Girls, Would you rather be a girl who gets LOTS of male attention or none at all?

[Anonymous]

Generally girls inherently get lot of attention , both sexual and romantic , positive & negative from men and even from the women if they're above average beautiful...

As a female would you rather prefer to get lots of male attention of all types or be in situations as men are... as in absolutely NO sexual & romantic attention at all?

Preferably get lots of sexual and romantic attention but only from other women

Preferably get lots of sexual and romantic attention but only from the men

Preferably get absolutely NO sexual and romantic attention at all from anyone. The way men have

[Hurlyburly]

I'm usually not getting any attention from strangers 🤷‍♀️ I'm fine with it though. My boyfriend gives me more than enough attention :p

[Asker]

Generally girls get attention... lol

[Hurlyburly]

Well I'm an exception then 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Maybe guys are intimidated by your height

[Hurlyburly]

Ughh. 😒 Stop it. I'm living in Germany, 5'10 is the average height for men here. Therefore there are many, many men taller than myself.

[Asker]

Yeah but you are a quite tall for a woman , hence men might be intimidating

[Hurlyburly]

Why would a 6'5 tall man be intimidated by a 5'10 tall woman?

[Asker]

Because he's used to 5'5 women

[devilish-cutie]

Im generally considered pretty and none for me please! I reall hate all the attention n dont enjoy it one bit!

[Asker]

Well lots of attention comes with being a female itself and if you are pretty and beautiful then it'll be way more...

[devilish-cutie]

Imagine lile u r always on the stage performing n everyone looks at you. It feels often lile that. I don't know who wants that

[Asker]

I agree. So, would you rather be someone who NEVER get s any sexual and romantic interest and attention?
Also do you get attention from the women?

[devilish-cutie]

Yes i would like to rather not be noticed. I even prefer when i initiate things w a guy cause i feel more in control.
Women dont give such attention as men. Negative aspect of other women is that they can be jaelous and therefore give u rather bichy looks or be rude when you talk. But those are not majority of women.

[Asker]

There are situational where you need to initiate things with men?

[devilish-cutie]

Yes, i mean people r delusional thinking looks give you everything. They dont cause its not all about looks and taste r different. Sometimes a guy is shy, or thinks he has no chance with you. Most attention i get is from men i dont like or want. When feelings r involved and you really connect w someone men tend to be very afraid.

[Asker]

So what kind of the men are the ones who are too shy or intimidated by your looks and hence feel they have absolutely no chance with you and hence ignore/avoid you?
How do you feel about such men?

[devilish-cutie]

If i like them i like them. I prefer kind guys over guys that r pushy.

[Asker]

And lookswise? Since tou are beautiful lady , how much does a guy's looks matter?

[devilish-cutie]

Yes looks matter to me a lot but its definitely about taste and chemistry. I would say i like guys above average looking but plenty of my gal friends dont find attractive guys that i do.

[Asker]

On a scale of 10 you are around 9+?

[Ludoblue]

It depends you want attention from one person usually and only that one person, I definitely don't enjoy getting attention from random men/women, I dress in baggy cloths don't wear makeup really leave my hair Down natural and I still get plenty it can make you feel like a fish in glass bowl

[Asker]

No makeup and baggy clothes, why?

[Ludoblue]

Because I'm not trying to attract attention every day, I only want attention from the guy I'm talking to

[Asker]

But I guess mostly girls say they do makeup and wear tight / short clothes because THEY like it... not for male attention

[Ludoblue]

Yes we do that to feel good about ourselves but also you will get attention if you do that regardless if you want it, tbh you'll get it regardless of how you dress but I like to at least try to side under the radar

[Asker]

So you always wear full pants, full sleeves?

[Ludoblue]

Going out yeah sometimes I'll wear athletic shorts if I'm jogging but I do that at night in the dark

[Asker]

Athletic shorts with full sleeve shirt?

[Asker]

Athletic shorts are the loose long baggy knee length shorts?

[Ludoblue]

I'll wear t shirts but not crop or tight
Like the soccer shorts

[Asker]

🆒 cool

[JosyJosy]

Something between B and C, I couldn't care less about attention from strangers, but from I'd like attention from the person I date. So "Not at all from anyone?" No.
"Lots of sexual attention from men?" Also no.

[Sarahbbb]

I don't like the attention at all from many guys but if it's ONE guy then yes.. Someone that I like and he likes me back.

[Asker]

That's ok. But that's what men experience because of their ugly appearance that lacks charm unlike the girls.
What about getting lots of attention from men in general or absolutely no attention at all , ?

[Sarahbbb]

From many men : NO. One person : Yes!