She has a boyfriend, should I ask her out anyway?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl I've been talking to for a couple of months now. I really like her, I think she likes me as well. I think this because even a few other people who really don't know either of us well have asked us if we like each other or have said they think she likes me.

The problem is she has a boyfriend, and according to my friend I don't stand a chance in hell. Mostly because he is much bigger than me or something. I have never met him, and she doesn't mention him at all.

I got no clue what to do. Help?

[dunc17]

Call her out on it! Ask her, so what's up with you and whoever her bf's name is. See how she reacts when you ask her about him. But definitly don't ask her out just yet. See how she reacts when you tell her you know she has a boyfriend. She's probably looking for someone to have a rebound with if she's not happy with him. I'd ask her about him then stay away! ...unless you don't mind being a rebound or being the other guy

[Anonymous]

Would you want someone asking out your girlfriend when they knew you two were together? I don't think so.

Find another girl. You know she's taken. And honestly, would you want to date a girl who's willing to maybe cheat on her boyfriend? She could just as easily cheat on you if you two got together.

Good luck.

[Asker]

Not the answer I wanted but, you make some good points.

[Mastermind]

I think you shouldn't ask her yet. Wait if things aren't going well for them then they should probably break up soon. But if things are great she will probably reject you because she has something with a guy that she doesn't want to ruin. Just give her the knowledge that you like her and maybe she will take things in her hands.