How do I turn a SHY guy on without actually touching him or being naked?

[jordbenatar]

i really like this guy he's like so cute and I wanna hookup with him SO badly. he seems really shy, or like prude. I don't think he's the type to hookup with anyone. but how do I turn him on to make him WANT to get with me?!

[Prof_Don]

Go out of of your way to make him feel comfortable.

Example: if you're in a group of ppl, give him the majority of your attention.

As a former shy dude, doing this will definitely make a shy guy be @ ease. Also, an important part of communication is ASKING QUESTIONS. Instead of saying "this drink is awesome", say "what are you drinking?" or "what made you want to choose that?".

Shy dudes can be socially passive @ first, & (this is coming from a salesman here) asking questions provokes responses.

If you say statement, he will most likely, because of his shy nature, be un-reactive & say nothing or just ad-lib you. Asking questions in the convo will provoke him to talk, then he'll eventually open up (be patient), then you'll more often than not find out that he's an interesting dude beyond the social wall that he unintentionally has up.

As for turning him on...use your inner feminine powers & flirt with him. You may have to be more direct with a dude like him because he may not "get" that you're flirting (referring to the "social wall" I referred to). Pretty much...smiling isn't gonna be enough.

Tap into that feminine energy & show that you want him, & he'll most likely not turn you down [I saw your pictures]. :)

[MILLIONDOLLARSMILE]

It depends how shy he is... if he's really shy you could just talk to him and show him how much you like him through conversation,(flirting) but if he's just the average shy that is capable of talking to people you'd have to at least do the same, but you'd have to know what he likes too. (You have to know what he likes in a girl, if you're a friend just ask him)

[amber622]

Why would you wanna hook up with him if you think that is something he doesn't want to do. If your actually interested in him and want to be with him then just talk to him and tell him what you want to do. Usually ddescibing things you wanna do will turn any guy on.

[Anonymous]

Be EASY TO TALK TO. Shy guys get intimidated easily & are anxious of whether you'll accept them or judge them. So, just be nice, simple, smile to comfort him and spontaneous. Good luck!

[Lovelesspassion]

Why do you want to "turn him on" so badly?

Why not just date him or hang out with him?

If you really want to "turn him on" the best thing to do is make him comfortable around you..

[kidblue]

if he really isn't that type of person then don't you think tryin to do what you want to do is kinda messed up?