Do guys only want the novelty of multiple girls or one good woman?

[Anonymous]

[HighValue]

As an actual good man, I'd want just one good quality woman with compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, that is interested in gaming.

[Asker]

Simple and straightforward, I like that

[Anonymous]

First off guys are not a monolith. You can't ask this question like one answer encompasses all guys. Having said that, everyone likes being desired. Guys like the thought of multiple women being attracted to them. Who wouldn't. But a GOOD man only wants one woman. The woman he loves.

[Asker]

Thanks, that’s a good answer. There’s no right way of asking without pissing some people off.

[Asker]

How would a woman know if she is a novelty or the one he wants?

[EmmaMary]

Do you honestly think for one moment that guys actually know themselves! lol

[Asker]

True, just wanted an honest opinion because what men say and do are very different things. The whole rant about male loneliness epidemic, but when a woman actually tries to love them, not many value her. Yes, this is my personal experience and could be different for others.

[EmmaMary]

I guess I've been extremely fortunate indeed in having never experienced this myself. That being said, I'm positively sure you are not alone in having observed and suffered this. We should also remember that neither a man or a woman has been born yet, who completely and fully understands the workings of each other. Such is life!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

I want one girl to unconditionally love for the rest of my life.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Most guys only want multiple women.
I only want wholesome 1 good woman, ideal.

Ah well ; meanwhile the man-whores and the women whores will bang on and bang on - cough cough 😷

[Berethor]

I want one good woman, that means a virgin woman, I don't have a need for multiple hos.

[Asker]

Are you also a virgin?

[Berethor]

Why do you care? anyway I am not going to answer that question in public.

[Asker]

If you can claim to want one publicly, one can assume you would be one as well. Otherwise, why should she invest in you?

[Berethor]

It's usually guys who are looking for virgins, I don't know many girls who look for it.

[Asker]

Maybe not many, but the kind of woman you’re looking for would also likely value a sexually reserved man, given that she had the self control to wait for her man.

[Berethor]

Better than her losing her virginity on a player, it happens so much, but would not answer.

[Asker]

I get it. I think women would also like to have been with a virgin guy but beyond an age it’s not possible or practical to expect that. Also, maybe for guys there is more stigma for not losing virginity by a certain age. So, I’m more concerned with what kind of a man he is now than his virginity.

[Berethor]

I don't want leftovers and baggage, yes it gets harder to find a virgin with age, but I don't want to give up, yes guys can be virgin shamed, so it better for a guy to not tell if he a virgin to random people, for me it also says a lot about a personality if someone is a virgin or not.

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[es20490446e]

When I crave novelty I know I'm not really into that woman.

[Ironco]

A lot of men search they're whole lives for a good woman. If you find it keep her. But sadly the are few and far between.

[Vegasrunner]

Most guys prefer variety

[WhiteThought]

Both

[Asker]

Based on the stage of life you’re at, if you had to pick one?

[WhiteThought]

Novelty of multiple girls will always be what men, in general, want most.

[Asker]

Appreciate the honest answer, thanks