Do guys even know that women indeed dress up for themselves at home and take cute pictures?

[CubsterShura]

Men often say that if women dressed up for themselves then they would have dressed up at home.

The thing is, many of us actually do it. We just wanna see ourselves in different outfits, take pictures and keep them to ourselves. Sometimes we do show other people those pictures, and they are always our girl friends. Boys have no place in this.

[Kurαȷ]

That's not what we mean, but ok.
What we mean is waking up, and putting on a nice dress to wear at home, all day, every day.
That's what a person who claims they dress "for themselves" would do, all day, every day.

A person who "dresses up for themselves" would ignore all social dressing codes and social norms, and would feel nothing neither good or bad about what they are currently wearing, because, again, the perception of other people allegedly doesn't matter to them whatsoever.

Do you go outside in the things you wear at home without feeling negatively about it at all?

[CubsterShura]

Actually, I do dress in ways that's more over-the-top and I don't care if I'm overdressed. When I started doing it initially some people would laugh at me but overtime I learned to pull it off.

At home, if mom didn't scold me then I wouldn't have a problem with letting them look.

[Kurαȷ]

But would you go outside under-dressed?

[CubsterShura]

No. I just don't like it.

[CubsterShura]

Not that I've never been anywhere under-dressed. Sometimes it doesn't even look that bad and I was once praised by a guy on the one and only sweatshirt that I own, but I don't feel like myself in them no matter how trendy they are.

[Sonorous]

Yes, but only because I have a sister that does that. The conversation with her would usually go something like:

Me: Hey, outfit looks dope! Were you going?

Her: Here lol

Me:

well alright

[LMNOP123]

I often times go out in my pajamas. I always say, I ain’t got no one to impress. And I don’t. I’m often too lazy to care to dress up.
Do I dress up if I’m going to see my one special guy? Of course.

[Isten]

Oh, I'm already waiting for the triggered incel comments. 😂

[By_Nicksiz]

What do you mean

[Sonorous]

@By_Nicksiz - If there was a triggered incel, they'd probably come here to complain about how women are looking good and putting out to the wrong guys. Then whine about how they're a nice guy and how women should choose them over the guys that aren't good for them.

[Jackblue]

Ok, I trust girls when they say they dress up to look attractive for their own sake not because they want guys' attention. It is a little hard for me to understand as a guy, but I believe that the way men and women think about things is generally different. I didn't know they did that at home, I thought they would just kick back, but I guess it makes sense.

[Jjpayne]

That's something thats pretty fun to know! I know if had had tons of clothing and fun fashions like that, I'd probably be doing it too. It's like trying out what you bought. It's fun

[1CentWorth]

Well, I think we all see it pleny on FB and Twitter, etc., etc., etc.. It's pretty obvious when a woman takes 15 photos in one day in different clothes.

[tartaarsaus]

I know one thing, they certainly don’t do it for me lmfao. But yeah, I did know that. People like to satisfy their own standards for a myriad of reasons, which may manifest itself in the form of taking pictures of yourself purely for yourself

[TallAnon]

Of course, just like how guys work out and then flex to other guys or themselves

[CubsterShura]

Yess!

[Massageman]

I've sat for nearly two hours while my wife tried on different outfits in a store (back when they were open), so, yes, I'm aware of that.

[AlexEfron]

😂 most of us know that (I hope most do)
It's be special if a girl actually dressed up for a guy...
At least no one has ever done that for me... Not yet 😅

[Gedaria]

Yes that brings back memories of of when the daughters, were getting ready to go out. A lot big half naked bodies around the house looking for the same piece of clothing...

[Purplemonkey24]

I dont think they understand that sometimes you just want to feel pretty for yourself lol

[Requ1m]

It's never something I explicitly knew or thought about, but it doesn't surprise me. People like looking good in general, so the idea that women dress up for themselves at home makes sense.

[COMMODOREII]

Yes. I very well know this. I have many girl friends that i see do this in front of me as if they don't realise i am there. 😂

[morrowlow]

Then why are their pictures all over the internet? Is the whole world their girlfriends?

[CubsterShura]

Who said the pictures on the internet are the ones they took for themselves?

[morrowlow]

so the ones on the net are in a different category and boys have a place in that I guess. If men never see those pictures that girls take for themselves, why should we even care who they're intended for? Your question sounded like men claim that these pictures are for their amusement.

[CubsterShura]

Noooo lol many guys say that if women didn't wear makeup for men they would do it for themselves at home. The thing is, we do.

[the_sinner]

Yep they definitely do.

Ig nowadays girls send some of those pictures to boys via snapchat.

[AkshiJanjua]

Lol no girls dress at home but don't keep pictures to themselves but post it on social media such as instagram, snapchat.
It's normal human tendency to get appreciated for our looks

[Prof_Don]

I know that girls do that! 😛

[Prof_Don]

Especially if your region is under quarantine and most “outings” places are closed; sometimes u get the urge to dress cute and take pics!

[winterfox10]

Yes, of course we know that! lol

[Fuentes]

Idc about how they dress

[GreenGold1992]

I'm well aware

[888theGreat]

Yes , to show guys

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes..