Does she already view me as her boyfriend. Should I ask her to be my girlfriend or wait for her to declare it?

[Anonymous]

[JustMeh1234]

That depends on some things. for example, what country is she from? In some countries, such as UKrania, it is not used to ask them to be a couple, they simply go out for a while and they are already a couple.

[Asker]

she's from Missouri and I'm from Washington state. She lived here most of her life

[JustMeh1234]

You should ask her. Maybe she assumes you two are already a couple. Nowadays, many no longer use proposing to be a couple, they simply go out and assume it. so u better ask her. Every person thinks different.

[Asker]

How should I ask her?

[JustMeh1234]

Ask her directly. What could happen? If she tells you two are not a couple yet, ask her to be ur girlfriend, in case that is what you want. And if she tells you that she is not your girlfriend and that she does not want to be your girlfriend then at least you are out of doubt.

[Asker]

True kinda sitting here while she's taking care of buisnes what we are and if I wait for her. She told me she loved me and would stay for me and that I am enough and mean the world to her. Is that something you'd tell to a friend

[JustMeh1234]

I said something similar to a friend i had time ago. But obviously i liked him more than just a friend.. But there was some things i didn't liked about him so i loved him but we never were more than just friends. Sometimes we love someone but love sometimes is not enough to date someone. Its all on you and what you want.

[Asker]

True so how should I ask her