Does she (still) like me?

[een_introvert]

So one year ago I met this girl at a part-time job in a supermarket. I had been working there a few months before she joined. At first I didn’t pay any attention to her and the other newcomers, but then on a random shift she came up behind me and began to lead the small talk and asked a lot of questions and we got talking. Over the course of about 6 months I developed feelings for her because she gave me unusual attention for a normal friendship. But she’s a very outgoing extrovert and I’m the total opposite; a not so sociable but not shy introvert.

Some of the signals I picked up:

• Stealing glances when I turn my back, but notice with peripheral vision

• Physical contact, like asking for high-five or touching my hand when I hand something over • Prolonged eye contact with a lot of smiling

• Sometimes finding excuses to talk to me, but other times avoids me

• Her friends that work there too, other colleagues smile at me. Even the supervisors probably knew I had a crush on her.

But there have been a lot of mixed signals too, primarily avoiding me sometimes and never wanting to be alone with me but with a friend by her side she will engage in contact again. When she talked to other boys I got very jealous. Eventually she asked if I had Snapchat and so we added each other. But this amounted to nothing as neither of us really tried anything significant. Then a month later due to some circumstances at work and jealousy I decided to quit and also removed her snap. I haven’t gone back to that store since.

I think I have seen her a few times pass by but I’m not entirely sure. One of these times was two girls on a sidewalk, one looked like her bestie that also worked there with those round black glasses who was looking at me and laughing really hard, the girl next to her had a hood over her head and didn’t look but kept walking away.

Updates

1 y

She goes to a different high school than me, but it turns out that a couple girls at my school know her from dancing classes. Those girls, also occasionally stare at me and smile when they see me. It’s been more than 5 months since I’ve spoken to her but her other good female friends seem to still pay a lot of attention to me.

What is going on and should I approach one of these friends of hers?

I’ve also checked out her Spotify public playlist and it has some recently added love songs, but not

Updates

1 y

all of it is about love. But one in particular caught my attention, “boyfriend” from Ariana Grande. The lyrics describe our weird situation almost perfectly.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine whether or not this girl still likes you based on the information provided, as there are both signals of interest and signals of avoidance. It's possible that she may have had some level of interest in you in the past, but it's unclear whether those feelings have persisted.

It's important to remember that everyone has their own unique communication style and may express their feelings in different ways. Additionally, it's possible that this girl may have been sending mixed signals because she was unsure of her own feelings or was trying to figure out how she felt about you.

If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with this girl, it may be helpful to try to initiate contact with her again and see how she responds. This could involve reaching out to her on social media or through mutual friends, or even stopping by the store where you used to work and saying hello if she's there.

Remember to be respectful of her boundaries and communication style, and to be honest and clear about your own intentions and feelings. It's possible that she may still be interested in you, but it's also important to be prepared for the possibility that she may not feel the same way.

[Iron_Man]

You say that she avoids you sometimes, so that being the case I’m not sure

[een_introvert]

She has a couple of good friends who go to my school and some are even in my classes so they still stare at me very often. Should I approach one of them and try to see what´s going on?

[Iron_Man]

Just talk to the girl and ask her out on a date. How long is this been going on?

[een_introvert]

About a year now. I don´t have contact with her anymore. It´s just her close friends at my school that I see on a weekly basis.

[Iron_Man]

You should’ve sealed the deal a long time ago you better talk to the friends then

[Anonymous]

Both of you sound shy and not willing to make a move so thats why it went nowhere

[een_introvert]

Should I approach one of her friends who stare at me a lot at school to try to get an answer?

[Opinion Owner]

No that is he ultimate no no. Don’t be THAT guy

[Nikki1989]

This doesn't sound promising now, does it?

[In_Trance]

No I don't think so