If girls tend not to date nice guys then shouldn’t we let them get abuse by that bad guys they choose?

[chris_987]

That’s why I don’t intervene when I see domestic abuse

[littlelady1234]

i feel like you're taking your anger on girls who dont like you and thats not right. many guys who claim to be "nice guys" are just asholes in disguise. You guys say you're gentleman but as soon as the girl who youve been pretending to be nice to doesn't want to be with you you get upset. Why? Because you wanted soemthing in return. A girl doesn't ow you anything. You dont owe someone just because theyre nice something in return. Did she ever tell you she would return the feelings you had for her? NO. You just put that in your head. Honestly a girl will like you if she finds you appealing no matter what. Would you date a girl you didn't like just because she's "nice" and she wants soemthing in return? No, the same goes both ways.

[chris_987]

Your feelings are wrong

[littlelady1234]

no theyre not. Do you think just because youve been nice to a girl she owes you something? What if someone did that to you and you aren't geninely interested in them. thats force.

[chris_987]

Why not be nice to everyone, unless they show you otherwise then you don’t even have to be mean just avoid them

[peachymech]

No one is forcing you to help another human being, ever. Domestic violence is as emotionally and mentally manipulative more than it is just a choice.

Pretty sure if a woman knew he was gonna threaten her daily from the start she wouldn't get into a committed relationship with him.

[chris_987]

No you completely wrong, if you think with you emotions, then love if something your always chasing, most women that get into domestic abuse are with guys that do it in previous relationships and also women that are in abusive relationship have been in abusive relationship in the past. Now anyone with a brain can see that there is pattern her and me stepping into is not gonna change those peoples live style. So I let them continue to make bad decisions because it’s there’s to make.

[peachymech]

People need help and you don't want to help them because it's their fault. Simple as that. Some people are just more empathetic than you.

[chris_987]

I would never let my empathy cloud my judgement, do you think a women in 2021 need my help to get out of and abusive relationship? If that’s the case then there is not equality between men and women because one man can make a women his slave if he chooses.

[peachymech]

I think a man or a woman in a domestic situation deserve help. You don't even know how deep this subject can go with those who allow abuse to happen to them...

[chris_987]

Men only get abused by women because of the system, if a women started a physical altercation a man decided to defend him he would go to jail because we live in society where everyone see the women as a protective class. That situation is not the same as a women decides to stay in an abusive relationship during a time where you can murder your husband and get off Scott free. It’s called “battered women syndrome” so the fact that you think I don’t know what I’m talking about is the reason why views like mine don’t get taken seriously.

[peachymech]

No it's because you present yourself like an idiot.

[Nazgol]

No. Violence is never the answer, it's never acceptable whether they chose nice guys or not. We all need to stand up against violence!

[chris_987]

Guys should do that or girls? Cause I can’t tell you how to dress why do girls think they can tell random guys to protect

[Coulis]

Like what is wrong with your neurons?

[chris_987]

Can I tell you how to behave?

[Coulis]

Can you?

[chris_987]

Women say men shouldn’t tell girls how to behave but you want to tell me how to behave if I see domestic violence

[Coulis]

I never actually. instructed you on how to conduct yourself. I just wonder what is wrong with you to conduct yourself in that way.

[chris_987]

Because you expect me to act a certain way around a women getting beat up? Why? Girls literally choose bad guys and read book like fifty shades of grey so why should I defend a woman that just gonna have makeup sex with her abuser afterwards

[Coulis]

You know what I kind of can meet you halfway. Because I've seen a girl get beaten and have her whole clothes and her breasts exposed in the middle of the street a humiliated like a dog. The next day they were walking hand-in-hand. Do I regret trying to intervene never ever ever. Because maybe he might have killed her at least I did my part that's her business what she wants to do but I will never not step it as long as there isn't any great danger to myself. So that's why I am wondering what is wrong with you.

[chris_987]

Ok the better question is what do girls do for me? Do you do stuff for random guys you don’t know?

[shew997]

Fuck off. Seriously.