Why are American women so mean to me, but European women so nice?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

The thing is that in Europe, people are educated besides being raised and fed.

In the US, people tend to be solely fed (overfed) and have a minimalistic social education or if they have some, it is very basic and more than just rudimentary.

The American person is a belligerent and hostile person by nature and is raised to act and behave like this. The recent presidential elections in the past few weeks is the perfect example of such behavior and limited social education.

No real democracy or civilized country would ever behave the way they have done. It is a reflection of the miserable state of this nation, its institutions, its morale and its general behavior.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Yes but British are worse in my experience.

[Twinrova]

Belligerent and hostile are redundant.

[SueShe]

@Twinrova It can mean the same but in this case I am highlighting that this the citizens are belligerent by nature while being and acting hostile as well. You can be hostile without showing belligerence.

I can be hostile to a new idea for example. There is a fine nuance.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[imthequeen]

living in Europe , im a 100 % sure that European girls are more caring and polite towards others , mainly because of the culture i guess , whereas in the US i dont really know if the word' culture' exists lol

In the US most girls like to think they're above guys (typical feminst) and its 'girlpower' if they be rude towards guys

[Yuuibtony]

U look tall

[imthequeen]

@Yuuibtony 5'8

[Yuuibtony]

So example
Me:women are beautiful i love them

Random woman: why you love women? some are ugly

So that a feminst?

[Yuuibtony]

If they are i will start blocking them i have no time for bs

[imthequeen]

@Yuuibtony you've totally got it wrong but nvm

[Yuuibtony]

Explain to me i need to know because I keep getting these kind of hostile remarks not knowing if they a feminist or not, how i suppose to know if you not telling me?

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Some European girls are feminist too and same as you described @imthequeen I mean just look at your username

[imthequeen]

@Tea-Spaghetti stop with your b. s , the attitude matters more than the name , i just thought imthequeen was a cool username for a website like this , that doesn't make me feel i have to be arrogant to guys

and yeah you'll find a few feminists in Europe , in fact , you'd find them EVERYWHERE on the globe , but just for a fact , america has more

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Well sorry for the accusation then European girls are certainly great often times that is true

[drayday4]

There is a couple difference that could be in america we're taught that we're great for just existing and every girl thinks she's a princess waiting for prince charming to come and sweep her off her feet and all she has to do is exist. A lot of Americans look down on foreigners especially from Africa or the middle east because we've been told that they are stupid and terrorists. Mainstream media has painted Muslims as the enemy and less than human and that most of not all brown people are not Muslim. On top of American women currently not being respectful towards men of any degree. Modern feminist seem to believe all men are evil rapist that deserve to be mistreated or disrespected or both. A large portion of American men are becoming more feminized with masculinity being seen as "toxic". While in Europe they still have some royal familys and descendants of some in other countries they know they aren't princesses and don't feel special for no reason. Much less racism built into the culture and history of Europe than the americas.

[Brokenheartedx]

What a lot of shit from the questioner and some of the answerers too...

Typical male pitting women together... U comparing Europeans to Americans... Which Europeans are u on about? Which Americans are u on about... Just dumping them all into 2 groups and coming up with 10

And u wonder why women are mean to u and coming out with the *poor mes sob sob* I'm glaswegian, meaning I'm from Glasgow which is a city in Scotland which is UK and honestly can't answer for Americans but US Scots don't have time for teenys... Teenys meaning men who act like big jessies

[Asker]

When I said European, I didn't mean people from the UK. They are the same as Americans, lol. Thank you for proving it as well.

[Mayank_Lad]

@Brokenheartedx Then why share opinion and justify yourself when you dont have time😂😂

[Brokenheartedx]

@Mayank_Lad because he's a fkin teeny

[Mayank_Lad]

@Brokenheartedx Bitch who the fuck are you to judge him! If you hate then why come here to spit shit.

[Asker]

@mayank_lad she's not mad at me, she's mad at herself.

[flamiE]

It all comes down to how one’s raised and the culture.. I’m sure there’re trashy European women too. But if you wanna generalise like that then it’s mostly culture.. really the roots of a good amount of American women are English/German etc who are pretty wild themselves.. so I don’t think it’s necessary European vs. American women. It’s just that from what I’ve seen American women tend to put up with less, they’re pretty bold, a lot stand up for themselves and most men, American or European don’t like women that are like that for the most part. European women are more chill cause we haven’t been brainwashed into thinking we’re special cause we come from “the greatest country in the world”. I said what I said, I’m prepared for the downvotes lol

[Asker]

In my experience, American women tend to be narcissistic, and quite manipulative. They seem to be rather two-faced as well. When I said they are mean, I did not mean that American women are bold, European are quite bold and so are Pakistani women. American women behave as if you owe them something, we really don't owe anyone anything in this world.

[flamiE]

I see now, well I don’t know enough American women to make claims like that but from what I’ve seen most want a man that’s got it together and are living the dream and if they are any less than that they’re not worthy.. as if they’re up there and you need to have a specific set of traits and other things for you to have a chance.. like they’re not interested in helping you build those things they want you to have them right off the bat.. that’s what I get based on what men say lol so yeah I guess you can say some are kind of narcissistic.

[Asker]

That is also not what I meant. I am not looking to date them. When I said, they are narcissistic, I meant that in general behavior towards random individuals online.

[flamiE]

Aw see half the time I don’t even know if someone is American or not online so I don’t know about that but based on what I know about how they are when it comes to relationships I can see how some can be generally narcissistic too..

[NorthShoreCalling]

”I said what I said, I’m prepared for the downvotes lol”
I had to like your option just for that comment! Haha 👊🏻

[FreyaRed]

Don't confuse politeness with weakness.
People from US are more direct, but the certain type you are surely interested in has specific criteria in EU and in US.
Please don't write me "how r u?" messages because it's looks really pathetic

[Asker]

Huh. What type am I interested in? I don't remember mentioning that. Don't you think you are being quite unfair by assuming things about me?

[FreyaRed]

So many questions, but I have really ZERO motivation to answer one of them.

[Asker]

Well, you do you. I hope that you open your mind one day though. It's rather heartbreaking to come across someone who I have barely spoken to, to have such strong views about me.

[ririissleepy]

Why are you so rude? He had a question in regards to his personal experience. Nthn to get all defensive about.

[Asker]

@ririissleepy thank you very much.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@freyared you are American aren't you?

[Asker]

@thisismyopinion I think she is from Poland.

[dwiller943]

I think Europe generally has better culture and morals.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Not necessarily true Europe also had terrible history

[ManOnFire]

European are way nicer, yes. That's a fact. So are Asian women.

I presume that when you're talking about American women you mostly mean Caucasian American women, who many of them are entitled and raised to believe that everyone should bow to them on a pedestal like the rest of society has. They know the world glorifies them so they don't care how they act or what it looks like as long as people continue to glorify them.

[Asker]

I was talking about white and black American women. Latinos are quite nice, regardless of their grinder.

[ManOnFire]

Black American women have their issues too, yeah. Latinos are probably pretty nice to you because you look similar to their race.

[Asker]

Perhaps, I find latinos quite attractive as well.

[ManOnFire]

Because they look similar to your race. And that's okay.

[Asker]

They don't look as similar to us. I like latino women because of their mix personality, they are so feminine yet so independent, I love that. Their bodies are quite attractive as well, I love their big butts.

[ManOnFire]

I used to Latina. She was nice. But they're not my first choice anymore. The south American Latinas are best though, especially from Bolivia, Peru, and Venezuela. They're very educated, although Peruvians can be a bit racist and some do think they're above everyone else.

[Asker]

I like Brazilian girls most of all.

[ManOnFire]

They're... colorful lol. Very attractive though, yeah.

[Asker]

Yeah, there is a love for life in them.

[tzdc21]

Because American women have been brainwashed to hate and belittle men on a daily basis. They don't recognize or appreciate us for who we are and what we do, so therefore they act like they do. European women, or women outside of the west really, don't do that because they have different values and actually respect us. That's why they are nicer to you than American women.

[Outofthegrey]

The US is currently going through an issue where just because women now can be promiscuous they should, and in effect a large number of talentless idiots have an onlyfans account and whore themselves out for money.

[BustyNeedles]

Because American women are spoiled, entitled, and abusive. European women have more class, a well-rounded education, and well traveled. They also know that treating a man with respect is a sign of their self-confidence. I’ve been with many foreign women and American women. I can go on and on. In a nutshell: American women are solipsistic and narcissistic. They’re the absolute worst for a moral, respectful partner.

[RolandCuthbert]

You are hitting on the wrong American women.

My friend's family is from Afghanistan. He has never had a problem with women in America.

[Asker]

Perhaps American women like conservative, or sexist men. I am a Pakistani but I am quite liberal.

[RolandCuthbert]

Yeah, when a person says they are "liberal". . . that usually means they ain't "liberal". I don't know who is more liberal than this guy.

He is the coolest, blunt smoking, laidback person I have ever met. He claims to be a devout Muslim. . . but somehow squares that with drinking alcohol and getting high.

So. . I don't know.

[RolandCuthbert]

@thehorriblesheikh Oh and by the way. I don't know if you are Muslim. But being a devout conservative Muslim in Pakistan is the same as being a wild eyed liberal in the United States.

I know.

It makes no sense, but here we are.

[Asker]

For what it's worth, I'm quite openly anti-Muslim in my country.

[RolandCuthbert]

I don't think that matters much to certain folks in America.

You probably should check the crowd you are hanging out with. Again, my friend has no issues. And he looks like the lead actor in Messiah.

[Asker]

I do agree that it doesn't matter much to Americans. They have fixed views regarding people from my country. On second thought, they have fixed views regarding pretty much everyone.

[RolandCuthbert]

Only some. If you hung out with my circle of friends you wouldn't perceive issues. But in some circles, "race" is mixed with religion which is mixed with culture. . . and all of it is just nonsensical. But the folks who hold these beliefs don't really care about facts or logic.

[Asker]

Yeah. I don't think I fit into any culture, which is why I'm kind of a loner even in my own country, and I'm likely going to be a loner, in every country I go to.

[RolandCuthbert]

I know. You keep explaining to me when you do not have to. I am sure you will learn when you get older. That whole thing of trying to prove how un-Pakistani you are. . . won't work.

Just be yourself. . . whatever that means.

[Asker]

Well, that makes sense. What is that movie about?

[RolandCuthbert]

Kumail Nanjiani is a Pakistani-American comedian who has achieved a lot of success in the U. S.

The Big Sick is a special movie. Because it not only details how he met his wife, but his struggle to find peace with himself, his family and his culture.

He is who he is. He is Pakistani. . . and he is proud of his culture. But he is also an American and ver "Americanized". He is brilliant and has a biting sense of humor. It isn't about proving how un-Pakistani you are. It is about finding yourself. Maybe in the end, you will want nothing to do with your own culture. Maybe you will choose to immerse yourself in it. But don't do it because you think people will like you more or less.

Trying to change yourself to please others never works. Find out what makes you happy. And befriend those who can accept that.

[Asker]

I don't think the pakistani culture and I will ever merge, and that's a good thing.

[RolandCuthbert]

Again, do you.

But do it because of what you want for yourself. If you are doing it to have American women like you, well. . . you are going to be pretty disappointed.

[Asker]

Why would I do that to get American women? You assume too much.

[RolandCuthbert]

Sorry. . "European" women.

[Asker]

Sigh.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Aren't American women just European women in a way?

[Yuuibtony]

No white American women are white women who mix with stuff after thier migration to America, Europeans are true white women who have no mixture in thier blood

[Tea-Spaghetti]

@Yuuibtony I don't think it's that black and white but if you really want just the most pure of white girl you're free to move to Europe if you want for that lol. I think there are plenty of hot white girls enough in America for me to move exactly...

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Also @thehorriblesheikh Europeans are more diverse than Americans especially between North and South, East and West. So it might help to specify

[Yuuibtony]

You European? Because these white American women are picky and society brainwash them to believe they value in looks it higher then it actually is.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

@Yuuibtony No I'm a non-white minority in America. I like European women too but there is more culture and language difference. Like especially Eastern European women are beautiful and feminine. But I am too lazy to learn Russian or Ukrainian or something like that ha ha so I just try to be happy with what's around me (for now)

[Yuuibtony]

I into women who bisexual and stuff I don't like straight women regardless of race but, it hot through girl on girl action, so yeah I think it a perverted fetish I have with women

[Asker]

@tea-spaghetti I meant all Europeans except for the British.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

English people think they are superior that’s why they colonize and form business empires. But some Europeans are not all the same too. But in general I think they are better than British yes at least I subjectively think that

[Asker]

@tea-spaghetti My experience with Americans and the British has been quite similar, both of them are quite narcissistic. Out of all Europeans, I love the French, Spanish, and Italians the most.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Me too I think.

[andreasderjuengere]

Portuguese-European, or Finish-European?

[Tea-Spaghetti]

@andreasderjuengere portuguese I guess cause Atlantic focused. But a lot of Finns in America too and they are very beautiful like a mix of Russia and Sweden for me. Most of them in Northwestern/Midwestern America because similar to Scandinavia. There aren’t that many Portuguese in America but I like Portugal personally. It is Atlantic based like America as a whole...

[Yuuibtony]

How to identify a feminist?

[Tea-Spaghetti]

@Yuuibtony asking them I guess?

[Tea-Spaghetti]

I guess Ireland/European is better comparison maybe.

[Twinrova]

The American women are mean because they are experiencing a Covid induced McDonald's withdraw. You have to feel for those fat, greasy monstrosities.

/s

[Twinrova]

Withdrawal*

[David_Bayer]

When I traveled to US quite a lot of people seemed fake.

[cherry_324]

I believe there are mean and nice people in every country.
Also Europe and USA have millions of women you have never met before.

[have_a_good_day]

European girls are a much better breed than American girls.
They've been raised better

[SuccessfulHornDog]

American Women are going through a bit of a arrogant patch right now. Check back in 20 years

[ChiTown33]

Guessing that foreign women are more traditional? That's just a guess. American women were infected with feminism for the past half century.

[angeliquedevereux2]

Just the way they were raised I guess. I'm not from Europe or the US so I wouldn't really know

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

Because in USA you're a terrorist and in Europe you're someone from a shithole country, since there are a lot of shitholes in Europe it's not so bad.

[TheFlak38]

Because for European women you're like a pet. Like a little dog or cat that must be saved.