Do you remember the episode of family guy where the husbands built a men’s club in the griffin’s back yard? And the women showed up because it was a place for men to have freedom and be men? Then they ruined the club? That’s what women do; they ruin everything that allows men to be men. Back in the days of image boards, it didn’t matter if you were a man or woman or any minority in general if you contributed and acted according to the general vibe of the board. It only became an issue if you drew attention to your identity which would immediately result in you being made fun of relentlessly for your identity. Women have to be seen; they can’t go an hour without attention or they start acting like annoying children. Want an experiment? Go to a coffee shop, set up to chill for a while and look around; usually if the shop is full of men the place mellow af; if a group of women shows up the place immediately becomes a cackling and screeching shit-show where everyone else is annoyed and people will start packing up and leaving. This gets worse as more groups of women show up and it becomes an obvious competition to show which group is having more fun. It’s like a fucking biological signal or something that tells everyone that this is a safe environment and you can be as loud and visible as you want without anyone feeling threatened.
It's in their nature. But god forbid you call women out on this especially when you go to their actual posted question. They will either deny it and start attacking you and possibly even block you. Either that or they will say its not attention seeking I really am insecure or something.
You are not the expert on women's behavior lol, women who seek validation for their looks either really think they are ugly, or are taught that their values lies in their looks. It's not nature, it's nuture.
Because they can? I will get hate by my lovely incels again who dislike every opinion of me anyway. I just think that you guys are kinda jealous of women having so many options aka too many desperate men who give attention to women on social media. Be honest man, you would not complain it when there were too many female simps aka desperate women who give attention to you. I personally dont have any pic of me on any social media platform but i think heterosexual women wanting male attention is not wrong. Everyone likes attention by the opposite sex to an extent. Stop expecting from women to act like asexual beings
I only read your question
I Don't say the can't ask it at all, I Just say it is gotten out of hand really badly.
I expect women to also have a Personality instead of only asking am I pretty everyday to complete strangers.
Offcourse everyone likes attention. And you are the first woman answering this that actual tried to think about the question.
Yes I have made the mistake before of giving women attention that didn't deserve it that's how I got my username.
I Gave up on dating in Total because all women do is ask for positive attention for Just existing women don't even try to have a Personality anymore.
And the demands of what they want from man are getting higher and higher and higher.
The rise of desperate men and assholes is created by the fact women only wanna be called pretty everyday without doing anything to deserve positive attention
There is no justification for being an asshole aka be criminal to people. I am from middleeastern and women get treated like shit bit i dont become a femcel. My family are controlling my life which made me have anger issues but i am still not asshole to people
By the way i dont read you description. I only read your question as i said
By the way i said liking attention to an extent is good but being narcist is not good of course. So if a girl is obsessed with her looks, ignore her . Being single is better than being with a narcist person
"I Gave up on dating in Total because all women do is ask for positive attention for Just existing women don't even try to have a Personality anymore."
This. If I wanted a sex doll I'd get one. What guys want is someone they can talk with. Not just give positive attention to and have sex. If that's all you think of yourself guys will just go see a hooker. Purely physical and no drama.
@hamburgersfries they don't even give sex so it are Just dolls
Yep. Women currently have to earn my attention. I am not even gonna make the first step anywhere anymore. Rather be alone than provide attention for someone that uses men for it
Are you all stupid? Do i say women should be entitled to man's attention? Just dont be simp and dont give attention to random people. I think you all misunderstand me and also you can't blame it all women since you all sound like a idiotic girl who blame all men for her dating failure I also dont understand wtf you expect from random women on internet on gag asking whether they are pretty or no. Their intentions are clear -at least they are honest I mean it is obvious they just wanna fish for compliments which is kinda a liitle cringe and selfish. I have approached men and give them attention but i did not have the attitude you guys have who think they should earn my attention tf. If you give attention to instamodels or ver beautiful girls on social media then it is your fault. By theway you attract what you are.
@frienzoned4life would you marry promiscuos woman? Yes or No? To many young naive women get lied for sex which increase her bodycount tilll she get mature and dont give sex to every so called nice who lie her about marriage. If women's bodycount was not an issue, women would act like men and would not mind enjoying sex and giving you
It is also kinda dangerous to have sex with stranger you know on your dating. Can you guarenrentee that you ain't raping and killing her? Men are physically stronger than women. So women just can't give sex to random men since it is extremely dangerous. How long can you wait for sex? To know the person very good, i think it should be at least 1 year
So you can't raped/killed
I don't want random sex, if a woman wants to marry she better have a bodycount of 2 or lower if not she better have a good explanation.
What is your bodycount
1 and if she didn't cheat on me and didn't dump. me it would still have been 1 when I die but it now has to get too 2 someday
For me it is easier to stay virgin since i am from middleeastern but i live in Europe and i have seen how my western friends were pressured to loose their virginity and some of them end up getting used as teenagers for sex. I wait till marriage due to cultural reasons but a western woman in central Europe can't do that because of pressure and there are not many guys who will wait with her till marriage. I personally can't trust any guy who dont want to wait since i can't know if he wanna use me ir not and he can't use his wife for sex lool.
@friendzoned4life omg i am sorry for you
Maybe i have Paranoia lool when it comes to dating/marriage but for western way dating is kinda creepy. It would be traumatic for me if i dont end up marryying the guy who i give my virginity and vica versa
Having 7 sisters I grew up very well knowing what hurting a woman does so I will never try to get with a woman unless I am sure I want her to stay for the rest of my life.
So I will never hurt a woman.
I needed 5 years to recover from that girl I gave her my virginity. Because I was really in love I wouldn't be able to have fun having sex with out love next year it is 10 years ago I had sex with her.
Prostitution is legal here, I kinda been needing sex for at least 5 years now. But I don't see a point in it with out love
They got spoiled by Instagram and every celebrity who post pics of themselves on the media in their bikinis. They are just trying to revive their 15 minutes of fame because they don't get movie roles anymore and are trying to rekindle their diminishing fame as they get older.
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I would say guys want as much validation from girls and other guys.
there is often a huge amount of stuff from guys on social media with them trying to justify their existence.
the usual dick pic, or the ‘fresh from the gym’
often with guys it’s stuff like watches, cars, martial arts - every fucker is a 99th Dan in something.
then you have those with zero confidence or bitch and moan about women rejecting them, how’s its unfair or on GaG the sheer toxic attitude.
Anyhow that’s the guy side lol.
for girls, a lot comes down to the bollox body shaming and social media bollox of having to meat certain standards.
I feel really sorry for the Goldilocks girl.
Because they get it. If men would start enjoying their pictures and just move on without being thirsty simps, they'd find something better than looks to gain fulfillment in their lives. But we all know that will never happen, so we just have to look at the pics and laugh at the fools
Because culture and some men convinced them being pretty is all they can be.
But do they have to do it on every platform. Instagram and onlyfans are created for that type of attention. That has to be enough
Yeah, but seeing that question everywhere really got old quickly
Yes, and than when they are 40 and have 6 children from 6 differents fathers, than they go look around for a family men.
I Stopped with dating in general since last week, and this validation seeking is a real problem.
When I was a kid the grown ups did that trough dating but they would validate eachother. Not get validation and move on to someone else and ask again
I've been nothing but respectfull and always gave everything I got in dating Just to be used for attention, Or as a therapist by 100% off Girls I liked.
ended up suicidal end in therapy yes there was more than only that but that is what got me to that point.
and now a week after giving up on dating completely I see a lot of women on GAG asking am I pretty? So instead of Just go around calling them ugly in the worst possible way I can think of I posted this question. This was the last place where I could scroll trough without that untill today.
And I am pissed about it cause I was having fun here Just trying to discuss question off others if I tought I had usefull input and trying to get the most out of my own questions by asking further if someone replies
I see, I understand. And I want to comfort you.
You need to wire your brain, to remove this persona off of females. The more you have this generalised look about them, shows the more you are ignorant about them.
If there's something I would agree with you about them in general is that they find us so easily replaceable. It's all from this objectification thing.
Think about it, it is so easier to become prettier, than to be one hell of a woman. You feel me? This is what the confirmist majority is all about.
That's number 1
Number 2... Is that most of us here online are the lonely dudes lol 😁 it's true, GAG and everywhere is full of the lonely folk, because the rest are busy with their lives. And so girls who want to validate themselves will post their photos to deluded themselves that this kinda simping is what they can get from all males in general.
Well take her to male members of a board committee of some company, or a group of pilots, or military officers..! Will she get the same amount of simping and validation? No 😂
Completely different brains, pussy is waaay off of their list lol.
So please brother, don't take it hard. It's all about self esteem and positive illusions. Plus there are way more girls not doing this stuff than there are actually.. So breath out friend. It's ok. And believe me, you're awesome, and a valuable object to them, they just won't admit it. The moment you give up on them without feeling annoyed by any of their behaviour, they will run after you like little puppies 😉
I am a lonely dude that's true also only have one male friend Just getting really sick of the succubus (without the fun parts) behavior from women
Because girls' looks are much more important to guys' than guys looks are to girls. Women are valued for their looks, men for their power. So women are constantly trying to assess their worth this way and need the validation of their looks to feel valuable.
Insecurities 😉
They seek external validation that they are worth something, attractive, are something to bost their external confidence and selfasteam.
The funny thing is it's artificial and they doesn't realize it. not even if someone told them. most likely gonna gointo fight mode if you do to protect the little external they have to not lose it.
Women will never allow an online space to be without their cute selfies and their ass pics. Especially not a male-dominate space. That's when women start screeching autistically, throwing temper tantrums, calling you a sexist pig. You must be turned on by them without your consent and masturbate to their pics.
They were taught bad values and society takes advantage of this and perpetuate those values
Sad enough this makes perfect sense
I think it's human nature to desire validity to an extent. If you're just cooped up at home and not seeing people (a lot of people during covid), then it builds up more and more. We want to know that we can attract the opposite sex.
Men base a woman's worth off of her looks. That's why. Women are either treated like shit or like gold based off their looks.
Do you need validation yourself? I'll be happy to compliment you. I think everyone needs a pick me up. Compliment fishing can be annoying.
It is indeed the compliment fishing that is the big problem adressed in this question finally one on the female side that understands.
Everyone needs some validation it is the asking for to everyone every where that is the annoying part.
I never get compliments and I fish for them. Almost all women get overloaded with compliments without asking that is why I am so sick of women fishing for it
Since nature demands that only the fit mate. Therefore subconsciously women feel whole when they get confirmation that they are fit to reproduce and the way to do that is to see if the women can trigger male attraction. Therefore Women Getting validation from men that they are beautiful subconsciously reconfirms that they are attractive and they feel whole as a women
Good words. Well stated!
But the qeustion is why the fuck has that to be on every platform
The issue is not that women need validation over their looks and their ability to be sexy.
The only issue is doing that on this troll ridden platform.
Because they want the validation and attention to feed their ego jsuy like everybody else wants to feed their ego 😂 I don't myself or ask thay question cuz I already know I'm pretty that's enough
Well said!
Same reason males always ask about the size off there cocks online its just something people do women enjoy validation so they will seek it
Yea i know right.. so vain- makeup for every pore, hair doo that takes hours, lipstick on fleek, nails did, expensive heels and handbags they try desperately to be pretty yet scorn men for asking them out it’s like why are they trying so hard then?
Bc they don't do it for male validation. They do it for themselves, also nobody wants a horny ass dude around them. Men have no will power they just see someone attractive & can't help but be annoying or seggsual. Literally every single man is the same & that's why woman turn them down
@blondegrrl don't lie
@blondegrrl i thought ladies do it to compete with eachother for the alphaSemen
Eventually she'll meet some guy who loves her and won't need to do that anymore.
A lot of single girls out there.
They can't help themselves... but remember they "don't need male validation and attention"... yeah, sure.
They're strong and independent women. They don't need a man.
What a load of bs.
Because it's funny to see guys like you get so worked up about it
Kinda agree but look at the amount of "this women is prettier because of this" posts by guys and you'll get a general understanding of why it goes on
Mmmm not fair. I don’t have a single photo of myself on GAG.
All humans need validation. More the better. Women tend to speak 3 times more words a day then men. So they may want tripe the validation as well.
triple *
Thanks for like!
than men*
Let me pm you
You didn't read the full question, the full question is why does it have to be everywhere
Please PM
I mean the amount of times we see "is this dick size big" pretty much evens out the insecurity playing field.
And it's not just girls putting out pictures, it's guys too.
Vanity and insecurities. Same reason men go to the gym and take rogaine. We all want to feel special and accepted. Truth is, we aren't
I go to the gym to get my mind empty and get a stronger body don't care what anyone thinks about it
But wtf is rogaine
In that case, I guess you are the exception to the rule. How's that going for ya? Feeling exceptional? I was trying to help this asker understand that MOST people seem to need validation. And by the way, I dont go to any gym. I train muay thai in my backyard and that's not for looks either.
I Am the asker but you didn't answer what is rogaine
Well I Googled it since you don't wanna answer and damn you are in idiot nobody in the gyms takes rogaine.
It was an example sir. It wasn't intended for your ridicule. But thank you for your underwhelming input.
It's analogous to guys who ask about dick size all the time.
Because its our key attribute. Most of the time not good looking woman equals next to non existent
Reading through some of your comments, Which part of the internet you are browsing? I an on the internet pretty much time and really these are single cases where i come across people asking fir how they look - which actually is only here and on facebook. Here i don’t answer question if i don’t want to feed somebody’s ego instead of validating everything is fine with their look, on facebook i removed from feed the people who post their model picture two times a day because I felt tired watching it. If you want a nice woman with oersonality then maybe get some outdoor hobby and find her there. It is pretty obvious on dating apps are going people eho are the goremost attractive physically because they get the most attention and can get the most of it. If you don't want this kind of person then you really can see them from miles away, it’s confusing why you go there if you know how they might be
Now you know how women feel when men constantly ask about their penis size
I blame the simps using their pics as sponsors in this case
Some people are hurt and lost, they have been hit hard.
They hate themselves for doing it but they need it to gain a bit of confidence.
In the end, they get nothing.
No one finds them attractive.
I'm just saying instead of laughing at them, feel sorry for them.
You don't know what made them choose this road.
Feeling lost is the most painful and confusing thing a person can go through.
It's like you're suffocating and want a glimpse of air.
Yeah I been there.
Mostly because women used me for attention when I was going for more
Where there are simps, there will be attention seekers
Women will use any possible platform they can to try and get sexual attention from men which is why they walk around like a visual female “dickpic”
Because it's their major insecure, women is constantly judged by how they look like so they want to be sure that they look good enough to people.
1 is enough
I have dysmorphia which is why I ask.
Just googled what that meant Just means you think you are ugly.
But do you women really have to ask everywhere you can type that question?
I was about to comment the most hatefull comment on the 7th woman I came across asking this today, but instead I wrote this question.
Yeah. Because I have that right and I’m curious since I see differently of what others see me.
Do People a favor and keep that qeustion on your instagram.
I’m a new user on Instagram and don’t post selfie’s or any pictures.
I just like following users like:
Pets
Plastic surgery
Weed growers
Artists
Items on sale at stores
Well Just don't use discussion sites for it next time I'm seeing that question pop up I am gonna be the biggest asshole about it
I’m not going to make that promise for you and if you are... *click* delete your opinion
I'm sorry darling. That one guy has strong opinions but I'm not sure he's helping. I hope you can find some peace and happiness.
Girls are pretty. I touch my penis when I see pretty girls
We’re human guys do it too
But the is why on every platform.
There are actually platforms for validation seeking like instagram and less recommendable only fans
To feel good if I see a woman who looks good I will let her know
So you are one that reward the bad behavior
No. I really enjoy having titties and a pussy
Bc it's nice to be wanted. And also bc they can 😏
I am at the point where, I would Just want to cut the head of of Girls seeking validation outside of instagram
Or you could just block them or unfollow.
Nah women Just need to stop asking for validation everywhere.
You Girls get overloaded with compliments by Simps when you don't even ask so why ask at all
If you want attention to then put yourself out there more. You're not gonna find anyone being bitter like that
Because the only worth that women have is looks so if they don't get the approval they're looking for then they have no value.
Real women have a Personality
I don't know many that do but if you do then good.
Agreed.
Insecurity. Nothing more complex.
is it really?
huh
Yes it is really fucking annoying
Maybe confidence? I dunno
Because we trying to boost our ego
Same for your keep your keep ego boosting at instagram and leave the rest of the internet alone with that bullshit
And how do you know it's an actual person giving you attention? I got news for you girls. A lot of social media accounts are bots. If you like getting attention from programs good for you 😂😂😂😂
Low self esteem?
Many are insecure
Attention is nice
Attention seeking is 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Its disgusting too use men for that
Luckily women like u that make maximum use of that will die alone
You are the worst person ever
No any Cute Girls have Personality, they don't use men for attention or money, they don't need validation from strangers telling them they are pretty Lucky for you you are Just 18 better your life now and get a Personality
Then you aren't worth anything.
Because we feel bad DUH
Then go post a pic on insta for validation but never anywhere else.
Women get overloaded with compliments for being pretty.
So feeling bad about your looks is the fakest shit a woman can do.
It doesn't have to be everywhere you can type
Who hurt you? Seriously? Someone wanting to be seen as valid is annoying for you? You’re an asshole, no wonder that’s your username
No someone asking it everywhere is annoying again the question is why on every platform.
And Who hurt me well women seeking validition, and using me for positive attention without being at least an actual friend in return.
Why do guys put their dick on every platform? There’s no platform that is DICK free except for children /family friendly sites. And are you friends with every single person that compliments you? If someone says “hey I like your shoes” DO YOU ask them for their number and begin being friends immediately? Do you? Probably not. You take the compliment and move on. You CLEARLY are looking for an any excuse to paint women out to be the bad guys and you just want to put yourself in the poor INCEL role. THATS fucking tiring and annoying
😅😅you really think men get compliments fuck no we don't so yes if woman would compliment me I would marry her asap.
9/10 platforms are Dick free
Why would you feel bad? Do you think so little of yourself?
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