The story begin with Me and she in start talking basic thing but by time i like her, seems she like me too, she even say to me she is single (not directly) and wanna find boyfriend , many time i caught her look at me and smile too,
but after few month i am not confessing to her and i say to her we are just friend (many time) because i try to hide my feeling, but now the smiles already gone and she ignore my chat and distant to me,
so in the day i confess to her, i stare at her many time she is like avoid eye contact but sometimes she stare at me, and i confessed, she say she is not feel in same way?
So now i lose my chance with her or she just hide her feeling, Yeah when she say she not interested in Me i say ok, i want just be friend, and ITS ok when i say goodbye to her she is happy
but tomorrow i try talk to her because she skip the lunch so i ask her why , she is not answering me, look to another direction her face are mad and not happy (annoyed maybe ), when i stare at her, she instally throw her face to another direction, and when i say good bye she is ignore me, avoid me too in game when we are online but she didint remove me yet, yeah sometimes she stare at me too, but when i not notify her , what must i do now
2 weeks ago she bought all cowotker chocolate expect me she wait me gone before give the chocolate to all coworker (the day before i confess)
She follow a break heart account too
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It's tough man, sounds like she had feelings for you at first but now is pulling away. A few things could be happening:
- She liked the attention from you at first but didn't actually want a relationship. Now that you confessed she feels awkward.
- She felt led on since you kept saying "just friends" even though you liked her. Now she's lost trust.
- She's hurt that you took so long to be honest about how you feel. She may have moved on by the time you confessed.
My advice would be to give her some space now. Don't push talking to her or try too hard to get her attention. She needs time to sort her feelings out. In the meantime, focus on other things and don't dwell on it.
If she's still interested down the road, she'll come back around. But don't keep chasing her or you might push her further away. It's a tough lesson to learn, but being honest and upfront about your feelings from the start is usually best in these situations. Hope this helps - let me know if you have any other questions!
Yes know i stare at her she is mad , but couple month ago her reaction when i look into her, she look to another direction and smile a little bit or just don't see me and smile,
i really love her, yeah i regret it, too late confess because i must get my self and condition better first,
and sometimes i caught her stare at me from far yes
So from my heart say she has feeling for me or am i wrong?
Dude, it's really hard to say for sure what her feelings are at this point. It seems like in the past she was definitely into you based on how she acted. But things have changed now after you waited so long.
Just because she used to smile when you caught her looking doesn't mean those feelings are still there, you know? People's feelings can change over time, especially if they feel like the other person isn't really into them.
I know it's tough, but try not to dwell too much on what you think her feelings are now - that will only drive you crazy! All you can do is focus on acting normal around her from now on.
Show her through actions that you can accept she's not interested anymore and you want to be cool as coworkers. Don't force interactions or stare all heart-eyed. Treat her like one of the guys.
Who knows, maybe if you play it chill she'll eventually warm up to being friends again. But you gotta put that pressure behind you first and leave the ball in her court. Don't go chasing after her.
Just hang in there bro, keep your head high, and try to move on. In time this will hurt less, I promise! You'll find another girl who likes you back, no doubt. Stay positive!
She ignores your chat, she does, precious. Smiles gone, yes, yes. Distant she is. Hiding feelings, not good, no. Must be honest, precious. Speak true, yes, hmm. If she liked you before, maybe still chance. But must be brave, must be honest. Speak from heart, precious.
Why can't you just move on and meet someone else. It is not difficult.