What does it mean to catch feelings?

Question

I don’t think I’ve ever caught feelings for anyone. Except one girl. But it’s been so long I don’t remember the feeling.

Updates:

13 d

I slightly remember when I caught feelings. She wrote and sang me a song. It was nice but it ended up not being true. So we went our different ways.

Answer 1

leahzrc | 658 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

its really hard to actually like someone that much so i think its normal to never catch feelings especially when you dont intend to catch feelings

ChefPapiChulo

13 d
When’s the last time you’ve caught feelings?
leahzrc

13 d
i can't really say i've had. closest thing to it was maybe when i was 17 and thats a stretch
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Maybe there’s something wrong with us?
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ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Do you remember what it felt like?
leahzrc

13 d
i think there is probably a cause to why we'd be like this, also i don't really remember what it felt like because it didn't really matter in the end lmao
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Do you see yourself ever catching feelings? I mean you’re an attractive girl, I’m sure you’ve had guys interested.

I’ve had girls interested and I’ve just never caught feelings the way they have. And I don’t think I ever see myself catching them.
leahzrc

13 d
i haven't caught feelings at all recently and probably not for a while. i feel pretty guilty about it when there are some people i know who want more from me
leahzrc

13 d
yeah your update... people will write you stuff, buy you stuff, make you stuff
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
She bought me weed too
leahzrc

13 d
yeah i dont understand how people do that when given nothing in return
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Well I would give her stuff too. I’d buy us alcohol with the little money that I had. Or I’d buy her food. Maybe that’s what feelings is? I don't know I have a hard time understanding romantic relationships
leahzrc

13 d
yeah you care about someone and like someone enough to care for them as much as yourself. i dont think i like myself too much to just dislike everyone else but i do think that i don't connect with anyone
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Connecting is hard because people are so wildly different.
leahzrc

13 d
yeah but like connecting emotionally or maybe just morally connecting is tricky
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
The entire idea of catching feelings sounds nice but it’s actually just a headache.
leahzrc

13 d
i think the people who catch feelings are more likely to like the idea of their person instead of the actual person
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
That is so crazily true. Couldn’t be more right.
leahzrc

13 d
yes i usually try to tell people that when they go on about liking me
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
You sound like a real heart breaker.
leahzrc

13 d
i don't want to be lol
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
You could try being less of a hottie.
leahzrc

13 d
i think some people care about looks more than i do so its easier for me to not like a lot of people
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Sort of. I don’t care much for looks as I do finding someone I can chill with.
leahzrc

13 d
i can usually get along with anyone but i cannot seem to like most of them personally
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
True

Answer 2

ChefPapiChulo

When’s the last time you’ve caught feelings?

Answer 3

leahzrc

i can't really say i've had. closest thing to it was maybe when i was 17 and thats a stretch

Answer 4

ChefPapiChulo

Maybe there’s something wrong with us?

Answer 5

ChefPapiChulo

Do you remember what it felt like?

Answer 6

leahzrc

i think there is probably a cause to why we'd be like this, also i don't really remember what it felt like because it didn't really matter in the end lmao

Answer 7

ChefPapiChulo

Do you see yourself ever catching feelings? I mean you’re an attractive girl, I’m sure you’ve had guys interested.

I’ve had girls interested and I’ve just never caught feelings the way they have. And I don’t think I ever see myself catching them.

Answer 8

leahzrc

i haven't caught feelings at all recently and probably not for a while. i feel pretty guilty about it when there are some people i know who want more from me

Answer 9

leahzrc

yeah your update... people will write you stuff, buy you stuff, make you stuff

Answer 10

ChefPapiChulo

She bought me weed too

Answer 11

leahzrc

yeah i dont understand how people do that when given nothing in return

Answer 12

ChefPapiChulo

Well I would give her stuff too. I’d buy us alcohol with the little money that I had. Or I’d buy her food. Maybe that’s what feelings is? I don't know I have a hard time understanding romantic relationships

Answer 13

leahzrc

yeah you care about someone and like someone enough to care for them as much as yourself. i dont think i like myself too much to just dislike everyone else but i do think that i don't connect with anyone

Answer 14

ChefPapiChulo

Connecting is hard because people are so wildly different.

Answer 15

leahzrc

yeah but like connecting emotionally or maybe just morally connecting is tricky

Answer 16

ChefPapiChulo

The entire idea of catching feelings sounds nice but it’s actually just a headache.

Answer 17

leahzrc

i think the people who catch feelings are more likely to like the idea of their person instead of the actual person

Answer 18

ChefPapiChulo

That is so crazily true. Couldn’t be more right.

Answer 19

leahzrc

yes i usually try to tell people that when they go on about liking me

Answer 20

ChefPapiChulo

You sound like a real heart breaker.

Answer 21

leahzrc

i don't want to be lol

Answer 22

ChefPapiChulo

You could try being less of a hottie.

Answer 23

leahzrc

i think some people care about looks more than i do so its easier for me to not like a lot of people

Answer 24

ChefPapiChulo

Sort of. I don’t care much for looks as I do finding someone I can chill with.

Answer 25

leahzrc

i can usually get along with anyone but i cannot seem to like most of them personally

Answer 26

ChefPapiChulo

True

Answer 27

Ally247 | 274 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

It just means liking and caring for someone beyond your control

ChefPapiChulo

13 d
I need a more descriptive, detailed answer.
Ally247

13 d
Thinking of them randomly, smiling when you see a notification, wanting every notification to be from them, putting their needs before yours, if they're happy then you're happy, if they're sad then you're sad. Seeing a future with them, and doing everything in your power to keep them in your life. Just appreciating the little things about them.

Descriptive and detailed enough for you?
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
No. That sounds like a teenage girls idea of what love is. Especially all that notification blabbering.
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Ally247

13 d
Well that was one example. Take note that the way girls catch feelings is very different to the way a guy catches feelings.
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
I think it’s a very immature way of looking at things.
Ally247

13 d
It's not immature if that's how you feel lmao, like I said that was one example. That's like calling smiling when your partner comes home immature.
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Again. I don’t think everyone smiles when their partner comes home. You’re thinking of some kind of Disney marriage.
Ally247

13 d
Mate at the start you do otherwise what's the point if they don't make you happy? Your question was about catching feelings which is the initial butterfly stage. I'm not saying that stuff is gonna last.
ChefPapiChulo

13 d
Okay. True. I’ll agree with that last statement.

Answer 28

ChefPapiChulo

I need a more descriptive, detailed answer.

Answer 29

Ally247

Thinking of them randomly, smiling when you see a notification, wanting every notification to be from them, putting their needs before yours, if they're happy then you're happy, if they're sad then you're sad. Seeing a future with them, and doing everything in your power to keep them in your life. Just appreciating the little things about them.

Descriptive and detailed enough for you?

Answer 30

ChefPapiChulo

No. That sounds like a teenage girls idea of what love is. Especially all that notification blabbering.

Answer 31

Ally247

Well that was one example. Take note that the way girls catch feelings is very different to the way a guy catches feelings.

Answer 32

ChefPapiChulo

I think it’s a very immature way of looking at things.

Answer 33

Ally247

It's not immature if that's how you feel lmao, like I said that was one example. That's like calling smiling when your partner comes home immature.

Answer 34

ChefPapiChulo

Again. I don’t think everyone smiles when their partner comes home. You’re thinking of some kind of Disney marriage.

Answer 35

Ally247

Mate at the start you do otherwise what's the point if they don't make you happy? Your question was about catching feelings which is the initial butterfly stage. I'm not saying that stuff is gonna last.

Answer 36

ChefPapiChulo

Okay. True. I’ll agree with that last statement.

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