Are women ever actually happy with how their entire bodies are?

[Hairylegs222]

It seems like a never ending cycle of insecurity, needing validation, wanting that perfect look, constant attention, etc. Every woman I've known does this behavior in one way or another towards their bodies. Is she ever happy with how her body is? Do women face reality not so well when it comes to their own beauty? Everyone is different and I'm sure there's rare ones that aren't like that at all.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

It’s a rare accomplishment that is achieved by a woman. It’s definitely not for a lack of trying, they do try but it’s learning of loving yourself and giving yourself a chance to move forward realistically and optimistic.
Combination of media, social media, society, other women and sometimes us men. They go through extensive lengths to feel “ beautiful “ in their own skin through cosmetics, diets, fashion, surgery, technology, etc.


It’s a complicated equation to solve and there isn’t a simple answer that works for everyone, women just have to find a road that works best for them

[Anonymous]

Women are always competing with other women and it's a "cat fight". Older women are jealous of younger women and pick on them because they are bitter. You can see the questions on here "my boobs" ,"my butt", my this, my that. Tons of money on make up, new fashions, new shoes, it's like a Paris runway in life. But not every single woman is like that.

[RosalinaH]

If you have two kids, and you praise one kid more than the other, the other kid gets jealous because they also want their fair share of love, so they start mimicking what the other child does, to get the same level of affection

We have been conditioned since we were children to rely on other people for our fair share of love and appreciation.

Now... people naturally approach the person they find the most attractive, so if a person wants high caliber men or women to approach them, they feel the need to stand out more than their competition.

So once they are done reforming the big things, they start fine tuning the minute details so they can push themselves to the limit and completely obliterate the competition.

because you are your own main character and you want your character to have the best possible stats.

We can also blame Disney princesses for instilling in women that finding a Prince Charming is the best thing a woman could ask for, and there is no joy like having a high caliber man who loves you.

But honestly that's not true... you could be single and just as happy if not happier if you just tried to live the time of your life and have a lot of fun.

[Duckie11]

I think it's very rare for anyone to ever FULLY be happy with their appearance, men or women. No one knows our bodies more intimately than ourselves, and I'll often find myself remarking on things no one else would ever notice. Part of this is societal, as standards for women's beauty are generally higher than men's, so women tend to pay more attention to those little "imperfections," but I've known men who do it too.

People can decide they're content with their appearance, but bodies change overtime and everyone will have to re-content themselves with their appearances over and over again as skin starts to sag, hair starts to grey, weight fluctuates, and your nose never stops growing so every few years the proportions of your face are going to change.

[Hairylegs222]

Good points, however some people (like me for example) just face reality and accept 100% that's how they look. Being unhappy, worrying, being self conscious, insecurities, etc won't actually do anything anyways so I find them pointless.

[Duckie11]

Good for you.

[Kaamraj]

Social media and online dating apps have intensified the intra gender (female) competition on the sexual marketplace tenfold. Not only has it allowed for the globalization of the sexual marketplace meaning now a particularly genetically well gifted woman from one obscure corner of the world can compete for visibility at part with a woman in a highly urban area in the first world, but it has also created market distortions where the use of surgeries, special clothing (push up bras and booty enhancers), imaging editing, etc. have also raised the bar of competition.

The fact that most of the women who are at the very top of their sexual market value (SMV) are monetized doesn't help the matter also. Monetized means they are being directly or indirectly paid by social media or advertisement revenue for how they look.

[Razp_Sorbet]

When societies expectations of beauty is constantly changing for women it's hard to keep up and feel like you belong.

I don't really follow the crowd, I do my own thing which is also hard because the clothes I like to wear aren't popular, which makes it incredibly hard to find things I think are cute and look good on me. My size in almost everything is one of the least catered to and also has the most variation (same number on the clothing but 2-3 sizes too big or small). I feel like we can never really be comfortable, you finally find a style of clothing you like then suddenly the seasons change and the trends change and now high waisted plain black skinny jeans are hard to find but there's a plethora of classic denim blue flares and ripped mom jeans. What you wear has a major impact on how you feel and see yourself.

Also not to mention the unrealistic body expectations spread all over social media.

[Anonymous]

I am happy about my body and would essentially not change anything, though I still want to be with someone who shows and says they like it. Not that he needs to tell it regularly, but people are into different type of bodies so I like to know what a man appreciates about mine.
I also meet many men who are not happy, want to get bigger muscles, lose some weight, be a bit taller, bigger penis, etc.. I am not sure I actually have been with a man who did not mention something about his body he'd liked changed.. Maybe it is just a human thing :P

[Hairylegs222]

Well not me. I'm happy with my body and don't want anything changed.

[Opinion Owner]

you might also be an odd one out ;)

[wittymilf]

I don’t know a woman who is happy with her whole body🤷‍♀️
Women are known for there bodies and once they lose their looks they’re no longer desired so it’s a big driving factor that you must be attractive at all costs.

[ChrisMaster69]

I think without social media a lot would have a chance to be,

however historically the fashion industry and also fucked them over with putting up false views on who they ‘MUST’ look

[Payal1234]

Every SINGLE person in this world has insecurities (both men and women). Anyone who says otherwise is lying. But yes, there are levels of insecurities and some people are more confident than others. I think women who grew up with high self esteem from young age are more confident than women who don’t.

[dustybiker]

Is anyone? Grow up in any community and it exposes flaws, makes a person self-conscious.

[Hairylegs222]

Yes me. I've never felt that insecurity thing and am happy with my body.

[dustybiker]

Yeah. Somehow don’t believe it. Hood place to end up though.

[dustybiker]

*good

[Splatmate22]

Only like one thing about me and that is my butt. Things that I dislike are too thin in the top half.

[melanieeeB]

Yeah of course, I'm really happy about my body right now

[Tiptoetamm]

Yes I worked really hard for the body I have now and I love it

[Sabinagilb]

I am doing that too but im worry if i loos my boobs, what should i do

[Tiptoetamm]

I had that worry my boobs are smaller but they still look nice. I've thought about getting internal bra done to make my boobs perky again like they were when I was in early 20s

[Sabinagilb]

Thank you

[libsaretards]

All the women in my life have been happy with their bodies.

[UniquelyBasic]

Everyone has some insecurities no matter how attractive they are.

[dolemite89]

nope that’s why they can’t be happy 🤣

[Anonymous]

Women are never happy with anything.

[Anonymous]

Women's body is erotic and so beautiful much superior than males

[GMANN56]

Never met a girl who thought her body was perfect.

[amyisme]

I'd like to be taller I am 5' tall

[insteadfew]

You are still young

[alcorriher]

i am not no