Was this man wrong or was it my fault?


question- back just over a year ago I was sat at a table in a club, my husband had gone to the gents,
at the bar there was to me an attractive man, so I started to cross and uncross my legs knowing that movement always draws
the eye, I was indeed showing quite a lot of leg, I know that I had his attention, but also unknown to me at that time
another man had also been looking,
later when I went pass the bar this other man wanted to chat me up, now the question was he at fault for trying it on
or my fault for not looking around to see if I had attracted the attention of other men maybe
the man that I found attractive joined my husband and I in a threesome about a month later
Was this man wrong or was it my fault?
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