So, I recently fell for a girl (employee) at a nightclub that I did volunteer work for. She's a paid photographer there and I do free videos for the club.
Anyways at first I thought she was really cute, she caught my eye the moment I saw her. After a while though I started to respect the fact that she does really similar work to mine (digital imaging)
and that she always makes me laugh and smile when I'm around her. I started falling in love with her.
Eventually I asked her out but I found out she has a boyfriend,
I was pretty crushed by this. Keep in mind she doesn't seem like just another girl but someone I always had a good time being around. I stopped volunteering for that nightclub because I always feel terrible now that I know she has a boyfriend and because I've seen them kissing a few times.
I'm trying to move on but its been a month now and I still keep thinking about her all the time. I've tried keeping my mind occupied with other things but she won't go away.
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Is it wrong to be picky with partners? Should I be more open to everyone or keep pursuing girls that are compatible with me?
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