Well , due to my father death and many problems etc in my life it hit me a lot. And I’m currently so fat obese I can say. 5’6 and 200-210 pounds.
It’s been almost 3 months that I want to lose weight badly every day for 3 months I give up. I cry a lot about it. Maybe mentally I’m tired and I have to be ready for it.
To answer the qs no I’m not happy. Also few weeks ago I came to like a guy but I know due to my chubby thighs and belly and face I’m not attracted enough for him to even message me. Let alone like me.
I’m going to try my best to lose weight hopefully in few months I’ll be at my weight goal. Because I can’t take this anymore. I have to be healthy for myself first 💔
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No, i really want to gain weight.
Tired of being told to eat a burger!
Just a small boned woman with a small appetite and high metabolism
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Yeah a lot, even better now than when I used to be trained and shit
I can't even make a self-deprecating joke here, like I usually do.
I'm short as shit, have a small dick, overweight no matter how many hours I go to the gym, dark-skinned, ugly, have bad skin, can't grow a decent beard no matter what, and have hypothyroidism. No, I literally despise every aspect of my flawed shitty body; most of all the shitty height (180 cm, at the end of the day).
There's nothing I can even do to fix most of the major problems as well, like growing taller, getting a handsome face, getting better skin that isn't constantly breaking out, or being able to lose weight easily like many people. Although women do not like anything about my appearance either (I've been compared to other ugly men, like Ice Cube or Levar Burton), I dislike it mostly for it just being bad, rather than solely what women think about it.
So that's a No, mister.No, I'm not. Which is exactly why I'm currently working to improve it. I call my body a, "work in progress."
That's not to say my body is bad: I have a healthy bmi, I am in decent shape (not fat, but not small either), and overall my looks are average. However, there are things that I can do to look and feel better about myself as well: such as lose more weight, fix up my hair (I won't because I'm lazy, but at least I know that's an option), and most importantly, try to improve my self esteem- the latter is absolutely horrible!
Because even if I had the perfect body, without the self esteem and confidence to back it up, it's a moot point.Whenever I look in the mirror I thank God for making me slim with curves. I love my body so much. I also know when I do decide to start working out my body will look so much better. I do wish my boobs were slightly bigger but it’s okay because God made no mistakes with me. I’m proud of my body and my shape. I love it 100%
With some provisos to the contrary, generally ‘yes’.
I’ve led an active life and, at nearly 70, I fall squarely into that group of men who ‘would have taken better care of themselves if they knew they were going to live this long’.
Some women in my life have found me attractive, if not overly so. I’m lean, but not skinny, with enough of what was once a pretty good physique to outclass the majority of men my age.
My Little Mule is hanging in there and is still largely functional, and my philosophy allows (‘encourages’, actually) my wife to supplement any unfulfilled sexual needs that she might have with an extramarital roll in the hay, as required.
It could be worse.no. i i used to weigh 120-130#s before i got prego
i had a petite body with big boobs (from breastfeeding as a wetnurse to a lady that had a baby but was going through cancer treatments).
i have had 2 babies since 2019 and i weigh #168 today.. and my face got hella fat.. Look at my avatar.
so i am not happy with my body. I would get told to get off the beach if i wore a bikini there.. or given a ticket by 5-O for indecent exposure.Not as happy as I have been with it in the past. But healthy and busy chasing different goals right now 💕
No. In the first place, I've always wished I was born a girl. Secondly, I've always wanted to be a blond. Thirdly, although I don't mind being tall, I can't fit into modern cars and even lots of modern houses and I can't find shoes, socks or other clothes to fit and, lastly, I've always been a stick until about 16 to 25 years ago when I started to lose everything that helped me stay skinny and, because of a pretty bad case of depression over dad dying, the loss of my best friend to her abusive boyfriend and the break-up of my band, all at the same time (16 years ago), I started packing on the pounds, somehow, and gained at least double my normal weight!! I was hardly eating at all so, no idea how I was able to gain so much. I've lost about 1/4 of what I gained but, I'm still way overweight, according to what I used to be. Thankfully, it's all in my belly.
I used to be very critical of my body growing up (most girls are) even though I was told I was pretty. Eventually I learned to accept myself and my flaws. I still occasionally notice what I feel are flaws but nowhere as much as when I was younger.
Yup. I don't have many curves, but I'm short, slim, and floating around 100lbs. Everything works and I don't feel like I have to go to the gym.
Not the first pick in the room, but definitely not the last!Somewhat.
There's always room for improvement:
Adding a bit more muscle size wouldn't hurt either, although I'm slim and have a defined physique anyway, as I've been training for years.
Darker areas need to go, like knees, elbows, etc.
Manage body hair, which I tend to do anyway.
Scapula winging needs to go too, but I'm working on it.Not until I'm bigger and stronger than the majority of men (which really isn't a high bar to set in the first place).
I've been very skinny and ill most of my young life, I weighed only 115 at ~5'10. Since then I've gained 55 pounds and still want to gain more. I look better and feel healthier.Absolutely!
I've been doing martial arts in my early teens as well as hitting the gym since I was 18. Hard work pays combined with discipline and perseverence always pay off. And because of that, I've developed a very aesthetic body that I am very proud and happy of (so is my girlfriend lol)No. I struggle with people pointing flaws at my body. If it's not my boobs then it's my arms, my height, my nose, my head, my weight. I struggle with self love since middle school. One day I will be healed. I could be minding my business and someone would be like ur nose is big. Like... wow really.
No, not really, but I have to wonder, is anyone truly happy with their own body? ) These days, public opinion throws so much at us that we have to wonder at the true nature of happiness... So the answer is: I might be happy if I have someone who loves me as I am?
Not yet! I dont know that i ever will be, but ill never stop trying! There are days when i forget who im doing it all for ( which should always be for me) and then that changes my goals. But one thing that stays consistent is my need to be healthy overall.
Sometimes I wish I had a bigger butt and my hip and lower back didn’t hurt so much. But besides that I feel like I’m blessed
I am. I do varied workouts every day to keep myself fit, trim and tight and I'm very happy with the results.
Most of the time. I struggle with my body image sometimes, but I generally am now. It takes some conscious internal direction and composure though.
No. I'm quite happy with my arms & legs. However, while I have abs, they are not visible. I've been losing weight for some months now. Sometimes my weight goes up a few pounds, but the general trend is downwards. This is why I know that if I lose a few pounds from where I'm at now, my abs will be visible. Even a few more pounds after that would be enough for me to look decently muscular in my mid-section.
So, only my stomach & sides concern me. Everything else is quite good or acceptable.
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