If a female coworker doesn’t text me outside of work, should I just be cordial when I see her?

[Abby_Winters]

Well if she doesn't text/talk to you outside of work then that means she doesn't like you in a romantic way, but yes you still should be nice to her in the work setting of course what you do and how you treat her outside of the work place is up to you.

[pleasestopthis]

Sure, you must be cordial towards your colleagues. Is there a reason she must write to you outside work? She probably doesn't think you're close or anything else than acquaintances.

[In_Trance]

Yeah