Should I ask her out?

[Laydownover]

So I've gone on multiple dates with a girl i like and we have already had sex. The problem is I really like her a lot but she said she has commitment issues. Should I still ask her out or I should back away?

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Hey just wanted to also add that when I say ask her out I mean for her to be my girlfriend

[DishLady]

1. If she's telling you she has commitment issues she's hinting that she doesn't want to start dating on a regular basis and doesn't want you to count on her for a commitment.

2. Did you ask her WHAT KIND of commitment issues? You should ask before having sex... but you should ask her now if you still want to keep seeing her.

3. ASK HER if she wants to keep going out with you. It's a Yes or No question. She doesn't need to elaborate. If she says YES, then ok. If NO, then walk.

[Zack-Bann]

There’s about a thousand songs warning you that it’s impossible to “make a wife out of a hoe”


If her commitment issues boil down to the fact she doesn’t wanna be exclusive and still wants to see a bunch of guys then you’re out of luck


If her issues are just failed past relationship where she felt trapped with a guy who wasn’t right for her so she bolted and now blame herself then maybe you have a chance


Either way the only way to know is to have the conversation


And besides: if you’re not ready for the tough heart to heart conversations you’re not ready for a girlfriend. Because that’s like 70% of the job

[Alex-Snow]

OFC ask her out. U have gotten naked with her and had sex so a date should be a good idea. Message me if u want to talk about it. I'm 19 and could relate hopefully

[Alex-Snow]

Sure see if she wants to be ur girlfriend. How old is she?

[Laydownover]

She's 20

[Alex-Snow]

Do u think she wants to be exclusive with u?

[Laydownover]

That's what I'm not sure about. I'm pretty sure I'm the only person she's seeing right now and I've also seen her turn another person down but it's just the fact thst she says she'll find it difficult to be in a commited relationship

[Alex-Snow]

Tell her your feelings and be open to taking it slow. Does she still want to continue with sex?

[Laydownover]

She probably will want to.

[Nikki1989]

A bit late for that. You have already done the deed.

[Laydownover]

Do you think I'll have a good chance if I ask her to be my girlfriend?

[Cormac995]

Keep trying to get through to her and establish a bond. Tell her you're ok to go at a pace she's comfortable with.

[Abbycado]

You’ve been on dates and somehow managed to not ask her out? 🤔

[Laydownover]

I mean for her to be my girlfriend

[Abbycado]

Why not?

[Laydownover]

Very well then. Thanks!

[fish5505_87]

Play a little harder to get!