Should I ask her if she still likes me?

[Anonymous]

i was hooking up with this girl for like a month, I'm 18 she's 16. she once texted me asking if I love her, and if I'm obsessed with her. so I told her I do have some feelings for her and that seemed to really excite her because the day after that we had sex.

recently she started talking to her ex, and last time I saw her she was sitting on his lap. now..for my own personal reference I wanna know if she ever liked me. should I ask her?

[Zhel18]

just ask her in private to end what's bugging you, if she says she's not into you anymore, move on.. don't go on saying things like "but I still want you" or things that may annoy her and make you look stupid/desperate, save some pride so you won't end up as a loser, there are lots of girls you may choose to love, just choose wisely ..

[mtbot09]

Yes you can ask her if she likes you, especially if she asked you if you like her. It's fine to be like "I like you and thought we were having a good time but some things are confusing me and ..." ask her if she likes you. Her behavior is a little sketchy so don't keep things going with her without asking.

[cutebubble]

i guess she did like you, but you never established whether it was a relationship or not and she left.

[simpleadvice]

Don't bother. She's still pretty young and probably doesn't know what she wants in life, including a relationship. Move on; its the best thing to do for the both of you.