Girls, do you like it when you can tell a guy is checking you out in a bikini?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's flattering

No, it's creepy

[Gespenster_division]

The love it. Women even the most feminist ones feel the only thing worse than being objectified by a man is not being objectified.

[KrakenAttackin]

+10 for that phat ass twerking!

[yofuknutz]

I see you baby shaking that ass shaking that ass shaking that ass I see you baby shaking that ass don't touch me!

https://youtu.be/JzQ1__h35bA

[MrSpine]

Yo what is the black haired girl's name?

[Gespenster_division]

@MrSpine Emily Lynne

[KatieCC]

Personally, I don't like it, makes me feel like a piece of meat 😔. I don't blame men for looking (that's only natural), I blame society for teaching them to look at the female body as an accessory or object. Dehumanizing women (which is essentially what objectification does) detaches females from the "human" form and reinforces a "lesser than" dynamic. Yea, I'm not okay feeding into that.

Oh, and the repeated sentiment that women dress for men, therefore men should be allowed to stare, oddly, is rarely said by women, which is funny because the wording implies women are granting men permission to look. Rather it seems to be guys saying it, kinda sus they feel the need to put words in female mouths to justify themselves. Almost like they know it's wrong... Just an observation...

[KrakenAttackin]

@KatieCC. Women ARE granting attractive men permission to gawk, it's only "creepy" men that bother them.

[KatieCC]

@KrakenAttackin I'm not granting ✨anyone (hunks included)✨ permission to gawk, and I'm female. Damn, that's what we in the business call a counterexample 👀.

Gawking is rude regardless of gender or perceived attractiveness. I imagine the reason guys might like being occasionally gawked at, probably has to do with the rarity of girls openly being that kind of R u D e ❤. Yea, girls are reduced to meat far too often for it to be taken as anything but an insult.

[A_Bell]

We women are hypocrites in this regard. If we didn't want people looking, we'd wear the swimming equivalent of burkas.

I enjoy men respectfully admiring my body, as long as it doesn't cross over to leering or drooling.

[Ninjazzed]

No?

Women wear fitting bikinis because we have breasts and also don’t have massive dongs or ballsacks to lug around in our bottoms, and it keeps us cooler. Otherwise we’d wear trunks.

One pieces are okay too but sometimes they get annoying to put on.

[Gatorademebiatch]

You’ve summed it up so perfectly babez!

[acooke-13]

@A_Bell your name is very fitting - A Bell End. Idiot.

[ChrisMaster69]

Both sexes like to be looked at when at the beach etc,

however both also get a bit creeped if stared at.

I would hazard a guess (and from experience with gf’s) that there is a very fine line to an appreciative look and a perv creepy way of doing it.

I've witnessed some classic out downs or ‘revenge’ against guys going to far in to the creepy zone lol.

[Babewithplan]

Yes. It does absolutely come down to the TYPE of “look” (sometimes it’s a fkn stare) AND the person who is behind the look and the receiving woman. For example I’m someone who generally hates people looking at me and it’s been that way since I was a little girl. Maybe 5 or so I would give “death stares” to people and that hasn’t changed now that I’m much older. Yes I am attractive and I dress “sexy”, but I’m not doing it for male attention as many men will claim anyway.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Babewithplan

I posted this on another thread, however it’s sort of still valid, especially with comments about bikinis etc.

A quote I was sent by a girl mate this morning:

Reminder as we get in to hotter weather:

She’s not dressed as a slut, you just think like a rapist.

[Babewithplan]

It’s cold here in Australia, but yes!

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Anon thank you most appreciated

[Seinna]

Depends on how he does it and is he's attractive. It can be either flattering or uncomfortable. But either way... I think it's a bit more uncomfortable than flattering if it's specifically in a bikini.

Maybe it's a confidence thing... but either way, women are not men. It's not always 100% pleasant as it is for men, I can get self sonscious.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Seinna. " if he's attractive. ". Here is the bottom line.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

It's the same for guys.
Sure, a guy has the right to say no, in theory, but the old creepy women being pushy with their advances also happens.
It is welcome from someone you find attractive, that is obvious.

[KrakenAttackin]

@NoLookingAtSoleil Not quite. Women don't get arrested/fired for being "creepy".

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

@KrakenAttackin kind of... there is the female privilege (never saying much and always playing being a good girl no matter how crooked underneath it).
The lying with insistence they are right is the trouble. As far as men go, there are very ill intentioned ones out there.

[KrakenAttackin]

@NoLookingAtSoleil I agree that there are Ill intentioned men, but these men have been shaped by experiences and prior interaction with women. This does not excuse bad behaviour with good women, but I would advance that women who dress and tease like this are not good women.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

@KrakenAttackin erm/hmm... I don't find it too relevant - the teases you can see (and ignore if there is no sexual interaction).
I guess I don't care enough about the topic 🤷

[Hannah_le]

Ugh well I try to not pay attention to people in public cuz like for example if someone was checking me out I don’t wanna know 😂 that’ll make me feel self conscious. But yea for some reason I tend to think bad when people stare or check me out so eh I dont like it.

[Omario2049]

And that makes you CREEPY!!!

[Hannah_le]

creepy how so lol

[Omario2049]

If u don't want attention, stop doing things that guarantee attention. It's like a guy going to a strip club and complaining that the women are naked 💁🏾‍♂️

[Hannah_le]

Oh ok lol

[Babewithplan]

@Omario2049 Calm it. She’s 15.

[Omario2049]

Holy shit I didn't realize her age. OMG 😩🤦🏾‍♂️

[Eelephant]

I don't know how to feel about it... In the moment it boosts my ego in some weird kind of way, but remembering it later makes me feel like I'm just a body not a person

[yofuknutz]

Now that's the other elephant in the room they look at your body but not you as a person that is always a distinct possibility.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

You feel sexy with those eyes on you?

[chrissykerdock]

wearing a bikini or a short sexy dress and having men and boys look isn't bad... it's definitely flattering... i always like the guy who's with his girlfriend sometimes she let's him look sometimes she hits him.

[Libbers]

I don’t mind as long as they are creepy about. I check out guys at the beach too just don’t sit there like a perv.

[TheBigGuy9]

I don’t mind as long as they are creepy about it? Really? You like the creepers?

[yofuknutz]

https://youtu.be/JzQ1__h35bA

[Ninjazzed]

@yofuknutz Stop being an irritating troll. Nobody will ever fuck you.

[Cathy7734]

Yes, I can tell when a guy is checking me out whether it's in a bikini or not. You can actually feel his stare up and down the back.

[Tiptoetamm]

It depends on how they are looking at me, and way that are looking at me, I check men out I look at them they notice I wink at them and leave it at that

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Yes, I can tell. And, I'd be a liar if I denied that I felt flattered sometimes.

[FreyaRed]

They stare like hungry dogs on a piece of ham. I know if I would gain 30 kg no one of them would stare at me, therefore I don't know what should I think about their behavior.

[yofuknutz]

Maybe you should try going to the bathroom and getting rid of all the bulshit coming out of your mouth

[HannaIsInnocent]

It’s kinda creepy tbh, but then again I don’t wear it just to wear it so I don't know it’s a mix? Just a bit more on the creepy side if I just don’t find the guy cute..

[yofuknutz]

https://youtu.be/JzQ1__h35bA

[Ninjazzed]

@yofuknutz Fucking creep. Calling the authorities.

[GrimmGothBabe]

I find it flattering if its a glance or a slightly longer look no matter how the person is physically but if they get creepy or handsy its just wrong.

[LorraineGates]

If you don't want male attention, put some clothes on.

[yofuknutz]

Now that's the elephant in the room

[Babewithplan]

Well us pretty girls get attention even if we’re not naked.

[Nxtawm]

It’s flattering I guess but I still don’t rlly like it. I don’t notice this type of thing in the first place unless it’s super obvious and direct but if by chance I did, I’d probably just move away

[yofuknutz]

Why is a stunad like you a Yoda?

[kyleelyn199723]

Personally no I do not, but I already know it’s going to happen anyways

[DangpMango]

I can see how it's always weird feeling like someone's always gonna be looking at you. I remember I just frickin sat in the gym and girls playing basketball stop and look. Girls on either side of the court also sitting (back in HS by the way) taking a quite the long ganders and I know because at first I was making eye contact with all of them but in this weird swoop as may eyes caught too many of them looking I lost my game and grabbed my books and left. It gets overwhelming and invasive at times and thats just for me and I think I'm fairly average looking so

[Solofun69]

I don't like it when a guy just stares at a pretty girl, I would think it makes the girl feel uncomfortable!
I had a girlfriend who loved wearing barely there bikini's by the pool and getting everyone to look at her. It was a little weird if you ask me.

[DavidHart]

Let's be honest shall we...
Girls really like it when guys are checking them out no matter what the outfit is..


... ONLY IF THE GIRLS FINDS THE GUY (S) IS/ARE CUTE.

For the rest of other guys, it's CREEPY.

[Exterminatore]

No. They hate it. They hate attention and anything that magnifies their sense of self importance and uniqueness.

[Ninjazzed]

Or maybe they just hate being objectified by shitty men who cat-call and spew half-assed, false compliments?

[yofuknutz]

^^^^ please anybody feel free to leave dog shit in front of this one's door such a tired old ass feminist argument.

[Exterminatore]

@yofuknutz

I don’t bother arguing with most of these feminists. Collectively they’re a dumpster fire. Running around complaining how oppressed they are because some guys legs took up more space on the subway then they thought should have been taken up and acting as if men cat call to bitter and usually morbidly obese lesbians.

[Ninjazzed]

@yofuknutz Or maybe acquire some class and you’ll find everyone will stop shitting on you? What a joke.

The tired old ass “feminazi” narrative you like to spew indicates you’re just another one of those MGTOW brow-beaters that’s broken beyond repair.

Go ahead and run back to your knitting circle where you get to complain about how you’re such a victim of feminism and diversity.

[Ninjazzed]

Disproportionately angry and nerve stricken, much?

Yes because only you fucknuts can get stinkier and gnarlier with these epithets. Don’t get mad when you reap the consequences. Whatever, die on that hill if you want to.

Only men could oppress women for thousands of years, then turn around, put on a dress, and complain that they are the most marginalized group in society.

Because we all know accountability is a man’s kryptonite.

[FictionalCharacter]

Oh
They won’t check me out, they’ll witness my banana rolls 🙈

[acooke-13]

No, it makes me feel really uncomfortable - half because it's weird as fuck and half because I'm insecure.

[SamFromFL]

What makes you feel insecure?

[acooke-13]

I just don't like the way I look

[SamFromFL]

How could you look better?

[acooke-13]

@SamFromFL I don't know... a new face & body would be great.

[SamFromFL]

Your body looks good, so it’s your face that’s not attractive?

[acooke-13]

@SamFromFL I have BDD so it changes daily.

[SamFromFL]

Not sure what bdd is

[acooke-13]

@SamFromFL Body Dysmorphia Disorder

[SamFromFL]

Bdd makes you feel insecure then, now I understand

[IcyPeppermint]

It depends on the guy. If it's my boyfriend, I would love that. If it's some random guy, I would not like it at all.

[Anonymous]

I actually like it when guys check me out when I'm in my bikini. As long as they're just checking me out (and nothing more than that) it makes me feel super great about myself/my body (especially at my age and after 4 kids).

[pleasestopthis]

I'm feel very self conscious about my body so I don't like it when people look at me while wearing a bikini

[TheBigGuy9]

Of course they do. Who doesn’t? It’s especially flattering when the person is hot and of the sex they like.

[acooke-13]

I don't. Many women hate it, men like you are the problem.

[TheBigGuy9]

The problem, huh? You don’t even know how I check out women lol. I am normally wearing sunglasses on the beach and I’ll check em out, but sitting there and gawking, nah not my style!

[TheBigGuy9]

But you know thanks for jumping to conclusions. Always love people that do that.

[acooke-13]

@TheBigGuy9 you’re welcome 😉

[KrakenAttackin]

OF COURSE NOT! Women don't dress for male attention, right? ***Bullshit***

[Gespenster_division]

Agreed. Even in women's sports they wear sports gear that flatters their body and reveals a lot because it provides comfort and helps them perform better lol
https://youtu.be/UlmgwG_ojzo
https://youtu.be/3aNArxcba5g
https://youtu.be/LdexkdpkIgk

[KrakenAttackin]

@Gespenster_division Unreal, it's like it is a skank competition.

[Gespenster_division]

It's showing your ass like a stripper but respectable like lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@Gespenster_division I'm surprised the sporting authority allows these outfits.

[yofuknutz]

https://youtu.be/JzQ1__h35bA

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin And you’re complaining about it because you’re gay?

[Babewithplan]

@yofuknutz Women such as these that train so hard for their bodies wanna show them off. That’s it. LOL

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan The classic hypocrisy is what irritates me.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan Do gay men complain about women dressing like skanks?

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin Yes, cause the gays would rather BE those skanks

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan Really? That sounds like a question for GAG... standby.

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin And isn’t that why you’re concerned with it too?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan I am concerned with the wild hypocrisy that is core to female being. Women scream about being "objectified" but here they are reducing themselves to sexual objects. Oh, but hey, they are dressing for other women right?

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin So according to your logic men buy expensive cars to attract women, train at the gym to attract women, grow a beard for women, buy expensive material items to attract women?

[Babewithplan]

Should your answer be no, then that makes YOU a hypocrite and not women. Hook, line and sinker.

[Gespenster_division]

The sporting authority allows these outfits because otherwise nobody would watch women's sports lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@Gespenster_division That is probably the crux of it all.

[Wise4myage]

I think lots of girls love it, and lots of girls hate it. Especially if guys stare.

[AnthonyJ01]

Any normal person will look at someone else. Although there are those who do not like being looked at and they should just stay in private and not go out. It is human nature to look.

[Monica78]

Yes I like it when both especially at 42.

[chloe_tlw]

I like it to a point, if he is older then me then I don’t like it but if he is around my age then yesss

[mword3]

Only if they’re hot 😉

[yofuknutz]

Yeah your profile picture reflects the middle finger so well

[Ninjazzed]

@yofuknutz Shut up, you sense incel. Take your bullshit elsewhere, it’s not going to get you laid.

[Anonymous]

Both yes and no. Yes if he is a guy who looks like stereotypical incel, no if he does not look like that.

[jimmy2]

Today's bikini you better mot waer it due to all men and some girls will undress you so easily

[Anonymous]

Yes i like guys checking me out

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon... FINALLY the fucking truth!

[Siren777]

I don't really care.

[Kayla45]

It's inevitable.

[Dandyland04]

Don’t care either way

[Ninjazzed]

Depends on the guy.

[Samantha_17]

Don't care :)

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy. So I can't say

[pink_and_inlove]

I’d be surprised

[Scotsmanky16]

Why would you be surprised?

[pink_and_inlove]

My body isn’t the best

[Scotsmanky16]

I think you might be being over self critical. You do look beautiful.

[Anonymous]

Hopefully my boner won't give it away...

[KrakenAttackin]

Show that boner proudly, women show their wares without concern!

[Ninjazzed]

@KrakenAttackin Hope you like handcuffs for public indecency.

[Opinion Owner]

Ooooh bondage!!!

[Ninjazzed]

Don’t drop the soap edition?

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin Well if you hate women so much, why did you find yourself here on a platform that is targeted at INTERACTING WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX? Make it make sense LMAO

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan Because women like you desperately need to be educated about how to behave.

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin So you signed up here to educate me? About what? And it’s not because you can’t help but be attracted (literally) to women? LMAO

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan "LMAO"

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin I won.

[KrakenAttackin]

"Attracted"? I thought you believed I am gay and want to be a hot female?

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin Well that’s my belief, but, at times, your comments do suggest otherwise

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan What did you win?

[KrakenAttackin]

I am happy to school you more if necessary.

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin I am yet to be schooled by you

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan So what is it you need to fill that vapid hole in your soul? How many cocks? How much competition with other women? How many skimpy outfits?

Seriously, what will it take for females like you to become human once again?

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin Pretty sure you’re talking to yourself right now. That’s what you gotta as YOURSELF and maybe you’ll start being human again. Forgive your ex wife for making you feel like less of a man and don’t be harsh on yourself for having been weak in a moment that needed you to be weak.

[Babewithplan]

Ask**

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin Anyways grandpa, I’m off to bed.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan Nope. Not at all. I am talking about YOU and your complete lack of anything to offer the world except for sex. Without the power of sexual attraction you would nothing at all. The hysterical thing is you will eventually realize this as you age and younger/hotter girls edge you out. Eventually you will start posting "where have all the good men gone" and "where are the real men".

Predictable as fuck.

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin I got too much to offer and that’s why I’m thinking it’s crazy for someone as high up to be talking to someone as so wasted as you. I’m pretty sure everyone can see through your self pity and it’s sorta getting boring now.

Anyway grandpa, bye.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan That's what I thought. Your "sexiness" won't make you a good wife. Your "sexiness" won't make you a good mother. Your "sexiness" doesn't make you a good person.

If sex appeal is all you have than you are a one-dimensional pathetic soul. Time will be brutal with you.

[Babewithplan]

@KrakenAttackin Fuck you. Worthless excuse for a “man”. You would not dare to say anything to my face, so you remain a coward.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Babewithplan Thanks sweetie... **School bell ringing**. ... Class dismissed.

[Ninjazzed]

@Babewithplan He educated you on his terminal ignorance, just ignore these miserable beasts.

[Ninjazzed]

@KrakenAttackin Who hurt you?

Are you being intentionally daft or are you just stupid? You just described yourself. The same logic can be applied to yourself.

Eventually younger, more desirable men will step in to replace you. Is this your worst fear?

Get a life, you senile hemorrhoid.

You blame women for your lack of sex life, yet you do nothing but downplay their achievements or generalize them all as sex objects because you’re a wounded, chauvinistic pig that has no other outlet.

You can’t provide women a shred of interest in you so you cling to this last leg of hoping someone is desperate enough to play your childish games as you continuously show up as the worst version of yourself because you have no redeeming qualities or moral standing outside of doing the most you can get away with.

It’s sad really, because you end up cheating yourself.

So I don’t feel bad.. because every day, disappointing men like you can actively choose to get up off your ass to do and be better and you don’t.

You’d rather be a broken record.. because misogyny is a way to skate with doing the bare minimum.

You’re what is called a low-value man. Barely even human. That’s even being generous.

“Human garbage” is a much more befitting term.

You have no incentive to do better. What is more, you use your inadequacy as a tool to perpetuate this situation, too.

We have a vested interest in all men being trash for good reason.

Contaminations like you exist.

[Babewithplan]

@Ninjazzed Yes and apparently his downward spiral started when he cried at a funeral and his wife left him because of it. She did well.

[Ninjazzed]

@Babewithplan Let him believe his silly lies fed to him by his useless cult.

[Babewithplan]

@Ninjazzed It’s so pathetic when you think about it. Nearly 50, yet still pretty much a child LOL

[Opinion Owner]

Young at heart what can i say.

[Babewithplan]

Immature at 50 makes that guy a loser really.

[Opinion Owner]

Most "losers" aren't retired by 46. But thanks for playing.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Ninjazzed So having a boner, in your pants, is criminal?

[Babewithplan]

“Loser” has a lot of different meanings and I’m not talking about financial luck.

[Babewithplan]

And how tf are you still replying to me you fkn retard. And even your “financial situation” couldn’t save your marriage lol your wife still fucked you off. Women love money and not even that she cared about because she saw what a big ugly nobody you are.

[Ninjazzed]

@KrakenAttackin Having a boner out in public isn’t criminal? Control your prolapsed, dangling brains before someone else will.

[Ninjazzed]

@KrakenAttackin It’s considered public indecency?

[JennieF]

Sure.

[Iron_Man]

Yes They can