My dating standards are quite simple... I must find her attractive, be able to talk for an extended period of time and the girl can't be a bitch.
My relationship standards are a bit different from my dating standards: 1. Nice 2. Bubbly personality 3. Can't have cheated more than once (cheating once I can look past but cheating twice, nah, that's a dealbreaker - this includes cheating twice with the same person) 4. I must find her somewhat physically attractive (specifically her face, I don't really care about her body) 5. Goofy, loving, caring, fun, loyal, adventurous 6. Kinky 7. Somewhat independent (doesn't want me to pay for everything) 8. Not racist 9. Not homophobic, transphobic or anti lgbtq+ in general (I'm straight by the way) 10. Likes to go out and party but also chill at home and read a book or binge watch movies/tv series 11. No outrageous double standards 12. Must have a passion (it can be a hobby or a profession) 13. Can have intellectual conversations/ debates but also fun conversations about random bullshit 14. Even though I don't open up and talk about personal things with other people (not even with a S/O) I still want a girl that I can feel like I could open up to (even though I probably won't) 15. Likes to cuddle
I don't care about physical traits. But when it comes to personality, I prefer people who are kind, thoughtful, organized, caring, hard working etc. . . preferably not the jealous type. I hate jealousy to the core! I care about one's values and principles. What they believe in and how they view life.
But at the end of the day, I don't believe any of that holds any significance, I believe what it meant to be meant to be, love can't be chosen, it happens. I'm most certainly not the type to keep dating around until I find someone. I just live my life, the one that supposed to on my way will be there in the right time and the right moment.
You have a minute? Lol - intelligent and interested in learning - adventurous and open-minded - kind, empathetic to others. Including people who are not in his direct circle - social and is able to talk to my friends and family without too much help - can take care of himself in terms of cooking/cleaning etc. - ambitious as in working towards doing something in his life - have about the same political views. Some things can be different, but you need to have the same idea and human rights are less negotiable - attractive to me - loyal - not very religious - about the same age range - doesn't deny science - at least a little bit active - likes to do things together - emotionally mature - affectionate And most importantly he needs to like me as who I am
Be kind, understanding, try to make his life better, don't judge him, give him space for his hobbies and family, try to have good relationships with his loved ones, be there for him, share your hapiness and troubles with him to make him feel special, tell him that he is great, ask him for help, be loyal and last but not least:be his bestfriend!
1. Be a biological woman ("cis") at least 20 years of age. 2. Be heterosexual and monogamous. 3. Be single and faithful. 4. Be able to have proper hygiene and self-maintenance skills. 5. Have a great personality (nice, sweet, caring, funny, intelligent, etc.). 6. Don't be repugnant (a feminist, a sex worker, a bitch, abusive, etc.) 7. Be attracted to me.
Bonuses (nice but not required):
B1. Be tall (at least 5'9") B2. Be curvy/plus-sized. B3. Be nerdy. B4. Be childless. B5. Be a non-smoker and non-drinker. B6. Be a great cook. B7. Be a redhead or blonde.
I don't follow any dating rules other than "Don't be taken advantage of. Don't be a simp. And don't chase after women who won't appreciate you." Then again, I'm not too successful in dating, anyway.
me: you don’t want me, angel? (teasing way) when will you answer me? him: i do like you, you are cool. I am answering you right now. me: angel him: Que me: do you like like me or do you like me for being cool? him: I think you mean: " do you like me for being me or do you like me for being cool
please, my emotion went from 😊 to 😧 I was too stunned to even reply because why the f* did he just rephrased that? ruined my mood fr, be gay because guys suck.
plant makes food, woman make foods, and what does man do? useless piece of sh*t
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My standards are: monogamous, trust within each other, loyalty, commitment, stability, and similar values/views I couldn’t date someone who didn’t have at least a part of their life together, just wants hookups, wants to be with other people, doesn’t trust me/the relationship, doesn’t agree with me politically/religiously, and doesn’t want to settle down. I don’t care much about looks, their past, who they’ve slept with, what they do/don’t do, etc. I would find us incompatible if I didn’t have my standards in place. I’ve learned the hard way LOL
1) I must find her physically appealing 2) She must look or appear happy with me, or just in general 3) She must not want to give birth 4) She must be willing to have sex before marriage 5) She must not smoke cigarettes (e-cigs are acceptable) 6) She must have a life or things she does without always doing it with me 7) She must love me, not what I can provide 8) She has to like my dog (if someone pets my dog, my dog likes them so it's pretty easy to get my dog to like you) 9) She must not live too far away for us to be together frequently
I don't date but my standards are actually simple, I expect the person to have true intentions when getting to know me.
I want honesty, respect and someone who is also there for me. Someone who truly wants to get to know me and does also put in his full attention only on me. Someone who truly tries to see where this could maybe go. I don't tolerate anything else and my old friends and family always tell me that I have high standards... but NO I literally expect the minimum.
Must want children Must be open to attending church on occasions at least Must be open to a Christian wedding Must have a relatively low body count (same as me, I'm not a hypocrite about it) Is not fully into a career so she has time for family Speaking of, must be family oriented Must be able to separate politics as well as work from the home life But must also be pro-life I'm a giver and I also want a giver. I think two givers make wonderful couples.
I don't have any crazy or super specific standards when it comes to dating... but I do have a few dealbreakers and some of them could be pretty obvious for a lot of people, such as loyalty, trust, communication, physical/mental compatibility and such.
Dating standards besides the obvious (no cheaters, liars, abusers)
Men (any race/ethnicity white, black, Asian, hispanic, Indian, indigenous) they all fine 🥰🥰😫 Preferably taller than me Someone who values learning. We can have meaningful conversations Someone with ambition/ goals / has a career Family man, wants kids Can do the basics (clean, cook, laundry, handyman) Empathetic
1st rule: You do not talk about Fight Club. 2nd rule: You do not talk about Fight Club. 3rd rule: If someone yells "Stop!", ... 4th rule: Only two guys to a fight. 5th rule: One fight at a time. 6th rule: No shirts, no shoes. 7th rule: Fights will go on as long as they have to.
My dating standards is she must have at least some masculine traits (I'm a straight man by the way). And I don't mean looking butch.
I mean she's got to have some traditionally male traits like leadership, assertiveness, athleticism (I have a thing for women with muscle), high capacity for violence, bravery, et cetera. For me, I need some degree of masculinity in a woman I want to date.
Smart, emotionally intelligent, has things that's she's passionate about, has a job or is going to school, is financially responsible, respectful to customer service, shows kindness and humanity to vulnerable people (such as people with disabilities), honest, willing to communicate and discuss things in a civil manner.
She has to be pretty, in good shape. She can't be flat as a board, i need something to work with. She has to have goals or at least something she wants in life. Perferred to be shorter than I am but it doesn't really matter to me. I don't really look for race when it comes into dating. She has to be kind and friendly. Fun to talk to and can hold a conversation
No one that is currently dating someone else. No married or engaged women. Divorced is ok. No threesomes. At least a bachelors degree, own their own car, roommates are ok. No lending cash for at least 6 months, no cat ladies, it's ok for maybe 3or 4 but not 35. Dogs are highly prized, no BDSM or scat or urine fetishists. Otherwise I have no issues with race or religion. I am not attracted to translate women. I can have an opinion without being called a bigot.
I do not know anymore, it doesn't matter to me no more. I'm so sick of the hard to get dates, and/or dates that dont work out. Or women replying to one message then never answer back. Last week I'm chatting to a match, next thing I know she deletes herself.. I guess there isn't anyone out there for me. And that just get me depressed, so I'll just have to get use to being single forever.
I like to keep things simple so the only thing that really matters to me is that we share the same values and that she can and is willing to effectively communicate. Anything extra is just bonus points.
Standards: Have good morals, be respectful, have an income, have common sense (I prefer someone I’m intellectually compatible with) Have a sense of humor, don’t be overly clingy or needy.
For me it have to be WERE my dating standards! They were pretty simple, the guy would have to be humorous, friendly, outgoing (lots of real confidence), and single.
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