Does she consider me her boyfriend now?

[Anonymous]

I have went on three dates with this girl and last night we had a really romantic first kiss. She also kissed me goodbye and said she can't wait to do it again when she gets back from Spring Break. Do you think she sees me as a boyfriend now? or do I still need to prove more to her?

[Anonymous]

She might want you to be her boyfriend, but you won't know for sure unless you ask her. Not saying you should be all corny and say "will you be my girlfrend" like you are in middle school/high school. Instead ask her if she is seeing anyone else and tell her that you do not want to see anybody else and think that you guys should be in exclusive relationship. It's not official until you have "the talk." Also, don't do this over the phone(text or call) it's def a conversation to have in person.

[carinabina820]

I'd say after maybe 5 or 6 dates, she'd consider you her boyfriend I would think. It depends on the girl though--does she text you a lot?

The easiest way to find out is to just ask her directly, or in a more roundabout way, like asking if you're exclusive or not (warning: she may interpret that as you asking to not be exclusive, be sure you tell her that's what you're looking for).

[Anonymous]

are you really 25? if you were in high school she probably sees you as a boyfriend. but if you're actually 25+, you're still a date until you have the talk!

[Anonymous]

I think you should ask her (have the talk) never just assume anything

[Anonymous]

No you're not. You didn't have the talk yet