugs around them growing up is not parental material.
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Not a turn off. Those who are turned off by it are against weed in principle anyway. Which is fine cause why compromise on what you like?
There nothing like men and woman anymore haha. By the way my boyfriend drinks alcohol with me but I don't smoke. I ask like - teach me to smoke , he said no I won't teach you coz it's bad for health but if I'd smoke already before he meeting me, then we'd smoke together haha. So guys are just caring.
It's all good by my account it doesn't really matter I smoke sometimes it gets me pretty fried tho so I wouldn't think it makes me look very cute makes me eat slot and act stupid so if that's cute or a turn on then I guess that is good if not then well guess it depends on the person
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I read all the replies and I'm surprised at the answers. For a start, weed isn't even a drug really. They are all acting like it's heroin or something. I find people who smoke just cigarettes a little stupid, why smoke if you're not smoking the good stuff! Like, why drink coffee if it's decaf? There's a lot of weed smokers out there and it's the people who act like it's a big deal that is a turn off to me. Even if it is illegal
It a turn off for me because if do get with her she going probably want me to buy her weed. Also I don't like the smell of weed
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for your assurance, she will 100% will not make you buy her weed, stoners are extremely particular about that. if she does, if any stoned does, its definitely a flaw on their character instead of their habits
yes. we have specific etiquettes to respect each other’s weed & non-smokers. i’m so sorry if someone broke those and made you buy them weed. horrible person in general. sorry for that experience my dude
It very much is for me. I've never liked it or how people are when they are on it. It's aggravating. She most likely does it regularly too because no one just smokes "occasionally". It's an addiction. People who smoke weed have to smoke to make themselves feel better because they fucked their brain up.
I know a lot will get mad at this declaration but I don't care, I'm right. I see it. I don't want it in my life.
It wouldn’t really be a concern for me unless she wanted to move into my house or she might be having my babies. Otherwise I don’t see it as a positive or a negative. When I was a teenager I liked hanging out with girls that liked to party, but once I go out of high school, I generally stopped getting high and running in that circle.
smoking is generally a huge turn off for me. however with weed it depends on the legal status. because to me it makes a significant difference if weed is legal and she just indulges in legal recreation, like i do with drinking alcohol or if she puts her drug use above the law... i mean you can think about weed being illegal what you want but breaking the law for a stupid recreational thing? no. i don't wanna deal with such people.
It can be if it is illegal and if the smell is overbearing... If it is a pleasant smell that is one thing but while it can be seen as better smelling than cigarette smoke it still might have an unpleasant odor.
I have never and would never hang out or date druggies. I choose people in my life that push me to be better, wise people, successful people, mature people... those whose influence on me will make me better... not druggies going no where, trying to pull me down and live a screwed up life that them.
@Confidenceoverload There is your error. Why would I need to gamble that I have the minority druggies with a heart of gold that controls their addition so powerfully they still live exceptional lives? I don't. Exceptions to the rule do not negate the rule. I do not hang around druggies. You can hang out with all you want.
It’s not a minority actually it’s called people who have self control that’s your error You doubt the mind the most powerful part of any human And Fate is not determined by what you do to relax
There’s a difference between trying to change a mentality and speaking a fact You can choose to accept the fact and move on or ignore it and move on You made the choice to ignore it I won’t force a ideal down your throat that you don’t believe in
Depends on the person. I dislike Tattoos, smokeing, drugs, etc... (yes i am really lame), so it's a turn-off for me. If the Type of man you like is one of the above, doing/having the same traits would probably be a turn-on, suggesting you understand or share an interest with each other.
Really depends on how responsible they are with the habit. For instance, if they live for it everyday and have no direction, I'll pass. Now if they use it for social and personal reasons. I wouldn't mind.
Don’t ever think doing drugs will add to your appeal. They don’t. The only people who will find your weed/drug use appealing are people looking for someone to do drugs with.
Nawww its not a turn off. Its actually kinda funny i can't smoke it cause i go overseas for work but I don't know. Its different cause it sometimes helps get the girl outta her shell and talk about likenspace and shit. Hmu tho lol!
Smoking weed is an absolute deal-breaker for me 100% of the time. Same with heavy drinking and smoking anything else. She could be otherwise the prettiest, nicest, cutest whatever in the world, it doesn't matter.
I'm allergic to second smoke from cigars and cigs. It could be the hydrocarbons or cyanide. Something in it eventually causes my nose to bleed. Though weed barely irritates me, depends on the strand, I guess.
Yes and no, on one hand I wouldn't have excuse myself to smoke, but on the other my supply gonna be running low. But overall I'd prefer to date a pothead than an alcoholic or drug addict (no offense)
It definetly is - for me i really hate the "bad chick image" I dunno why people are attracted to a person who does "bad" things like smoking weed, being an a**hole in relarionships and stuff For me: the calmer and "regular" a woman is, the better
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