Girlies/Guys What are your high standards in dating someone?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

[Kaneki05]

They must have a passion for what I do.
Not everything but needs to be a thing, because why would I want to be with someone that if I show or talk about my passions to be like I don't really care but will pretend to be nice.
We've got to have that similar passion.

[Sam12348]

I just want my partner to be loyal, understanding and caring

[Sam12348]

Thanks for the MHO

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lol welcome

[Sam12348]

I hope you find someone good for you soon :)

[myloveforuisinfinte]

It's difficult to find. I want someone but that someone don't exist.

[Sam12348]

It's hard to find someone good these days. I can understand

[myloveforuisinfinte]

It's not about being good or bad or being something else. Here are many good people and bad people. But there is a type, which I didn't found yet

[Lara_Croft]

Has to be an Avid Christian & Godly man no exceptions, has to be humble, somewhat of an intellectual at least ( like we can have stimulating conversations about culture, politics, the Christian faith), must be a give and desire to help others, respectful...

[Nikki1989]

No high standards, but I need common interests with someone.

[Avicenna]

Must not have debt or money management problems

[JosyJosy]

I know I'm super demanding and shit.

But he has to be healthy. Crazy, I know.

Sane up there and believe in himself. I'm really fishing for unicorns here.

And dare I say... Having life goals and interests that are in line with my own? Send me to an asylum.

And oh my god, he has to be respectful and kind? God, strike me down for my obliviousness and insolence.

[JHAYES317]

@JosyJosy health isn’t entirely in our control but sure…

[4ngelic]

that they can't be pushing an obese bmi or have a below average looking face, have to have good hygiene

[JHAYES317]

@4ngelic the obesity and hygiene generally seem reasonable but they can’t control their face so that’s a pretty high standard

[ChicoFromThe305]

Virginity I'd say is probably my highest standard, I won't say I won't ever settle for someone that isn't a virgin but that comes with it's own preferences.

[Anonymous]

I don't think my standards are very high. Still nonetheless, most women of today are still incapable of meeting them.

I'd list them but it really would do no good. Because such things are ingrained in a person. She was either raised with these values or she doesn't. And if she doesn't, she can't learn then. You can't teach a person to be a good Human being. She either is or she isn't.

[Tstrbrainer]

I'm looking for a girl like you. Is that too high? 😉

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lol my type of girl is looking for a 19 year old guy.

[Tstrbrainer]

When I was 19 those girls were looking for older guys 🤷‍♂️

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lmaoo every girl isn't same. If u both have similar age , u can relate with that person. Otherwise it's difficult to relate with a person.
Why will u date a younger girl over smart , mature girl who is 25too?

[Tstrbrainer]

I would have dated my same age or older, in my teens.
But rn, I don't feel like it's gonna work out

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Yeah nowadays relationship don't work out, that's what I observed too. It's better to be single.

[Tstrbrainer]

It's always better to be single, if you don't want a relationship.
But if one is staying single because of other reasons, and deep down they want something, is staying single a healthy choice?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Still a better choice. What I observed is "breakups and many things" which is difficult to understand (for me, I don't understand these things) and which I observed in most of my friends case. No one is loyal fr (exceptions are their ik). most of the people are always in search for better ( like looks vise and many things). Lol they don't know what's "better" . No one wants to do efforts , if someone wants to do other don't have interest and when they can't invest in a person their excuses are we lose the spark. Wth is spark. If u love someone, u love someone. If u don't, then u don't from the starting. Spark is just a excuse fr. Many cheatings that's what I observed and lying 💀that's why I have trust issues too, liers are common nowadays. They literally left them , if they get someone better. Just short temporary relationships nowadays. I hate this fr.
I want something permanent fr. If I ever date someone, I want to marry them fr. lol what's the point of dating someone, if u can't marry them. U are just wasting your time and energy and someone else too. thats what ik. It's happened with most of my friends and I don't want that fr

[myloveforuisinfinte]

If something happened in a relationship like fighting, unnecessary debates💀.
They literally break up with each other and move on easily, instead of resolving the issue.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

They Move on and then get into other relationships. Wth is this. 💀.
It means u never love each other , it was all just a acting nothing else.
Be wise to date someone 💀, don't move so fast. Fr slow romance is best.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's why single life is best

[Tstrbrainer]

I do agree with your points. They are really detailed

[Tstrbrainer]

Even I didn't understand these dating and breakups first

[Apple1996]

Only big standards I had was that he had to be a virgin and wiling to be a provider for our family. Thankfully my husband easily met those standards

[Unit1]

Accepting, that i do not have nor want social media.

[OtterMan68]

She must be kind, intelligent, stable, & down to earth.

[desidoll]

Must earn certain amount of income per year.

[JHAYES317]

No obesity…which I don’t think is a high standard but in America it is…no one who smokes a lot of weed/cigs or has lots of tattoos/piercings, which is also an issue in America

[LiamJHayden]

My standards, other than good hygiene and lack of obesity, are all personality. I like kind yet a bit sassy with interests that go beyond celebrity gossip.

[Bobby88t]

I thunk it would be good to be kind, caring and funny

[Makeushiver]

Attractive, intelligent, articulate,. Self-confidence and loves when I give hew head.

[Anonymous]

Willing to put up with me and my Health problems. Be independent, Intelligent and Confident.

No kids. Especially here in the South. Everyone has kids. Sorry I can’t deal with someone else's kids.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't have high standards.

Just don't be a whore.
Stupid.
Annoying.
Substance abuser.
Athiest, muslim or jew etc.

[nawtee_me]

I have two standards when it comes to dating. Must be alive and at least 18 years old…. If you meet that let’s go out sometime…

[RavVid]

That she is nice and is slender.