This happened a few years ago. Before I met and lived with my boyfriend I lived with my parents and my older brother lived there too. my brother has a cocaine addiction and he has become very violent and crazy over the years. My parents enable him. But this isn't about my parents.
My brother tried to kill me once by strangling me and my parents still force me to live at home with him. Months after he attacked me, he also has been tormenting and aggressive ever since. I wanted to have a drinking day with my best friend.
I wanted to drink at my house. I told my friend everything about what happened with my brother and she told me she didn't feel safe being over there and drinking. But I convinced her that my brother wouldn't be home for the entire day I begged her to come over.
So my brother was actually home and he ended up having some of his angry aggressive episodes with me in front of my friend. He just got in my face and was cussing me out. My friend tried to diffuse the situation by talking him down but he ignored her.
My brother instantly put me in a bad mood after that. Once he left I turned to go in my room and continue drinking with my friend and she told me that she's not comfortable to be at my house anymore.
We could drink somewhere else anywhere but there. And I said, "No, we are fucking drinking here." I wasn't really in my right mind since I was so used to being treated that way from my brother.
Ignored my friend and how she felt and what she thought. So she left. The next few days pass, she texted me checking in on me and asking if I am ok. I Ignored her because I was in my own depressing world. So years later. My same best friend brought this memory up saying that I was rude and really mean by not checking on her after all that happened.
That i ignored her and treated her like trash. She was scared and shaking and I acted like I didn't care. Even though she checked on me after. I just think the audacity she has to demand I check on her. Am I right?
