Does she like me or just keep me around for validation?

[Another1Male]

I'll try and keep it brief with enough detail

So I met a girl at a pub a few weeks ago on a Saturday and I messaged her asking for a date and she declined indicating that she has work. So I left it till the Monday morning. Proceeded to comment on a status and then asked again to meet up to which she agreed the Thursday. We went on the date and it went well. I then proceeded to do activity on the Sunday to which she will let me know. The Saturday evening I saw her at the pub again and she still said she can't do the Sunday so I suggested the Tuesday. She ended up being sick the Tuesday morning and couldn't do it. The Thursday she told me she is with a few friends at another bar if I want to come with however there I literally had a friend of hers push me out the way so he could sit there. I didn't really do anything and proceeded to play pool with her friends. I left there and the Friday she was very excited (it seemed) to see me at the pub hanging out with friends. We ended up partying and drinking the evening and then departed our ways later. Once again the Sunday she could not make it due to a family thing. I of course don't want to only hang out with her when there are other people so I messaged her and said that she should let me know when she wants to hangout again and we take it from there. Was I wrong perhaps?

Updates

+1 y

She indicated that she is done spending time with people that don't value her and praise her so I guess that's it then... I haven't seen her or messaged her

[DoctorSex]

Women like the chase far more than men. Women are also highly motivated by other women's interest in a guy. Don't ask me about the psychology behind it, but it's true. If other women like you, lots of men surround and respect you, this is a huge motivator for women.

This is why she was very excited to see you hanging out with friends at the pub. So I can't say if she likes you or not, what I hope I've done is give you a clue as to what behaviours women find attractive. When I don't exude those behaviours... I'm invisible, when I exude the right behaviours of being sociable and well connected, it seems every woman loves me.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Guy13]

Stop chasing her for a month but be friendly then move on. She will miss your attention and likely make a Sunday. Don’t mess with her friends because she will go, “See, I knew he was no good…my instinct is right.”

[Another1Male]

Yeah I've been thinking just if I see her of course not avoid her. Just say hi of course but not make effort to now sit next to her or have our own conversation etc etc. If I'm alone and I get invited over to her and her friends I'll go there but interact with everyone not try make effort for her if that makes sense

[Guy13]

Perfect 💪

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[Iron_Man]

I don’t know do you guys even kiss or are you more like buddies

[Another1Male]

Nah I don't kiss until the second date at least

[Anonymous]

She is all over the place, and I say go after her friends and see what happens.

[boggboss]

No it seemed fine what u said