How do I know if I really like him or if I only like him because he's unreachable?

Well I think you're very smart girl because we all want what we can't have at least we could have thought about it before I think that you are a deep thinker and I think that you feel things really deep to you have to understand when you can do both of those what you're doing is you're feeling the person's energy Within this is what happens you meet you become friends your energy Within bonds with his energy Within when that happens you start to feel things like you never felt before it's a crazy that urge I desire it so deep it hurts but sometimes it's so beautiful I actually think that you are an empath because I would have to say you go through this quite often it's because you feel things deeper than most people once you understand how that works everything in your life will start making more sense you also become aware of more things
Did you just type... words?
Been there a few times, either distance relationships.
or meeting someone on holiday but only going as far as knowing them a little but they still remain in your head.
when I was 18 on holiday in Italy my sister made friends with another girl, I really had a crush on her and even now I remember her and her name.
she really made an impact on me, I only talked, never kissed or anything.
we go through life and these things happen.
we learn not to chase dreams but live our lives.
if you can track him down and tell him.
if you cannot, move him to the back of your mind and move on, you are still young, there will be many more guys.
but always seize the day, don’t wait for the might happen, as it will likely not.
well you can start by realizing he's LEFT THE COUNTRY which means he'll never be near you. you can't be with him like that. so cut your loss there, because nothing can actually happen unless he was in the same city as you. no use in worrying about that when it it impossible to happen at the moment. what makes him so special?
Well you're right, but I kinda like that he's not there. I don't even wanna be with him all the time I think the fact that we can't see each other makes it more special but I'm not sure if that's the only reason why I like him so much. He's actually really nice and funny to me and I felt like I already knew him for ages when we first met..
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It's totally a thing. Playing hard to get is a thing. My brother tried to get me to do this year's ago 😂
But he's not playing in this case.. he's really not there and I love that 🙄
It's not that hard; can you tell me 3 bad things about the guy? If you can, then you know you're really in love with him. If you can't, then you are in love with the idea of him.
But I can say bad things about everyone, doesn't mean I love all people, right?
That’s a tricky one.
There’s a lot reasons why you may be attracted to people who are unreachable, and unfortunately most of us fall into because we don’t even realize they’re unavailable until it’s too late, we’re frustrated and confused about what happened, and then hurt because they’ve walked away so easily after we’ve put in so much effort only to get nothing back.
I've literally met him at his "good-bye-party" so the "not-knowing part" doesn't count. My question is if I really just like him because of that and not even because he's a great person
u control ur fate.. chasing the unnatainable will get u nowhere... is that what u want? a life devoid of a boyfriend/>
if u ever want 1 maybe its time to make a change n start looking for more easily attainable guys... more less attractive guys... say... someone like myself? >:)
i can love u like no other n fuck u til ur dead
Wtf is wrong with u? 🤣
i have autismn n possibly downsyndrome, i read that back now and cringe
what I've noticed that when i got my first girlfriend girls payed more attention to me, like they like to compete or someshit, im guessing maybe you fall in the same category
I don't think so
Wanting what you can have is definitely human nature. I don't know there's anything you can do about it except be consciously aware. That may come in handy in future
If he constantly crossed your mind and you can't be happy without him, he's the one
Well then he's not the one. And I don't think anyones gonna be because my happiness does not depends on someone else lol
You basically answered your own question 😂
How?
Girl, what?
That's how I'm feeling.. but tell me what part is too hard to understand for you?
I don't know.. I'm weird, I like People who don't want me, I guess I'm just scared someone is getting too close🤦🏼♀️
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