Why do a high percentage of girls get mad when they are caught cheating?

[WalkingCorpse]

So i known guys and girls that have been cheated on and i know they respond different. When guys are caught they are more like oops umm... Then most girls be *SCREAM SCREAM ANGRIER SCREAM* 😂 i just dont understand why they the ones mad

[McMillanD]

Different people respond to high pressure/stressful situations differently. It also really depends on how they are confronted.
For example: if you approach someone with anger and accusation you are going to get an angery and defensive response v. s if you approach someone calm and "understanding" it is a lot harder for them to reflect anger back on you.
However, In general man are usually calmer in high stress situations, it is just in their nature to process and react without excess emotion. Where woman are the opposite. We over think and quickly lose focus between logic and feelings which leads to the breakdown and outbursts you are referring to.
With men, if they get caught, they knew they would eventually and have already subconsciously prepared.
Woman who cheat have as well, but leading up to being caught we have pictured every way it could go down, as well as everything she, you, her mother, your mother, best friend, sister, aunt and second cousin twice removed will think, feel and react to her betrayal as well.
Where you are living in the now and how hurt you are in that moment. She is fighting to spare her dignity and pride in the eyes of everyone she has ever met.
And this is a generalization, I am not saying it is the same for all men and all woman. There is always exceptions.

[WalkingCorpse]

That the best answer I've ever got. Its cool you were actually honest about your thought i feel like usually when it comes to these questions girls be scared to answer.
-🌹for sharing :)

[McMillanD]

Haha thanks! I try to tell it like it is.

[btbc92]

Because of feminism teach them that it's okay to sleep around unmarried if Guys can do it too. They feel it is heir duty to get the best sex of their life with other men if you're not cutting it. They're mad at men's hypocrisy not that they got caught. As long as your not that man, don't worry about why they got caught. They just got caught. They have no excuse for the fornication.

[Oystermudd]

Men blame shift and scream too. It's about 50/50 as I see it.

[WalkingCorpse]

So far I've seen 0 of that but lets say it is 50 50 why might someone get mad for being caught is what i want to know. Like come on how you going to be the one screaming and upset when you the one cheating?

[RemoErdosain]

That's ridiculous. Did it happen to you? What were they screaming? @WalkingCorpse

[WalkingCorpse]

@RemoErdosain no I've just surprisingly always been around when someone is caught. I was with my friend when we walked in his house to see his girlfriend with another dude and for some reason she was angry and apparently she was the victim when she was the one cheating so what do you think about that?

[RemoErdosain]

I think that's nonsense, and she was probably ashamed because she got caught not only by him, but also you. Damn, poor guy. That must really suck balls, when you're there with a friend even. What did he do?

[Oystermudd]

The mad and screaming comes from being caught. They didn't want to be caught. Why, exactly, I don't know. Maybe it's a learned behavior, like the cheating itself, but nonetheless it's actually an atypical response.

[RemoErdosain]

Do you think women use that strategy of screaming and feigning being upset to get out of tough situations where they know they're in the wrong? I'm not trying to be insulting, but I've seen it happen in other scenarios too, and got me wondering if it was a typical female behavior

[Oystermudd]

@RemoErdosain Of course, but I've mostly seen that characteristic from co-dependant and or addict females.

[RemoErdosain]

Addict as in substance abuse, or something else?

[leahzrc]

I wouldn't know