Does she see me as boyfriend material?

[Anonymous]

We have been working together for quite some time now. I am single and she was married when we got to know each other. Still after a while she started showing signs of interest which I interpreted as just signs of interest, nothing more. Now she is single as well and today I told about an art festival in Aspen in a couple of weeks, something we both like. She responded by asking if we can go to that event together. Just the two of us. At the office when another woman flirts with me she cannot hide the fact she's uncomfortable with that. Is she interested in me or am I seeing too much in this?

[Anonymous]

Go to the festival with her and find out. Sounds interested to me though.

[On_cloud_wine]

She’s interested. Aspen colorado?

[Asker]

Yes, in Colorado.

[On_cloud_wine]

Ou nice.

[Asker]

Thanks. I won't see her until the day of the event. I have been out of dating quite a while, so I doubt whether I should text her before that day. What do you think?

[On_cloud_wine]

The guy who was interested me always texted me the day before we were gonna see each other.. it was nice.. like he was looking forward to see me.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer, much appreciated. I guess I will have to wait and see what happens on the day itself. It's just that I won't see her until then and that's quite a long time not to communicate. We have never texted before not even when she got divorced. It was me who suggested the event and she suggested going together so there is interest. Is it normal for women not to text anymore once a day is scheduled?

[On_cloud_wine]

It depends on the guy and if he’s super extroverted or if I’m iffy about him, I normally don’t.. I let him text first.. but if he’s shy, I’m more likely will

[CallmeTheKnight]

You see it for yourself

[Asker]

I will and I hope she is.

[AssholeNumberOne]

I think she does.

[Ruenella_]

Interested.