Do all women communicate indirectly?

[pickanamealready]

They say one thing but mean another, it’s like where supposed to be mind readers, is this the case for all women?

[Browneye57]

Yes. AWALT. Women communicate covertly. And about this time some bimbo comes along and says, 'not all women are like that', or NAWALT. Oh yes they are. They are masters at innuendo and nuance, there's always an ulterior motive. Experts at passive-aggressive. And of course they project a lot, so they look for the same thing in what guy's say, so you get the dumb questions here like, "what did he mean by..." Fill in your own goofy comment.

Guys communicate overtly. Pretty transparent, they say what they mean and they mean what they say. If you want a guy to understand something you just have to get his attention and be crystal clear and direct. Otherwise he just doesn't get it. Then you hear the famous, "He just doesn't get me." No honey, we're not de-ecryptionators. LOL

[TessCasie]

Lolllll

[pocketman]

Its not just women bro. I know guys who talk like that and expect you to know what they mean. The difference is men get angry if you ask for clarification, and women usually dont

[Mars24]

I do from time to time. I think we all do to some degree (men included). But I know I can't expect someone to read my mind, even if I am initially annoyed that they don't know what I am getting at. It is always best just to get it out there rather than get increasingly angry over someone's inability to read minds. It is just never constructive, but we are all human and do stupid stuff sometimes.

What I get more annoyed about is when someone is trying to see a double meaning in what I am saying when there is none, and even after I reassure them of that.

[pickanamealready]

That’s the problem with this type of communication, it can make people think there is a problem when there isn’t one

[GlitterFairy16]

I've learnt but men don't take hints and you need to be as blunt as possible with them their not mind readers. The only thing is when you are direct with some men they see you as a bitch but i don't really care as long as I've made myself clear. It makes things a lot easier if your just straight up about it from the get go.

[mindNsoul]

no but it can happen quite often when they're teenagers and early twenties. I've met men who do that too. So I consider it a sign of immaturity.

[pickanamealready]

It does seem immature that people can’t be direct, especially when it’s grown adults doing it.

[mindNsoul]

I agree. No one has the energy for mind tricks and mind reading. Communication is very important and it is a skill if not an art to master.

[PeytonVB]

No not all of us but those of us who are smart enough to read a guys body language and mind etc, are the ones who communicate on a different level. Therefore making it difficult for a slow male brain to comprehend the situation 😁💁🏻‍♀️

[Kdude010]

Females can't communicate to save their lives haha. They can't make up their minds. I think they're slow in the head sometimes lol

[PeytonVB]

As that may be partially true keep in mind that male suicide rates are higher than female because they don’t COMMUNICATE lol seems like guys can’t seem to communicate to save their lives either 💁🏻‍♀️

[Kdude010]

They do actually. Society just doesn't seem to care when males are the victims. Women get their hand held through anything and everything. Women are actually cradled by society like children.

[Kdude010]

Also thanks for proving that women aren't oppressed lol

[Barbaric]

That's not the reason male suicide rates are higher.

Women commit suicide more often than men do. Almost twice as much. The difference is that when men commit suicide they're more likely to be successful in doing so. They make sure to use a method that actually kills them, and they usually plan it methodically.

I know that because there was a time when I seriously planned on killing myself, and I planned everything - a method that would be quick, that would definitely not fail, that wouldn't be too messy for whoever found me, and I was going to do it in a place where the least amount of people would have to see my dead body. I actually planned to leave a suicide note I'd already written nearby, and a note for whoever found that to call the police. There was no emotion involved in the planning itself.

Women on the other hand tend to do it emotionally, in a spur of the moment kind of thing.

When women do it, it's also often I think a cry for help, and they're probably gonna get help. The reason men don't communicate is mainly because maybe we try a couple of times and it falls on deaf ears, so we realise that there's no point. Nobody truly cares about men's struggles, we're not getting help which is why men end up feeling hopeless and suicidal in the first place, so making a cry for help is also pointless. Therefore we make sure it's final if we go through with it. The only reason I didn't was because of how it would impact my much younger sister.

[cjgsu]

Our minds are at another level where we can read minds. So we forget u guys don't have the same mental strength.

[PeytonVB]

😂😂💁🏻‍♀️💕

[Kdude010]

If by "another level" you mean having ADHD then definitely lol. Guys are just more logical and girls can't comprehend basic logic so they resort to insults like children, which you have proven successfully. Speaks volumes about your supposed "mental strength".

[PeytonVB]

Look at Mr English major from Harvard stepping it up with his word game 👏🏼 props to you buddy 👌🏼

[PeytonVB]

I sense misogyny

[cjgsu]

@peytonvb does it sound like this guy might be jealous that he doesn't have the mental capacity 2 read minds? 🤔

[Kdude010]

@PeytonVB I sense misandry from two immature 20 yr olds. Surprised at such a young age.

[Kdude010]

Keep on proving my point 🤷‍♂️.

[cjgsu]

@Kdude010 shh women are talking

[Kdude010]

I don't see women here, just two immature girls with misandristic daddy issues.🤷‍♂️

[cjgsu]

@Kdude010 can't even follow simple directions smh.

[PeytonVB]

Either jealous or his mom never taught him manners because DAMN he has a mouth. Honestly if I were anyone in his life with authority I’d have knocked some sense into that tac of a brain 🥴😂 I think someone needs to get laid 😂 what do you think? @cjgsu

[cjgsu]

@PeytonVB... hmm... that makes sense... i heard guys get really angry, when they can't find a girlfriend, because they don't want 2 admit they are the problem.

I think u figured it out.

[Kdude010]

Odd how "Im the problem" when you both were being misandristic from the start. I'm giving you the same energy in return. Dont give off energy that you dont want received in return. You both proved my point. Notice that other WOMEN here aren't being misandristic like you two GIRLs. Grow up honey.

[Kdude010]

@PeytonVB Keep proving that you're girls and not women. That misandristic attitude will get you far in life. You both are simply two immature little girls just hitting 20 with prob no stronge male figure in your lives. You prob fell victim to all the "scary male" portrayals in the media and made you hate men. I get it. It happens to all of us but we eventually grow up.

[PeytonVB]

“Keep proving” this, oh wait “keep proving” that too and here “keep proving” this as well lolllll all I can think of is Adam Sandler doing his stupid voice and mocking Mr Little Dick Energy over here like he wouldn’t make it as a girl LOL he’d for sure make it out to be one hell of a boner killer though! 😂💀And hey 20 and still walking yet your dragging your own name through the mud here bud.. yikes lol fighting with women, not such a good look on you pal 🥴💀👏🏼

[cjgsu]

@PeytonVB 😂😂😂

[PeytonVB]

“Fell victim” only one who fell victim is you, fell victim to these word dicks. Probably likes being talked down to like this, Degradee ass 🤨 does that do anything for you? Make your little pp bigger? I should stop I’m just making it better yet worse 🥳😂💀

[PeytonVB]

@cjgsu work hard play hard 💕😁

[cjgsu]

@PeytonVB u know it.

[funnywi5]

Most of them to be honest. We say stuff and expect you to get the hint or pick up what we are saying enough to continue on what the goal of our hint was. I would say in general yes

[MzAsh]

It’s a competence test. Because there are some men out there who get us more than others. Either you’re one of them or you’re not.

[art_hoe]

i think it's the "if u really cared you'd look into it and see what i really meant" if ynow what i mean. if you don't know what i mean, then i don't either ngl TWT

[Simplismilez]

I don't. I say what i mean and meam what I say. I don't like games or bullshit so I try not to do that to anyone else.

[JaneDoe377]

I used because I never had the spine to say what i meant but not anymore. No time for guessing, it's a waste of everyone's time.

[Ninafrances3]

Many women do that and shyness might be part of the reasons, but there are also more straightforward ones

[bobalife]

LOL yes a lot of women.. 😇 esp when we aren’t happy about something and would hope the guy shows us otherwise. But most mature women use open communication.

[Unit1]

For very many women this is the case.
What can we men do about it?
Watch what they do, less what they say ;)

[1truekhaleesi]

Yes all of them. That includes the billions of women on the planet. You get your woman card taken away if you don't.

[pleasestopthis]

No, I don't think so... several women I know are blunt and direct, with a no nonsense attitude.

[TessCasie]

I would say if after being with her for quite sometime you still don’t understand her. Probably it could be y’all aren’t mentally compatible.

[DizzyDesii]

Sadly, probably 😂 apparently im doing it rn to someone without realizing

[Niya2006]

[ProLife]

Yes 100%, as you said they say one thing but mean another.
That's how their brain works.

[Kdude010]

Yes and they say "men can't communicate" 🤣. On an intellectual level, I've handled them plenty.

[tartaarsaus]

Basically everyone communicates indirectly to different degrees

[Anonymous]

It's not difficult to comprehend what they want if you're able to think from a perspective of a 13yo spoiled kid.