i never understood why girls say they don't want to be able to get their way with their guy, because when girls don't get their way they pout and get angrily quite
What girl? Maybe the spoiled bitchy uptight girls. I like when a man says no to me and can stand up and point out when I'm wrong, if it's within reason (not bossing me around or anything like that.) I love when men are well, men lol and can proudly wear the pants in the relationship.
Humor. Clean (messy is okay as long as they're clean). Not super religious. Open-minded. Tolerant. Smart.
Attractiveness really correlates to personality for me. I sometimes get turned off by "attractive" guys simply because they've got terrible personalities.
i wouldn't mind if he drank a glass of wine at dinner or had a beer amongst friends...but no excessive drinking to the point where he's drunk or drinks alcohol at nearly every meal
okay so first of all...not to sound shallow but I have to be attracted to this person. They don't need to be perfect or anything just attractive to me. I like guys that are silly and just goofballs. Guys are just straight up silly and know how to have a good time. I love confidence as well. I love guys that have good morals.Just a nice guy (:
Oh I see. I find that normal too. You don't know someone's personality before seeing how they look so it's natural to need that first. Looks attract, personality keeps.
My standards are: he must be taller and bigger than me (doesn't have to have a 6 pack or anything), sense of humor, either has a steady job/goes to school/ OR working toward something, has a good relationship with his mom and/or family, and doesn't do hardcore drugs and doesn't have a criminal record..it'd be nice if he had strong beliefs and can hold a conversation too lol. Gotta like dogs too :)
this made me smile. you sound like a level headed girl and not a psycho diva. I'll bet you end up 10 times happer in life than the girls demanding a private jet and a 12" c0ck. good for you :)
@PeterCobra: Well thanks :) I bet you'll find happiness too, don't worry, not all girls require you to have a 12'' **** lol.
@udolipixie: If a guy gets along with his mom/family then chances are he will treat me right as well. And I didn't say I was okay with some drugs, but I think I could deal with weed (as long as it wasn't an addictive habit) even though I don't smoke myself. If I clicked with a great guy who could be my soulmate,should I turn him down because he smokes? Who doesn't nowadays.
Actually I didn't pay so much attention at your answer but something caught my eye which is "loving his mom" that's wonderful, but why is it that you have to mention his mom an not his dad, so you OK if he doesn't loves his father, well personally I would never want a racist girl who just wants to see a mother figure, he must loves his father and mother, cause the father ain't never less then the mother!
haha sorry if it sounded vague but I meant a mommas boy, I love men who love their family overall and especially their mom it tells a lot about them and reveals how they treat women I guess you can say its a psychological/freudian thing men who love their moms a lot treat women the best
What if he have all this little sister but was like me and would like you to become a housewife...if you found this guy, then bring him to me so I offer him a toast:D
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- A little goofy (doesn't take himself too seriously)
- Ambitious ( wants to make something of his life)
-Understanding ( I hate critical people ugh)
-Reliable
-Opinionated & Debative ( he has depth and stands up for what he believes)
- Dominant
( I'm can be a hard ass sometimes and easily walk over people - I should never be able to walk over or intimidate my guy.)
- God fearing
i never understood why girls say they don't want to be able to get their way with their guy, because when girls don't get their way they pout and get angrily quite
What girl? Maybe the spoiled bitchy uptight girls. I like when a man says no to me and can stand up and point out when I'm wrong, if it's within reason (not bossing me around or anything like that.) I love when men are well, men lol and can proudly wear the pants in the relationship.
A strong man, for a strong woman.
I don't have very many, but my few are very important to me.
-Well spoken/Educated
-Athletic or health concious
-Honest
The last one is the most important. I feel like a relationship can survive anything as long as both people are 100% honest with each other
Humor. Clean (messy is okay as long as they're clean). Not super religious. Open-minded. Tolerant. Smart.
Attractiveness really correlates to personality for me. I sometimes get turned off by "attractive" guys simply because they've got terrible personalities.
no particular order:
- shorter/smaller than me, in fact I guess you would describe them as petite
- opinionated/debatable/stands for what she believes in
- don't mind religion but without it is preferable
- outgoing/effervescent/extrovert/bubbly
- experimental;)
- relatively intelligent, I can't stand ignorant people (has common sense)
- unlimited texts :P
- same age17-25
- in good shape, enjoys physical activity
not too much to ask surely :)
oh t*ts she also needs to be physically attractive and not have short hair:)
- must be attracted to him
- Christian (preferably Protestant)
- family oriented
- clean criminal background
- has ambition/goals
- relatively intelligent/has common sense
- respectful/understanding
- no drugs (tobacco, weed, etc...i don't drink & would prefer that he doesn't/only on occasion)
everything else is subjective and not black&white (humor, maturity, etc...it varies depending on the situation)
Very good choice, you must be a housewife role wisher cause it seems that your a decent lady!
how does my preferences indicate that I'm a housewife role wisher?
and thank you for the compliment.
No drinking damn that sucks
i wouldn't mind if he drank a glass of wine at dinner or had a beer amongst friends...but no excessive drinking to the point where he's drunk or drinks alcohol at nearly every meal
for a girl I'm going to keep dating not just have short fling with?
-atheist/agnostic
-conservative when it comes to family values and her body. reformed sluts = no go.
-artsy
-petite
-educated
-can hold a conversation with me
-slightly submissive
treats me right/wont talk down on me/isnt too cocky
honest
good listener with good memory
good hygiene
taller...im just only 5ft so it won't be hard!
he can smoke and drink but I wouldn't be happy if he has a problem controlling it :o
he doesn't need to have much money, just enough that he can support himself. I wouldn't wanna be the one paying off his bills.
okay so first of all...not to sound shallow but I have to be attracted to this person. They don't need to be perfect or anything just attractive to me. I like guys that are silly and just goofballs. Guys are just straight up silly and know how to have a good time. I love confidence as well. I love guys that have good morals.Just a nice guy (:
How would that sound shallow? That's normal. If you would have said looks don't matter at all I would think something is wrong.
well its because its the first thing I mentioned...looks..before personality
Oh I see. I find that normal too. You don't know someone's personality before seeing how they look so it's natural to need that first. Looks attract, personality keeps.
yesssss (:
My standards are: he must be taller and bigger than me (doesn't have to have a 6 pack or anything), sense of humor, either has a steady job/goes to school/ OR working toward something, has a good relationship with his mom and/or family, and doesn't do hardcore drugs and doesn't have a criminal record..it'd be nice if he had strong beliefs and can hold a conversation too lol. Gotta like dogs too :)
this made me smile. you sound like a level headed girl and not a psycho diva. I'll bet you end up 10 times happer in life than the girls demanding a private jet and a 12" c0ck. good for you :)
@Anonymous
Why does he have to have a good relationship with his mom/family?
Why are some drugs but not hardcore ones okay with you? It just seems odd to me.
@PeterCobra
I've yet to see private jet or 12'' cock.
Don't be p*ssy because you can't fit into some standards.
@PeterCobra: Well thanks :) I bet you'll find happiness too, don't worry, not all girls require you to have a 12'' **** lol.
@udolipixie: If a guy gets along with his mom/family then chances are he will treat me right as well. And I didn't say I was okay with some drugs, but I think I could deal with weed (as long as it wasn't an addictive habit) even though I don't smoke myself. If I clicked with a great guy who could be my soulmate,should I turn him down because he smokes? Who doesn't nowadays.
Sometimes people have families that they can't get along with and it has absolutely nothing to do with their character or how they will treat you.
My PREFERENCES are
-A bit taller then me (at least 4 inches)
- can let me be myself,
-Somewhat religious
- tan,
- funny
- smart
- dependable
- chivalrous (opens doors for me, gives me jacket when I'm cold, stuff like that,)
- respectful
- non playerish,
- attractive in my point of view,
- cares what I have to say
I asked for STANDARDS. lol Big difference.
I don't have standards, if I like some one I like them for who they are not cause they have everything I want off a list,
You don't have a single one? You would date a meth addict?
Why not? I know that sounds bad but I'm not a person to judge someone on what they do, or who they are,
Well meth is just so horrible. If you would date them I hope you try and get them off it. Have you seen what meth does to someone? link
Yeah I've seen how meth effects a person, and I would try to get him to stop but I wouldn't stop liking a guy if I found out he was addicted,
Open-minded.
Vegetarian ;)
Willing to be open with me.
Honest.
Good kisser.
Someone who knows who they are, and has an idea about where they are going in life.
An ability to keep up with me, in more ways than one.
Vegetarian must be hard to find. I've never known any in person. What if they've never kissed? Are they allowed to start out bad?
Eating only vegetables kills on the long run.
You eat meat for proteins, and proteins are essential.
Lol, that is a pretty specific list
you're gorgeous!
he must be taller than me
he must be protective/possessive/dominant over me I like manly men
he must be loyal and faithful to me and serious about me long term
he must be sweet and have a nice heart
he can't be cocky judgmental rude and a douche
he must be a family man and love his mom
he must be honest and truthful, real and down to earth I don't like fakes and liars
he must be mature and good willed, have a strong mind about things
he must be protective/possessive/dominant over me
manly men
he must be sweet and have a nice heart
he can't be cocky judgmental rude and a douche
have a strong mind about things
Kind of contradicting... in most cases.
Actually I didn't pay so much attention at your answer but something caught my eye which is "loving his mom" that's wonderful, but why is it that you have to mention his mom an not his dad, so you OK if he doesn't loves his father, well personally I would never want a racist girl who just wants to see a mother figure, he must loves his father and mother, cause the father ain't never less then the mother!
haha sorry if it sounded vague but I meant a mommas boy, I love men who love their family overall and especially their mom it tells a lot about them and reveals how they treat women I guess you can say its a psychological/freudian thing men who love their moms a lot treat women the best
-intelligent
-good sense of humor
-trustworthy
-gentleman
Don't forget age! :P
What if he have all this little sister but was like me and would like you to become a housewife...if you found this guy, then bring him to me so I offer him a toast:D
le sigh, big brother. le sigh. :p
well since these are requirements, she MUST:
like me back
have an open mind
thats about it... pretty much anything else you can throw at the topic are really just preferences for me... I like most people... it can work lol
-good sense of humor
-nice to people
-not religious
Hmm. I have those. :p
-can hold a conversation without one word answers
-funny
-the cuter the better
-she has to have some sex appeal, and like sex
-has to be a sweetheart
My primary requirements are:
-I mustn't find her physically unattractive.
-She should be personality-wise semi-compatible.
-Mutual "interest" / attraction.
That's pretty much it..
i like to keep my options open, so just good hygiene and sane.
Define "sane". :P
My only two standards are that the guy is a decent person who can spell. I have nightmares about people with poor grammar skills.
It bugs me when people can't spel
lol...wouldnt date a forigner then?
Yeah same here. Foreigners can spell. Some just choose not to.
Sometimes the only way to get our sexy accents across in writing, is misspelling :p
spel ;)
Exactly well at least we know english...
=D okay well whatever floats your boat.
your isn't serious correct ?
I'm deadly serious.
Anyone who complains about a foreigners improper English, better know how to speak at least two languages fluently, without any grammar mistakes ever.
No one said anything about foreigners not being able to spell.
I think most of these women didn't notice the word "must" or they will almost all die alone.
lol I knew some people would say some insane things. I'm actually surprised how normal most of the answers are.