I find myself assuming women only want a particular kind of guy. Is this a problem?

[Anonymous]

Okay maybe i don't think all women want the same kind of guy but i feel like most women want the 6ft or above guy with a chiseled jawline & abs (athletic & muscular). Is it wrong to ever assume this?

[TurboKid]

Also maybe with a wicked sense of humor, social skills, super-intellect, successful career, fidelity, monogamous values, wisdom, financial stability, assertiveness, charisma, and maturity.

[NathanDavis]

This is very wrong, yes. And it could become one of the biggest problems in your life.

[Asker]

How come?

[NathanDavis]

It's just wrong to assume, in the first place... and it is also wrong 99% of the times whatever thought you have that starts with "all women/most women..." just squash those thoughts right away.

And they will be a problem in your life, because this can turn you into an apope, and you don't want to be that.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

So yes and no, we can be just as attracted to a shredded guy as a guy with a dad bod, a lot has to do with personality and whether we click that way or not

[GirlyGal20]

wrong... look as long as you're not butt ugly and huge you'll find someone.

[Asker]

That's the thing though. Women think even average guys are ugly or deformed

[GirlyGal20]

yeah i'm dating a guy right now who thinks he's ugly. but i think he's cute. and he's tall and lean.

[Asker]

Yeah he ain't ugly. I already can tell just by what you told me. But there are guys that are actually ugly or guys that normal looking that are considered ugly

[GirlyGal20]

yeah would have to see for the normal looking ones, but yeah actual ugly guys don't have it easy for sure.

[GirlyGal20]

it is wrong that we only want an abercrombie model, my boyfriend has told me how he thinks he's really ugly gets passed over for other guys etc. I love him even if he doesn't look like a model.

[Asker]

He may not look like a model but he's probably above average looking. It does feel that girls only want model types now in days though