Catching feelings is bad?

[Anonymous]

When you catch feelings for someone, why does it feel like you've made the worst mistake ever? When those feelings develop, it seems like they corrupt your mind. Their all you think about.

[kambo_trick3y]

Catching feelings isn't bad.

Catching feelings for the WRONG person? Now that's bad.

Most people? They suck ass at determining who is good, and who is bad. So they catch feelings for the wrong people, and in doing so, they get screwed over. So in turn, instead of realizing they're an idiot and that they should learn how to read people better in order to discern a good person from a bad person, they just stop trusting people altogether.

Like I said, humans are stupid.

[Metlahead]

Do you catch feelings or do you develop feelings? I think the way in which we use our language greatly affects our beliefs and understanding of things. You say catch feelings like catching a cold, bad things... Developing feelings is something you've build, and grown, more positive.

But regardless, if you feel bad, it is probably your subconscious saying that it is the WRONG person.

[stillagoodgirl]

I never thought of it that way

Because nowadays people say Catching feelings but it's more of a slang term and they usually mean in a bad way because it's not cool to be all in your emotions and acting like that all because 1 person affected you

[stillagoodgirl]

It means that you're afraid of love or opening up.

I hated catching feelings too but at the same time I thought it was weird how I hadn't had that Heart skipped a beat feeling.

Catching feelings is good IF you talk to the guy and he seems interested too. Then you just feel so freakin happy right and it makes your day :)

[stillagoodgirl]

:O thank you
And I hope you're not catching feelings for a guy who doesn't feel the same

[DontDropIt]

What kind of feelings are you catching? O_o I don't recall the process ever being like that lol

[HikerDude]

Only immature people use the term "catching feelings." If a girl ever said that to me, I would infer that she was scared of relationships and the uncertainty that's built into them.

[Luvme66]

It is a lot dangerous when you are immature!

But a lot lovely when you know the fact that you are an adult!

[linkywinky]

Catching feeling is soooo bad 😐

[Jack-Shepard]

Just as bad as catching fire.