Why is my flat chested friend so bitter about it?

[Anonymous]

I'm 29 years old and I have a best friend who is also 29 whom i've known for 20 years.

I'm what most would consider busty, 34dd, and she is the other end of the scale at 32aa. She is constantly telling me off for having any cleavage on show.

She never stops moaning about her lack of boobs and somehow feels she requires constant sympathy. I'm getting sick of it, why is she like this and what can i say to make her stop?

[MuffinBoi]

I reckon if she had larger breasts temporarily would probably have her moaning about back pain among other things after not too long.

I'd say each has it's advantages and disadvantages. As for getting your friend to stop, well maybe she might do so if she either found a boyfriend who appreciates those on the smaller end of the scale. Ultimately it's up to her to stop, though another solution is to ask her kindly to not moan about this, however it could just cause her to retaliate. It's up to you which to go for (can't really control her getting her a boyfriend much though). Hopefully I was of help

[AlexanderAnttila]

Some people become trapped in their insecurities unfortunately. They want so bad to be on the other side of the spectrum if their case is an extreme one in whatever context (such as being flat chested), which leads to a very woe is me personality, and often yes, bitterness at others more fortunate.

[McMillanD]

She has boob envy.
You have big boobs and she would give a leg to be a couple cups up.
Luckily for her, if she hates her itty bitty little titties that much she can always just go out and get a boob job. Don't let her make you feel bad, just take it as a compliment because she wants what you have naturally.
If she is really getting on your nerves then you can always talk to her about it too and tell her that she is making you feel bad for something you literally have 0 control over.

[Asker]

Yeah i think its true jealousy, but she just needs to accept it.

[Jessica405]

She just has the wrong attitude, and I doubt you can change it! She is the same as me. 32AA at best. I love the way I am. I learned if that is to be my final size, I would embrace it, and love myself anyway. My boyfriend loves them, too! THAT helps!

[Asker]

yeah i don't think there is anything wrong with it, but its like she has to put me down. Telling me i'm going to sag etc. It makes me almost want to say something bitchy back but i don't.

She's never had a boyfriend so maybe that could help.

[Jessica405]

I am amazed at how many guys like small ones.

[abc3643]

Tell her plenty of my find her AAs attractive.
Hottest woman I know is an A-cup. For all I know, AA. I don't ask - it's the workplace.
She doesn't try to hide the fact that she's small-breasted either.

[LZPanzer]

Maybe try intoducing her to guys who like small breasts. It may be a jealousy thing.

It play with them all day if I could.😀

[Anonymous]

She just feels inferior to you because you're blessed with an amazing bust that she knows can REALLY turn on a lot of guys. I mean REALLY turn them on! lol! I'm sure you're aware of that as well. She just needs to deal with it.

[spocky]

I believe you should ask her to suck them, and show her how you suck your own!

[Wild_Surpise]

A guy can enjoy both small and large. She doesn’t need big boobs. If she won’t stop start giving her the numbers for doctors that do boob jobs.

[cat1313]

do knot know why she shod be happy for what she have. they are big
my are small 24A

[NoManTwo]

Do bigger tits make a person more of a woman?