Okay hey everyone. I'm really confused about this Female I'm Seeing. We've been talking for at least 7 months now ( I work abroad and come home every other month). She's a virgin and in her last year of college. We text ALOOTT and she really funny, goofy and just has all the qualities you'd want as a man.
The thing is I'm lost. She would flirt and then when I flirt back she'll sometimes Cut it off or send me a cute sticker or the Black moon face emoji ( whatever that means). One instance is when she was complaining that she has to walk up this tiring hill and doesn't want to because she's tired of working out, and I said as a joke "Don't make come over there with a whip", then she said "Come over then, whip me" with a moon face.
Then I proceeded to flirt back and topic changed. She will say sometimes how much she hates her flat chest, small booty etc... literally she doesn't like anything about her body and I will do my best to compliment her and change her mind.
She has very cute cheek dimples and Long afro hair. Like come on!! When we talk about sex, sometimes she starts it and then says she's not ready and her favorite line is "Who knows, it could be you". Same as the picture I posted here. I was worried when she goes to university she'll find someone new and I expressed thoughts with it, i didn't want her to fall in love with someone else but me.
I told her I must be overthinking and she says yea I am, then says she's not ready for love thennnn as usual says "Who knows it might be you" as in she'll fall in love with me!! YES I KNOW THIS IS CONFUSING!! I am confused too!! WHAT TO DO?
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Stop your a play thing for attention a friend at best nothing more.
She might be asexual just not feel it and does not want it.
Your fun playful and so not a relationship!
She said she does not want it so accept your just giving her fun attention she wants. When that is over she will ghost you and block you.
Not right or nice but women can be so awful but guys can be too! Wanting the reverse
She says she's scared of dykkz and complains about how tiny her coochie hole is... lol it's funny but what she says. she inboxes first sometimes, get mad when I leave her on "read" etc. As u said , I guess I'm just a play thing and I even brought that up also. I asked her if she just playing around and she got upset and said she's not ready but I'll take your advice. Xoxo
Lmao course she would say she is not! Any other answer you would hate her and ghost her for!
She has no friends your her only friend probably so of course she won't want sex... Talk some maybe but nothing that would change you being there her attention and saying how nice she is!
Really we all talk about that stuff but just with those safe boy toys or gay friends!
Would so never tell a guy that I like how tiny I am!
It might scare him off!
Lol love this.
So what do ya say? GHOST her and see what happens? My personality put me in this mess to be honest lol. I'm VERY VERY empathetic and a lover of romance.
But yeah THANKS AGAIN!! "*HUGS**
Welcome and really it's not romance! She will never love you and really I doubt she will give you sex or sext!
If she changes things from flirting she will quickly stop it from more!
Go on and try before ghosting her! Try for sexting see how it goes!
Do less talk and more actions