Men are just more expressive when it comes to that because it just doesn't really surprise society when men does it. Slut shaming still exist in women (mostly done by other women) which is why they tend try to be hard to get so they suppress that one.
And lastly guys sex drive is higher than women's but by comparison it's just harder to control. But frequency wise men and women are the same when it comes to that
Yeah I read somewhere also that men have stronger sex drives, but if I'm not mistaken there's no large discrepancy.
In some cultures female sexuality is taught as a shameful thing, and they don't want to be seen as shameful, so they behave like that, it's one factor.
We think more about to get to know that man, to be with him, not necessarily sexualizing him, but there're some women that do it, also, we are better at pretending and hiding our thoughts towards a man than you guys are.
Women do have the same base level attraction as men, it's just not expressed or talked about as much. But it happens. To quote a female friend of mine, "Sometimes I see a hot guy and my first thought is 'Oh my god, get IN me'."
That's why women have sideway eyes, like cows, huge snouts, like beagles, and massive ears, like elephants or bats...
Oh no, they don't, they have forward facing predator eyes and really shitty other senses. I guess they are also basically just as visual. Guess that explains the verborragic descriptions in their Tumblr porn fanfics, and I guess the female gaze is quite single minded by those as well.
Biological differences. Men are stimulated by what they can see, woman are different & want to feel safe & secure; it's why they constantly test for weakness.
That's not it either.. Men control our urges all the time.. Whenever I saw a women with a jiggling booty, I never just went up to her, and touched it. 😂😂.. Everytime I did nothing.. It's not like it's exactly socially acceptable for a man to be checking a woman out or else it's the "male gaze" or "objectifying a woman".. It's something out of our control that needs discipline.. Women don't have the trouble..
@JDavid25 Eh, while some men can control their urges, they make up the majority of rapists and whatnot. Women aren’t surging with testosterone, hence why you don’t see us assaulting men, or at least attempting to. Men are infinitely horny, and our cycle only allows us to be as horny as our ovulation period lasts.
@Ninjazzed Well, I guess it's true that men are most of the violent rapist.. But there's plenty of women rapist.. But most men are not rapist.. Most men also don't assault women.. Hence why you see a lot of women hitting men knowing they won't get hit back many times. Truth is many women are anything but afraid of men since most men control themselves and don't want to harm women..
@JDavid25 No need to try and explain yourself. It's easily apparent just from basic observation that many people, men and women alike, like rape fantasy. Men are dominant and like submissive and women are submissive and like dominant. It plays into that rape fantasy. There are not a lot of women that like to be the dominator in bed and not a lot, of men that like to be dominated in bed. All you need is experience in life to accept that fact.
So it's not a matter of controlling urges, because the majority of people control their urges and only do things with consent.
It's not a "secret" as most of these girls think it is. It's just a demonized concept.
"Men are infinitely horny..." what a joke. If that were the case, men would rape all the women on the planet.
" When men see women whether she's sexy or not and our hormones go into over drive" Right from the start, I disagree with that statement. Why would a man's hormones get triggered by a woman he doesn't find "sexy" ? They don't.
They do. To some extent. They aren't as vocal about it. Plus they aren't the impregnators. We are. We have to make sure that nature has its way. Through small gifts, sweetalk, showing off and by any other means possible.
No scientific data but I think its because women need to feel you out to see if you're father material. Thats why they care more about your personality. Looks give no indicator of that. Your actions do.
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Who said women don’t have the urge? Bro you don’t know what goes on in my head every day LOL. We just don’t show it.
what urges you get? hehe :P
Everything LOL
Sounds hot. This guy you were talking to should enjoy it ;)
He has no idea he hasn’t mentioned any of that stuff not even once lool
Men are just more expressive when it comes to that because it just doesn't really surprise society when men does it. Slut shaming still exist in women (mostly done by other women) which is why they tend try to be hard to get so they suppress that one.
And lastly guys sex drive is higher than women's but by comparison it's just harder to control. But frequency wise men and women are the same when it comes to that
Yeah I read somewhere also that men have stronger sex drives, but if I'm not mistaken there's no large discrepancy.
In some cultures female sexuality is taught as a shameful thing, and they don't want to be seen as shameful, so they behave like that, it's one factor.
Oh we have those urges -- some of us do, anyway -- we just don't act on impulse as often. It's easier to tame our beasts, so to speak.
women do have the same admiration. Its just that women dont obsess over it or openly talk about it.
Its kinda like saying men like sex but women don't. Women do like sex. Women just aren't as obsessed about it.
We think more about to get to know that man, to be with him, not necessarily sexualizing him, but there're some women that do it, also, we are better at pretending and hiding our thoughts towards a man than you guys are.
Women do have the same base level attraction as men, it's just not expressed or talked about as much. But it happens. To quote a female friend of mine, "Sometimes I see a hot guy and my first thought is 'Oh my god, get IN me'."
Men are more visual and women are very sexualized in basically anything. The male gaze vs the female gaze.
https://medium. com/truly-social/yes-theres-such-a-thing-as-a-female-gaze-but-it-s-not-what-you-think-d27be6fc2fed
Lol!
That's why women have sideway eyes, like cows, huge snouts, like beagles, and massive ears, like elephants or bats...
Oh no, they don't, they have forward facing predator eyes and really shitty other senses.
I guess they are also basically just as visual.
Guess that explains the verborragic descriptions in their Tumblr porn fanfics, and I guess the female gaze is quite single minded by those as well.
No idea what you're talking about.
Slept through the biology class?
No. I just didn't have an uneducated idiot teaching it.
Why do you believe they don't? Women get crushes just the same as men do.
Biological differences. Men are stimulated by what they can see, woman are different & want to feel safe & secure; it's why they constantly test for weakness.
Really? If anything my girlfriend gets hornier than me all the time cus my balls need rest, she doesn't!
She isn't as visual as me so how I setup the erotic atmosphere is more important than how I look.
Different brain chemistry
But sometimes girls check out guys too
Because we get labeled a hoe. Only because we can fuck who we want. Men will fuck anything they can.
While I agree that most men will fuck what they can, some have standards.
I don't think that has much to do with the inner urges..
Oh, because we know how to control our urges.
That's not it either.. Men control our urges all the time.. Whenever I saw a women with a jiggling booty, I never just went up to her, and touched it. 😂😂.. Everytime I did nothing.. It's not like it's exactly socially acceptable for a man to be checking a woman out or else it's the "male gaze" or "objectifying a woman".. It's something out of our control that needs discipline.. Women don't have the trouble..
True. I can flirt and touch a guy i like and get away with it.
@JDavid25 Eh, while some men can control their urges, they make up the majority of rapists and whatnot. Women aren’t surging with testosterone, hence why you don’t see us assaulting men, or at least attempting to. Men are infinitely horny, and our cycle only allows us to be as horny as our ovulation period lasts.
Amen. We can't rape a man. But it is a man's fetish if he liked it in secret
@Ninjazzed Well, I guess it's true that men are most of the violent rapist.. But there's plenty of women rapist.. But most men are not rapist.. Most men also don't assault women.. Hence why you see a lot of women hitting men knowing they won't get hit back many times. Truth is many women are anything but afraid of men since most men control themselves and don't want to harm women..
@JDavid25 No need to try and explain yourself. It's easily apparent just from basic observation that many people, men and women alike, like rape fantasy. Men are dominant and like submissive and women are submissive and like dominant. It plays into that rape fantasy. There are not a lot of women that like to be the dominator in bed and not a lot, of men that like to be dominated in bed. All you need is experience in life to accept that fact.
So it's not a matter of controlling urges, because the majority of people control their urges and only do things with consent.
It's not a "secret" as most of these girls think it is. It's just a demonized concept.
"Men are infinitely horny..." what a joke. If that were the case, men would rape all the women on the planet.
" When men see women whether she's sexy or not and our hormones go into over drive" Right from the start, I disagree with that statement. Why would a man's hormones get triggered by a woman he doesn't find "sexy" ? They don't.
that interesting, but i don't know if that a universal true or juste for you. ;)
I dunno. Although women generally seem more controlled one that I have met a few that can be VERY aggressive.
They do. To some extent. They aren't as vocal about it. Plus they aren't the impregnators. We are. We have to make sure that nature has its way. Through small gifts, sweetalk, showing off and by any other means possible.
We do. Women aren't another species we are human too.
No scientific data but I think its because women need to feel you out to see if you're father material. Thats why they care more about your personality. Looks give no indicator of that. Your actions do.
Difficult or not, it's still your choice to be respectful of women.