Why she complain when I don't talk to her and jealous when I talk to other women but when we talk again we argue or she get mad at something small?

[Anonymous]

She mention other women i am friends with and say negative things about them.

When i do talk back with her everything great for a day or 2. She's also hot and cold with me. Like 1 min all over me and next she's pulling away. Then her jealousy comes back and or she gets sensitive off something i say. But when i dont say nothing to her it's a bad thing. I don't know what's going on with my friend.

Overly jealous, sensitive to things i say and she's hot and cold with me.

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She's a close female friend who i used to cuddle, hug, forehead kissing, and laugh with. I now just laugh with her and talk to hwr when she's not being jealous of other women i talk to

[Zeppelinrocks]

At this point I think it’s time to set boundaries, friend. I’m sure you’re on the same page as me that dating her is a bad idea, even if that’s what she seems to want sometimes. It’s time to be direct. You can be assertive without being mean. Say something like, “Listen, I don’t like when you treat the people I talk to like that. I see you as a friend, and a friend only. And I want to be your friend, but in order for us to be friends you have to be supportive of me just as I would be supportive of you. The way you’re acting makes me uncomfortable, and it makes me want to avoid you.” Something like that.

[Asker]

She recently told me that she feel hurt that i put other women friends above her. She also said it bothers her that i talk to other women on the phone. I asked her did she want me to call her more. She told me no. But if she soesn't talk to me on the phone then no other female friend of mine should talk to me on the phone. She think i ignore her when i'm around other female friends. I also make her feel insecure.

[modelUN242]

She loves drama. She sounds too much to handle, deranged. I would leave her. And hot and cold, hell no, that's just childish. Oh, she's your friend? I thought she was your girlfriend from the way you wrote it. Well, I donno, she might have a crush on you? But, she should be honest instead of playing these games.

[Asker]

She easily get jealous way too easily of other women i come in contact with.

[modelUN242]

Are they prettier than her?

[modelUN242]

She sounds like a narcissist.

[Asker]

The 1 she hates everyone think they look similar. Everyone else makes me laugh and know how to communicate with me. She communicate with me her feelings then she withdraw them. But when she gets drunk she admit she was so mad when i got my other female friend number.

[Asker]

She think the women i am cool with are my type. 1 of those friend is a mutual friend. She has nothing nice to say about no woman i talk to including her own friend over me.

[modelUN242]

Okay, block her then, she seems toxic.

[Asker]

I see her 4 days a week 8 hours a day.

[Asker]

I work with her.

[modelUN242]

Oh eww... Well, you should definitely get some distance from her. I donno, that's a terrible situation, because if you ignore her and she doesn't like it, she might get you fired or something...

[Asker]

Nope, she make everyone else uncomfortable. Luckily everyone know the dynamic of our relationship. It changed in 2020 when we went from worl friends to close friends that show each other affection.

I talked to her today. She brought up the other girl who everyone says they look the same. She haven't seen or talked to that girl in a long time. The other girl doesm't even talk about her as much as my original friend talk about my new friend

[Anonymous]

Why waste your time with her? She doesn’t sound like a good friend.

[Asker]

I see her 4 times a week 8 hours a day.