How come women don't have the same urges as men when seeing the attractive opposite sex?

[dsgaboy]

When men see women whether she's sexy or not and our hormones go into over drive men aren't objectifying you even though that's how it appears. Let me explain and maybe you'll learn something today. Here's what has to happen in a man's mind and in his heart, it's not that he isn't attracted to that woman as a person it's literally the pleasure of looking at the image. Men have to make a choice at that point and it's basically do I want to linger on that, do I take that second look or do I want to let my thoughts go this direction or do I say no do I want to ginger honor God etc and respect that woman and look away and tear those thoughts down.
And that's where women don't necessarily understand because when women see an attractive man they don't have the same gut level instinct a man has so there not this choice of am I going to let my thoughts go all these directions. I don't think women know men have this every day.
Tell me what are your thoughts please keep them clean.
I'm not here to bash womenIf women had the same urges what would this world be like?

[Citizenkirk]

I know people don't like being corrected on the circumstantial criteria that they basically questions on but women do have the same urges as men when looking at visually comparable imagery when they are in a receptive State of mind to the same kind of sexual hormonal response. I based my opinion on observation and personal experience more than I do on the express perceptions of people who take a specific source of they read in a magazine or heard from their given peer group.
People are individuals and are given to responding the way that thier individual and unique personalities influence those physiological hormonal processes of thier reproductive systems.
However, ♂️ and ♀️ sexual orientation are opposite sides of the same reproductive process, and respond inversely (in the opposite manner, position, it order) of each other in an equal, comparable connectivity relationship dynamic of interlocking reproductive necessity.
In other words when they tell kids that boys and girls are different they don't mean different like tomatoes and carrots, they mean different like positive and negative, or nuts and bolts, or electrons and protons. Opposite parts of the same design.
Being both sides of the

senario, giving and receiving

tokens of affection (Yes, I've received flowers from a girl before, so don't laugh 😂) my approachability in the friend zone, as well as my openness in honest open communication with those I share my bed with, show equally carnal urges and imagery in persuit of someone of the opposite, and same (Equally approachable in the friend zone with lesbians and gay men affiliated friends) gender love interest. Those opposite but equal points of origin for gender-based motivations and sexual attraction, almost always equal, equal and same difficulties frustrations desires and hopes for unification, but not assimilation, of two single personalities and bodies, remaining opposite interlocking components of the same human machine, while their personalities hope to assimilate each other into a whole finished relationship team model, of the human condition. You don't really feel incomplete as an individual, until you have lived as a part of a greater whole when in love with someone special, or your significant other, better half, next of kin😬!
I disagree with your assessment in analyzing the male - female attraction 🧲 dynamic, and I'm not talking out of my 🐴, iether. I have learned something here, but not by embracing this particular gender attraction dynamic. I have learned that different perspective filters can lead to different interpretations of what brings men women together in erotic or romantic, amore inspired pair bonding or coupling scenarios, and instead of simply agreeing to disagree or close my mind off to alternative possibilities to what I believe to be true, I am going to recommend you expand on your theory to encompass information and experience based wisdom from myself and others, to use your current way of thinking as a working model in progress of a much larger truth in human relationship dynamics, subject too additional revisions and corrections to accommodate new information and alternative perspective filters, so that your particular perspective on this issue doesn't get lost on the wayside and end up being your's alone, because I do not accept it as reality if this is going too be your final draft.

[Crazybeeguy]

They do, if you don't know that it's because you are not creating that urge in a women. That means you have to figure out what creates that urge in a women. Chocolate will always create an urge. When a women is deciding what she wants it always changes, depends on the mood. Best I can tell you from what I learned. Go to the gym get muscles and then don't be a "dick". That is the pre-requisite. Women will claim to want something more "complex" than that but that is not true. I use the scientific method to test theroms, the good news is I make friends with everyone in real life. So, I have a friend that is not very "attractive" his benefits is he is bulkier than me and tattoos. The funny thing is he has massive anxiety issues, women like a man that is emotional. When he is feeling out of control. He "ghosts" them and they go crazy over the scaracity. It's all a bullshit facade and women fall for it of all types. From the ghetto Latina to the "high class" white girl. Yes, Latinas can be high class too. I can get a womens phone number whether I want it or not in real life. I am being "picky" not about genetics, but about the fact is I am alllowed to be me. Will she let me just enjoy life? Or do I have to put on some fake unrealistic facade. So, what we are going to do is utilize the fake facade, or a man in "uniform" to get a date with a women, that I don't match with as a nerd. There are players who play with womens emotions, they are the true scum of the earth. But as Will Smith puts it in Hitch, sometimes you have to get a women out of herself to see something that is real and good. Yes, I qouted Hitch fuck you all that don't like that movie.

[Wemix]

Have you ever seen women look at attractive men in uniform lol (military, firefighter,...)?
The thing for some of us is that we're so used to any attention from us being mistaken for a "yes! I want to do more than just look at you" that looking at an attractive guy can be more stressful than anything. Even when we feel like he's out of our league and definitely won't flirt back... We get reminded he's a man so you never really know if it's safe to just look.
It might sound like I'm going off topic but understand that that stress is what we focus on and it's so overwhelming it pushes any hormonal thoughts away. "He'll think too high of himself", "he'll think I'm an easy girl", "he might make a move when I'm really not in the mood", "if people saw me looking at him then see me reject him they'll think I deserve any negative reaction I might get" these type of thoughts are stronger than "the way that arm flexes has me feeling some type of way woo" or other lustful thoughts.

[virtue2332]

Right I agree. It's not fair that women have to deal with the antiquated societal pressures of what is reality vs how things are "supposed to be". I'm just now realizing how some of our egos can advance technology so rapidly but fail when it comes to understanding women and their sexuality. I'm fully aware of women contribution to advances in technology as well it just seems odd that the amt of time we spend thinking about sex has done little in regards to understanding women or what they needs are. It definitely hasn't kept pace with technological advancement
Of things that we think about for a comparative amt of time

[Seppel]

I think it's weird that woman are that much into uniforms

[Wemix]

@Seppel I don't know why either, I can't really explain it but I get an instant smile when I see a fit guy in a military uniform.

[kannettava]

In general, women aren't aroused by visual cues, whereas men are. That's a big difference between men and women and what affects the situation you were describing. If a woman sees a sexy man walk by, they think to themselves "oh, a sexy man" and continue walking. It doesn't trigger a reaction or hormones. There's no urges to resist. Of course, that might not be the case for all women.

The similar hormonal rush might come from a partner doing something sexy instead. But it's usually just that, it needs to be a person they already know well, to make a girl want to jump his bones.

[dsgaboy]

A man doesn't have to know a woman or get to know her to want to have sex with her. Why can't women be like this? A man can be surrounded by 10 women and he will want to have the urge to get them all pregnant because how sexy sexy they are and it's possible in one day to get them all pregnant whereas women can't do this with multiple men on the same day, only one pregnancy will come from it.
Men see a sexy woman with kids and 🤔 think no wonder she has kids, look how sexy she is

[dsgaboy]

Dating for men is like candy shopping
Dating for women or like a job interview for the guy
So that do you do
How much do you make
What's his status
Blah blah all a woman has to do is not get fat, look pretty.

[kannettava]

Women have to choose their sexual partner very carefully, because they've been raised to be afraid of rape and assault. Not to mention they are the ones having to be responsible for the pregnancy, if an accident happens. Men can have sex with everyone they like and their biggest fear is stds, if even that.

[dsgaboy]

That's no excuse because some women can't get pregnant

[kannettava]

Fearing violence is "no excuse"? Are you being serious right now?

[dsgaboy]

How typical of a woman to do... mmmm let's pick a fight because us women love drama... Go fuck yourself cunt

[dsgaboy]

You went way off base dumb bitch

[Birdlegs]

@dsgaboy what did you get mad at she answered your question 😂 women and men are different and dating is just a reflection of that you just got to accept it

[dsgaboy]

@Birdlegs no she went completely psycho

[Kas19]

@dsgaboy Jesus Christ did you shit yourself there mister chucklefuck? Never seen a meltdown like that.

[Sugar100]

I feel it’s not fair for women as we can get pregnant so easy & fast that it’s not possible hav sex with any guy we want & men can have sex with multiple women, & men don’t get raped only women so we need be careful.

[mistixs]

Just block the troll

[CookiesAndCream2]

@dsgaboy you have a rather simple viewpoint. Women are not like men because we are generally, if you forget sluts, looking for a good partner that will contribute to the household and offer a potential for good offspring. You men don't have to consider these things because for one you are not pregnant for nine months.

[anylolone]

@CookiesAndCream2 lol!
I guess the fashion, jewelry and movie industry are really inflating their sales then.
Lol!

[JDavid25]

@Sugar100 Plenty of men have gotten raped.

[TurboKid]

We'd probably be shagging like bunnies if women were that easily enticed. But in my experience, the biggest difference (with exceptions, of course) between men and women is that women respond to the man's initiative and men respond to the woman's passivity. It's like if a woman rubs her ass on a guy, he gets turned on. But she gets turned on with the way you touch her ass, and grab her waist, and communicate your desire through your touch. She wants a more active form of communication so that she can build a story around you. We guys just need a pretty girl to be a pretty girl, mostly.

[TurboKid]

The woman melts to your touch and words like butter if you do it. She responds. The man initiates.

[TurboKid]

* do it right

[TurboKid]

Like the woman gets dropped on the bed and you start taking off her clothes (gently or forcefully, depends on the girl). Her idea of what is so sexy about this situation has less to do with your body and more with your actions. Our ideas might have more to do with her body. So we're very simple. But she's complicated. You're building a story in her head with the way you touch her. For some girls, it might be dangerous, thrilling and they want that kind of touch. For others, they might want a sense of safety, trust, and a sense like you'll protect them. But they want that story of who you are that they can tell themselves. You play the right story for their heads and you can find women as horny as guys.

[dsgaboy]

That's just frustrating, my god why can't they be different than how they are, be more simple! It ain't hard. Where is the woman's rewiring guide

[TurboKid]

It sorta made sense to me the whole time since, well, it is embarrassing to admit, but I've had women tell me that I think like them. On brain hemisphere tests I'm 50/50 or like 49/51 or 51/49. Women actually make a whole lot of sense to me and seem so easy to understand and empathize with. I've even been accused by them of being psychic and I'm not. I just think women are so simple. I actually think us guys are the complicated ones.

[TurboKid]

All you have to understand to understand most women is chaotic processing and the need for a narrative to guide them.

[TurboKid]

That said, you gotta kinda strip away your manhood to understand girls. Like kiss puppy dogs on the face. Find lots of things pretty. I never got to the point of wanting to go shopping but that was enough. But girls don't want some effeminate guy so after you disassemble your manhood, you put it back together again stronger than ever. And they like that.

[dray995]

@turbokid
“All you have to understand to understand most women is chaotic processing and the need for a narrative to guide them.”

“That said, you gotta kinda strip away your manhood to understand girls. Like kiss puppy dogs on the face. Find lots of things pretty. I never got to the point of wanting to go shopping but that was enough. But girls don't want some effeminate guy so after you disassemble your manhood, you put it back together again stronger than ever. And they like that.”

What are you talking about?
It’s like you’re speaking a foreign language or something!
Can you please explain?

[Coulis]

Maybe we're just better at hiding it. You ever think of that? But seriously physiologically men are created to act when there is an ideal mating partner in their vicinity. While women are created to be more selective biologically in terms of what sperm she's going to let hook up with her egg. This is to be fruitful and multiply of course. But this is not always socially morally or whatever other reason acceptable to act upon because after all we are not alley cats. Even though some people do act like it.

[Crazybeeguy]

So, please explain why Trump has children

[Ayanna240]

@Crazybeeguy his first wife actually loved him. his last wife didn't love him.

[Coulis]

@Crazybeeguy why?

[Ayanna240]

@coulis different people have different tastes in men. i have seen the nastiest bullies get married.

[Coulis]

@Ayanna240. ph certainly. My answer was a very oversimplified explanation of a highly complex human behaviour.

[Bella9191]

How do you know what goes through Womens minds? Are you Mel Gibson from what women want?
i do feel urges sometimes from seeing men. I have all sorts of fantasies go through my head.
women in society are judged a lot. They don’t always reveal their true feelings.. even to other women they don’t always say.
Dont make assumptions. Women don’t always brag about their fantasies and desires. They keep it closer to them. They don’t give away their power by letting someone else know what is on their mind so much,

[anylolone]

Yeah, because men don't get accused of "eye raping".
Lol!

[Screenwriter]

Women do have the same urges as men when seeing an attractive member of the opposite sex. But during our hormonal peaks, women have far more to lose if their engagement in such thoughts to distraction or ACTION leads them to pregnancy and a load of responsibilities.
Men never have to face that anchor. They can blast their seed all over the planet and leave whomever they have sex with behind in the dust.
Women are stuck with their momentary fling for the rest of their lives. This is not to say that a child is a burden, but it is if the women has to raise it on her own, is not well educated or skilled. This can mean her poverty and her child's lifetime of disadvantage.
So, we don't entertain a whole lot of these urges, unless we have a reasonable expectation that the male we're interested in will be there for us. We are far less hormonally glib than men for a good reason.

[oldasIfeel22]

There are consequences for men who engage in promiscuous behavior as well.

[virtue2332]

This is true but there is way more for a female to lose over all in addition to sexually transmitted diseases there is that chance of pregnancy and all the associated risks that come with that don't affect males as they do women. We aren't putting our lives at risk trying to squeeze anything out of anywhere

[oldasIfeel22]

@virtue2332 i think the ante got upped on men a lot more on this one in modern times for men. We got to deal with child support and metoo now. This is not something our ancestors (the ones who acted like assholes) had to worry about

[Juxtapose]

Orrrr just take the pill and call it a day?

[Screenwriter]

@virtue2332 For the majority of women, popping out a baby is very low on the life risk scale. It's been done for forever and about 80 percent of babies are born with absolutely no risk to the infant or mother. That's why there are SO MANY OF US HERE!!!
I stand by my main statement: the biggest risk is to be abandoned by the male and to be a single parent and live in poverty and disadvantage your child. STDs aren't pretty either.

[Screenwriter]

@oldasIfeel22 Men can still disappear quite readily. Even if they don't disappear, with court ordered child support they often don't pay. Even when they SEE their children and know they need to pay up. Even when they're LAWYERS. They wear the women out by endlessly having them bring them to court. Most women wouldn't bother. I know I didn't. And all I asked for was $20 more per month when my son became a teen. Thought I might raise his allowance. His cheap dad said I'll see you in court! Bastard. I wasn't asking for me. But angry men are hateful. I wasn't going to court over 20 dollars. And that's the way that cookie crumbles more often than not.

[oldasIfeel22]

I’m sorry you went through that bullshit. You deserved better.

But honestly I see young women falling for guys like that over and over again. They make a choice to sleep with those irresponsible men. They make even a worse choice to have unprotected sex with them.

[Screenwriter]

@oldasIfeel22 Honey, this was from a man who I was married to for 17 years. This wasn't about being young. Neither of us were. And he wasn't irresponsible, he was VINDICTIVE. He was punishing me for divorcing him. And stupidly punishing his son, too.
Recently, my son said he heard the entire 20 extra dollars a month conversation between his father and me. I was so shocked and so sorry that he had to hear that. But he laughed about it, as in, he knew his father was being a shit. He's even witnessed it more recently when his father acted like an ass toward me again, 20 years later..
There's no excuse for his pathetic father, but that's what he is. A man who's never been responsible for his emotions! But one thing that's great about my son, he realizes this is his dad and there's nothing anyone can do to help him. He's kind of a miserable, sad, angry person because of that.
I feel sorry for him.
But very glad my son is far healthier. MIght be because he's got a good mother who's given him a better perspective on life.!

[oldasIfeel22]

I’m sorry you had that horrible experience. It’s one thing if he hates you but quite another he will go as far to shun his own son to get back at you.

If you don’t mind me asking, why did the divorce happen?

[Screenwriter]

@oldasIfeel22 Married too quickly. Didn't know each other well enough, spent a long time apart because he was in military and when we did spend more time together his not being able to deal with stress and resorting to bullying and my having an illness he was unable to deal with ended things. We had some positive things in common, but didn't outweigh the negatives. I think this is always why divorces happen. The negatives outweigh the positives. Marriage can be difficult. Got to have a solid basis and build on it. Be willing to work at it. He wasn't able to. Too difficult for him. Didn't have the tools and was unable to develop them.

[oldasIfeel22]

I understand. That’s unfortunate

[Screenwriter]

@oldasIfeel22 What's really unfortunate is all these years later he's still pulling this shit with a different and VERY nice woman. I don't know why she puts up with him. Maybe it partial pity... I certainly fell for feeling sorry for him, until I felt sorrier for myself and my son.

[oldasIfeel22]

I don’t feel sorry for women who get involved with that crap when the writing is on the wall. Especially grown ass women who should know better.

I give you some leeway for getting married when you were young, naive and more impressionable. But I’m still seeing grown as women in their 30s falling for that crap.

I get it. He excites you and you have feelings for that. It’s the challenge and thrill of maybe being the one “who can change him”. But when he fucks you over (and he will) than it’s time to lay in the bed you made. The only person to blame is the mirror. Just realize that while you were wasting your time with him you were ignoring, friendzoning or missing out with opportunities with “nice guys” who could of made you much happier in the long run if you didn’t make such stupid quick rash decisions based in the adrenaline high.

[hahahmm]

You can train yourself to have more control. If I see an attractive woman it's no different than looking at a work of art to me. It's doesn't trigger any out of control actions/feelings/thoughts at all. It takes conscious effort on your part to train your mind. You already had to train yourself to have self control at some point or you would act more like a wild animal. I'm sure your parents had some role in teaching you some self-control but you can teach yourself the rest.

You can tame the 'hormones' or other excuses people use for doing things and then claiming they're not responsible for their own actions.

[hahahmm]

With control you won't waste time on chasing your emotions/hormones endlessly. You will decide what your energy goes into and not random events or women's choices (what she wore or didn't wear today). Also, yes, there are lots of women who lack control. They just don't have to be as obvious about it in places/cultures where men lack self control because the men will always jump first so why would she ever have to? In places where women outnumber men it's more likely a woman has to move first (whether she has control or not) to get a man.

[blank_expression]

There is a range of women that I have experienced relating to this question. There are the truly emotional creatures that absolutely need to bond prior to allowing sexual attraction enter into their brainbox—their attraction must remain subconscious maybe, prior. Then there are the clit women that are as sexually assertive as the male and they are about sex followed up with some emotions, I think, anyways. There has been some “pseudo science” 2D:4D (finger length ratio) stuff out there and it seems to be right. The emotional bond-women I have been with did have the highest ratio while the clit driven women had the lowest ratio. The other thing is I say clit driven because that is their orgasm while the emotional driven women were vaginal orgasm mostly. There are women out there like guys, that somehow a bit flipped and they were born with a vagina, ovaries. They are good for sex, but avoid for anything more.

[molonski2]

Sorry , I simply do not agree , I think you completely underestimate the power of a womans sexuality , women can biologically last longer than any man , can potentially have multiple men at once.
Its nowhere near as simple as the stereotypical options presented as reasons for lustful desire , maybe the truth lies within the double standards created by so called " Society values " , but I at any age , never went around lusting after anything that was female , she had to interest me sexually sure , never just walked around purely thinking like that.
Then with age , comes more reason also , but I certainly do not accept that it is as you say. No wonder I hated the end of year football trips. Part of the wonderful part of any sexual relationship is the beginning , and the sexual tension , thats felt by both.
Women have far greater sexual desire than men , some men may be happy to " lust after " anything , thats certainly never been the case with me.. Quality.

[JDavid25]

It's pretty simple.. Men have Testosterone flowing through our loins by the lot, and while women also have Testosterone, they don't have nearly as much as men.. People say that women have a better time controlling them because "society tells women to suppress their urges" but that's far from the truth. Society actually tells men to suppress them while putting bodies in front of our faces.. Do you see women consuming porn more? Do you see plethora of male escorts around? Do you see women looking back at some dude they find sexy often? Don't get me wrong, women find men attractive, and may even get turned on by the site of some men, but that's few and far in-between, and it's usually some celebrity than a random guy.

[RingOfFire]

Men are just hornier, it's a product of nature and evolution. They are the drivers of sex and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men make sex happen, women determine when and if it is going to happen. And it's no surprise. Women have a lot more to lose by having sex. They are the ones who get pregnant. Before laws that made men responsible for their spawn, they could just plant their seeds and go... move on to the next women. Women on the other hand were stuck with a lifetime of raising kids. So sex to men is completely different than sex to women. Men are much hornier by design. They are the ones who drive the procreation of the species. Any woman can get sex any time she wants, it's not a challenge for them. Men, on the other hand, have to work hard to please a woman if they want it.

The proof is that if women were as horny as men there would be people fucking on every street corner.

[mmlover]

Just look at all the gay clubs for men and the gay community. Men who have sex with men can get it all the time because men are almost always up for sex and aren’t very selective either.

[RingOfFire]

@mmlover

Yes, correct! And 95% of sex crimes are committed by men.

[razzmatazz21]

Maybe you should learn something sir, you sound like the biggest douche bag ever!

The reason men have these urges is not because it's natural for us, it's because we're programmed. An example of this is the fact that some men are obsessed with breasts, even though they have no sexual function. You can choose to rise above it and allow your brain to control your libido instead of vice versa.

And lastly women are horny AF! Especially at our age. If I'm able to get a date it's almost guaranteed that there's going to be sex. I have actually established a rule for myself that I do not kiss on the first date because that leads to more, and for women that becomes clinginess and unhealthy obsession. So if I want a normal relationship I must choose to delay gratification. If I'm trying for a younger woman that's the only time I need to put effort into courting tbh. If you don't have a bunch of women lined up to fuck you it's you not the women.

[JDavid25]

You can't be programmed to feel something that's not natural..

[razzmatazz21]

@JDavid25 The men on this are so damn annoying! It's all about making each other look stupid. I always regret engaging, and I'm sure this will be no different.

So do you have a source for this information that you have stated as if it's an absolute fact?

If you look at tribes and the Amazon and in Africa they just walk around naked. The women aren't sexualized. The 15-year-old boys can sit right next to a topless girl of the same age and it would mean nothing to them.

Another example would be how today I'm in a woman who has been vaccinated but still likes to wear her mask, she told me that she just feels better with it. Well wearing a mask over your face is not natural.

So anyways, either you're ignorant or you're a troll. Go be an ignorant troll somewhere else!

[JDavid25]

What you stated has nothing to do with instincts and urges.. That's a cultural thing about sensitization.. Those men are used to seeing naked women, but that doesn't mean they don't get turned on, and want to have sex with them often.. Turh is men have more testosterone.. You can't program natural tendencies into people.. That's true all across cultures..

[Anonymous]

Its because most men are desperately looking for sex and most women can get sex whenever they want. Think about it like this if you were craving a candy bar yet had no money to buy it you'd crave it even more just cause you can't have it. Compared to if you had a billion candy bars you could easily get for free you most likely wouldn't be going crazy craving it.

[laggingdak]

i Love thid

[Opinion Owner]

@laggingdak Haha is it weird that I'm comparing sex to chocolate? They seem to be about the same level of enjoyment 🍫

[CrotchRot]

The real question is - how many licks does it take YOU to get to the center of that candy bar? :)

[Juxtapose]

Sex is waaaay better than any food on earth.

[MCheetah]

Women can get pregnant, have lower libidos than men, and generally can get sex anytime they want. Their desire for it is much, MUCH lower than men's, despite what some deluded women think. Men are biologically programmed to f*ck and f*ck often. It's how humanity used to survive back in the day. Women are not.

[dsgaboy]

They should be

[MCheetah]

The only ones in the world who are work in the sex industry, so some do exist.

[moviedude714]

I assume that has always had a huge effect as to why women normally never approach men or make the first move, even if they are attracted to the guy, due to how sex has historically been a bigger risk for women

[Azura_88]

Because we are emotionally wired.
I personally want to bond deeply with one and only guy and only fuck him.
Once I'm in love, I become blind to all hot men. All I think about is my man. I'M A COMMITTED SOUL. That's why I get furious when a guy who flirts with me also does the same with other women. I feel disrespected and stupid because I'm giving my loyalty and he's lingering around.
We are about preserving things and relationships for long term.
Life is so unfair isn't it?

[chris_987]

But that’s because you feel like men love the same way you do. Which is not true

[Azura_88]

@chris_987 I agree. So according to your POV and your experience, how does a man love?
Like I said majority of females want emotional, exclusive and long lasting love.

[chris_987]

Women are all beautiful, men not so much. Even lesbian have sex with a variety of women because they can just be attracted to how a women look and not her personality. So men are the same way.

[Azura_88]

@chris_987 ohh yes I was also thinking that. Suppose there were plenty of handsome and decent men then women would also have cheated?

[chris_987]

Yeah women only find like 4% of Men attractive, while men and lesbians find 95% of women attractive. Women are the fair sex

[Anonymous]

Because the survival of the species has always depended on men pursuing women sexually. It's the only mechanism needed to ensure humans reproduce. Women only need to have enough libido to be willing on occasion.

To those who claim women have the same sex drive as men but just control it better... bullshit.

"Study after study illustrates that men's sex drives are not only stronger than women's, but much more straightforward. The sources of women's libidos, by contrast, are much more difficult to pin down."

https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=147734

[Anonymous]

Huh. Why should they? On the regular they get inbox messages from creeps telling them they are beautiful. We don't have women creeping on us nearly as often.

This is a girls inbox (overexaggerated) - even if you're a guy and signed up as a pink account and uploaded a female profile picture:

And this is ours:

Needless to say, that sycophants aren't helping at all on this matter.

Can you blame women? I don't. The demand is heavily on their side. But what do women demand?

[Qdbrown]

You should check how you arrived at this question. Your assumption is that women should be like men, but with boobs...

There are fundamental differences between the sexes. No amount of social engineering is going to change that.

Men are visual creatures. Designed and hardwired that way.

[SweetTay]

I don't know if it's that we don't have the same urges but it might be more we can contain ourselves more😂 because if I see a guy and like his cock is hard and noticeable through his pants I definitely get the urge to go up to him 😂

[dsgaboy]

When you see a naked man walk down the road so you A. Walk up and say hey let's fuck
B. Look and keep going
Men will never walk away

[moviedude714]

Do you mean approach a guy or talk to him first? Because that's the last thing you'd expect a woman to do

[CookiesAndCream2]

@dsgaboy - where's option c... Point, laugh and call him a loser.

[JDavid25]

Women definitely do have the same "urges" for random men as guys would seeing a random woman.. It's not even close..

[JDavid25]

Don't***..

[loves2learn]

Men are hard wired to be turned by the female body. It’s kept the human race alive.

[Account]

It is deeply a social issue. Women learn from very early on to surpress their sexuality, while men are taught to express it even when it becomes invasive. That is all there is to it.

[JDavid25]

That has nothing to do with urges.. That's external.. You don't suppress something that's natural..

[Ayanna240]

@JDavid25 a woman who enjoys casual sex is called a whore. Biologically, women tend to have sexual urges too. Otherwise the human population will cease to exist.

[JDavid25]

@Ayanna240 Because she is one.. The very definition.. And some women who enjoy casual sex own up to that.. But that doesn't work out because a woman can discreet enjoy casual sex and nobody would have to know.. As I said to you earlier.. Men are chastised just for checking women out.. If women had the same powerful visual urge like men, then women who have so much power over men in the first place.. It's a natural thing that majority of women don't understand or think they do.

[JDavid25]

@Ayanna240 women wouldn't have..

[Ayanna240]

@JDavid25 No woman is ever going to admit to you that she has one night stands. But it doesn't mean that no women have one night stands. You seem to be very lacking in experience.

[JDavid25]

@Ayanna240 Plenty of freaky women admit to one night stands.. LOL.. And are either proud of it or just don't care. I mean there are mainstream songs dedicated to a woman's vagina and body sung and rapped by women.. Women are definitely not in a place where society is telling them to suppress any sexuality.. LOL..

[Ayanna240]

@JDavid25 [Women are definitely not in a place where society is telling them to suppress any sexuality.. LOL..]

so why is there an insulting name "whore" or "hoe" used for women who have caual sex while there is no such name for a man who sleeps around?

I saw you use the term "hoe" in your other comment too.

Sounds like you just love bashing women in every way possible

[JDavid25]

@Ayanna240 "so why is there an insulting name "whore" or "hoe" used for women who have caual sex while there is no such name for a man who sleeps around?" There is a term for men who sleep with too many women.. They call them womanizers, players.. In the old days it was looked down on a man who had sex with a lot of women.. They called him a "raker".. The thing is, is that it's easy for a woman to get with a man.. But a man has to work at getting with a woman.. He has to have game, charm, and maybe even a nice looking guy.. So the standards are different for women..

And you never seen me use "hoe" to describe a woman, and I definitely don't bash women.. This started by me saying that women don't have the same urges as guys and that's okay they don't need them.

[Jamie05rhs]

"while men are taught to express it even when it becomes invasive.". Haha. I definitely was not taught this.

[Account]

@JDavid25 You don't know if women have the same urges unless you have been a woman before and even if you were, sexuality is different from person to person. It has nothing to do with gender. I had men who disclosed to me that they were not overly sexual and they thought something was wrong with them. It was something they couldn't admit to their male friends for fear of laughing at them.

[JDavid25]

@Account.. The same thing can be said for you as a woman towards men too.. You haven't been a man so you can really say if you feel the same urges. So therefore we won't used that explanation.. What we will use is evidence.. Like I said in my answer Who consumes porn more? Who pays for the services of prostitutes more? Who appreciates the other gender physically more, and who complains more? If it wasn't a gender thing more guys could post on Onlyfans and have girls paying to see their bodies.. Men could easily get just as much sex as women could if gender had nothing to do with it. So yeah.. Also a few guys who maybe watch too much porn or just have low testosterone doesn't account for the general population.

[FictionalCharacter]

When I see guys I get tense and scared. They are big and strong with mysterious facial expressions. Yeah, I check them out nervously. But I know they have other things on their mind, than a awkward girl checking them out.

[Overmind]

Some guys love shy women. What frustrates me the most about them is how they go beet red & will no longer look at you even if handing you something; it's so cute but also maddening. I know one where I bank like that & the only reason I never asked her out is because she never makes eye contact.