Does Catching feelings consider fall in love?

[Anonymous]

I catch feelings to my friend but I don't think I'm in love with him. I told him about it afterwards he became distant. If I won't reach him for clarifications he wouldn't hear my explanation. We had a fight online and I told him my feelings were gone.

[Anonymous]

Yes, catching feelings can be considered as falling in love. When someone catches feelings for another person, it typically means that they have developed romantic or emotional attachment towards them. Falling in love involves experiencing strong emotions, developing a deep connection, and feeling a sense of affection and care for someone. Catching feelings often involves developing a crush or infatuation that may eventually lead to a more profound and long-lasting love. However, it's important to note that the intensity and nature of love can vary from person to person, and different individuals may have different interpretations of what it means to fall in love.

[Asker]

Is it okay to tell ur friend coz u trust ur friend?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes absolutely it's okay to tell.

[Asker]

Unfortunately, we end up fighting each other. I'm trying to talk to him to tell him that it was just infatuation at all. But he is trying to distant himself.. until we end up fighting online coz he doesn't want to meet me. He was assuming if we talk personally it means a date for him. He assumes all my actions means romantic 🤦‍♀️ his assumption killed our friendship 🤧

[Opinion Owner]

Staying friends with someone after developing real romantic feelings for them can be hard. However, many people have successfully remained friends after unrequited love confessions. Although it's common for two people not to be able to get past potential awkwardness, it can still be possible for some.

The guilt is the main thing making things awkward here. My advice would be, if things are too awkward, limit the amount of time you spend together. If you're not good friends, this shouldn't be too much of a challenge. Interact only when necessary, and when you do interact, keep those interactions as brief as possible.

[Asker]

I don't think he want to be friends with me again. He can't even look at me after he did to me. I was sad and disappointed by him. I thought he is a good friend that I could trust

[Opinion Owner]

[Asker]

I'm in the acceptance stage. I won't expect too much from him. Due to this, I don't know if I could I trust him again. His lies and assumptions killed me

[Anonymous]

The worst thing is that acting distant. Just clear the things and be normal

[Asker]

We talk about it online since coz he doesn't want to meet personally due to his assumptions. I was disappointed coz he lied. I trusted him coz he his my dear friend. We had a fight. I don't know if it will be back to normal

[Opinion Owner]

You know ma'am recently i said sorry to my crush as i thought that my behaviour was inappropriate we never chatted , we were always looking at each others , this went for 3 years , like eyes do the talking kinda.
So i thought that i should say something sorry to her and of course she didn't understand why i was saying but i thought so i did.

Now ma'am whenever we look at each other she and i kinda avoid each other and want to leave that place as early as possible.

[Opinion Owner]

She is 5 years younger than me

[Asker]

I'm sorry to hear that. I guess some things end with tragic 😥

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know but i was pure wid my side she needs to understand that it's better not to play wid feelings of anyone i hope she understood this

[Anonymous]

Nope. It's just limmerance. Nothing more.

[YourExLover69]

Maybe it's first stage of love.