Girl admits she stalking me but friendzones me?

[Anonymous]

Weird

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She also added me to her private story

[btbc92]

I think you just need to cut that girl off. There's no such thing as a friend zone that's number one. Number two. Do you really want to be dating crazy? Really evaluate yourself because you're attracting a girl that doesn't sound like she is psychologically stable. And what she's doing is actually illegal. It is nothing healthy North safe about what she is doing. What she wants you to do is just give her the attention to feed her ego. That's all it is. Think of it like this. She spinning a web for you to get a corded. Like a predator, once you get caught in their web, what happens? What do spiders do? You got some that eats the prayed right away, and you got many that wraps you around in that cocoon until they are ready to eat you being alive or dead. And that's exactly what you're getting yourself caught in site of her spiders web to lure you in. You not careful, you're going to get to caught in her spider's web. And you better get out away from her.

[Asker]

It’s a weird perdicment because all her friends look at me weird like I’m a stalker. When they have meet me and I would never hurt anyone. I’ve moved on I try not to look at her stories or anything. What’s weird to is she told me she had a boyfriend after friendzoning me so at first I felt like I was the one in the wrong but lately I feel like I’ve done nothing wrong because I’ve been genuine and nice to her and never been “ scary”

[Asker]

All I did that was potentially creepy is still support her ig fitness posts cause I felt like being nice to someone even if they are like this and don’t feed their ego is fine @btbc92

[btbc92]

Listen. Who cares what her friends think. She don't sound stable. She don't sound stable. I think she's lying her butt off and she's manipulating her friends just so she could feel good about her Eagle. Why does she need to tell you she was dating somebody else after she rejected you? All that is her personal business. It is none of your business. I think you better really double-check yourself and ask yourself what made you attracted to that kind of person anyway? You don't even really know this girl. Which is why you befriend a person in the first place and you try to get to know them. You're not even her friend, and you're already seeing red flags. How is it that she has a boyfriend so quick and yes you don't have him now but meanwhile she's private messaging you? Did this not sound like there is something psychologically not correct with this picture?

You're not doing anything creepy but trying to support whatever it is that she's doing online. The thing is is what your intent is. I can tell when someone's being creepy or doing something they should not be doing. I'm extremely guarded, and I can act like I'm treating another person as an enemy even if I can, but I'm not trying to. But if a person like you is only telling me how you feel I would not be so dismissive of your feelings. But I would still tell you if I'm not comfortable or Desiring what you'd want. I would not expect you to support me but I would be surprised if she ate about anything. But I would only be watching you in case you are not respecting my boundaries or if you should not be in my life at all. But in her situation, she does not sound stable at all and she sounds like she needs to get psychological help. Be careful who you meet online as well as in real life.

[btbc92]

That chick is crazy. She's lying to her friends, she lied to you, but she's playing games with you. She toys with men.

[Asker]

Starting to realize that in a sense because all her private story used to be memes and stuff but when I avoided her new story the preview showed and it’s literally a thirst trap in a sense talking about her 🎂 @btbc92

[Asker]

Difference between a self confidence post and an ego boost most definitely a ego boost

[JosyJosy]

Weird.

[Asker]

Yea I guess I was a little too much cause she ghosted me but it’s alright I’m living and learning little upsetting tho