What are your thougths on shy or quiet girls?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I used to think I was attracted to shy girls because we had that in common. But now, as I've become slightly more extroverted from life experience, I much prefer a confident extroverted girl. Shy girls take a while to warm up to you and get to know. On the first few dates it's usually you trying to make them feel comfortable. I don't have time for all that bs anymore. I get too impatient. Tell me your opinions openly. Laugh. Have some confidence and say you're atrracted to me if you are rather than having me make every move for you. I don't hate shy girls. I just click faster with extroverted girls.

ScottRoy · Accepted Answer

My thoughts on shy and quiet girl. Will I like shy and quiet girls because they are not as easy to come right out and say hello there most likely to turn away and if I like her it becomes more difficult to talk with them because I am some what why my self and quite as well. I think that they are more Interesting because of this. And were able too much better read a person that is not shy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Dangerous. An adult woman should not be shy. Shy girls tend to be passive, and a prey of manipulative and toxic guys or people. These girls tend to struggle to fight for their rights too since they struggle to say No. I have seen many shy girls who almost end up being Kidnapped since they were so shy to scream for help

Alyssa11 · Accepted Answer

I think guys like them more and it makes me sad because I’m a loud bitch and I can’t help myself. I swear I cry a lot though. I put up a tough scene because I’m a real softy inside 😢. LOL I’m being dead honest here.

ohshee · Answer

I absolutely love them because when you look deep inside of them you understand why they're shy and quiet and then the more you hang out with him the more you see in the more you like in the more you love and then there might become that very first kiss and then you feel the color of her cheeks turning red her body is twitching in certain areas because she just felt something for the first time they're smart and intelligent and they are deep very deep inverts and my theory is they are one of the hottest sexiest best lovers ever they are loyal they are committed and they are the hottest best sexiest lovers ever LOL yeah I had to say it twice I'm going to say it again they're hot

Keyboardkat · Answer

You know, I am sort of an introvert myself, and I always was attracted to extroverted, outgoing girls! But there was one girl I dated who was very quiet, but she had a sense of humor. She would suddenly come out with hilarious and outrageous things! I found her intriguing!

Finchie40 · Answer

They are harder to understand and grasp because it leaves a constant question mark if they are into me or not , usually I will tease and joke around with a shy quiet girl that I find attractive to break her from her shell and make her feel
Comfortable, , I usually call shy or quiet people , thinkers , most the time it’s cuz they aren’t confident within themselves and are scared to say something so they are constantly analyzing things in their heads is how I look at it

Anonymous · Answer

I find shy girls very cute. It's probably because I'm a very protective guy, so when I see a girl who feels unsure and nervous, feel like I want to protect her and make her feel more confident and safe. Actually girls with a shy personality are my preference in terms of dating. I like to reassure them that they don't need to be scared or nervous because I will be there to support them and help boost their self confidence.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Unless I am regularly around them I seldom ever notice they are there. If I am around them regularly I’ll pop their bubble and try and get them to talk. However, if they are that one rare egg that makes it a point to remain silent - I met one such creature years ago - then I’ll just leave them be and pretend they aren’t there since clearly they do not wish to be seen. They never said a word. Damn creepy if you ask me…

Andres77 · Answer

Shy and quiet are not always the same.
I've met a few quiet but wild girls in bookstores and libraries.
They're some of the most fun I've ever had.

-Shy, lacking confidence.
-Quiet, reserved until they find a guy willing to take their scratches and feel the explosion of passion and lust all over their bodies.

Quiet girls are keeping themselves in peaceful reserve until they will be appreciated for who they are.

Tunasub · Answer

Freaks! those shy ones are.. quiet and innocent until you are alone with them. All of a sudden they are rear ending some alien dildo suction cupped to the wall with a ball gag in thier mouth mumbling for you to clothespin thier nipples.

Damn I miss that girl...

jamezsexton · Answer

They can be sexy you xan be shy but confident if your shy it can be sexy or indearing mayb your just shy towards guy you like maybe ur that way all time. Own it own u u be you and the guy that likes you will stay for ever

oliver4love · Answer

I love that type of girls because it's my personal views shy or quiet girl's loyal in relationships and the man who marry that type of girls is lucky man in the world..

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I never make judgments like that. I treat everyone as I find them and if she is still shy and quiet by the end of the evening, then it is my fault for not putting her at ease!

Lost_in_the_Woods · Answer

They are fantastic. Absolutely adorable.  But, its really difficult to talk to someone who barely replies.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

I find them endearing, but they can be more difficult to get to know.

kellytheman · Answer

I kinda a like it cause when they get comfortable you can see who that really are. Also in my experience the quiet girls are the one you want to watch for they are incredibly great at sex.

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

kinda resent them because women can be that way and will still be able to get a boyfriend since the burden of courtship or beginning an interaction, attracting a mate, falls on the guys shoulders, should be obvious as to what i'm talking about

MCheetah · Answer

I like them. @solstraalee, you're from Denmark. How tall are you?

Vikkrram · Answer

I am a shy guy... so i can understand why they are tend to do so. So i am completely okay with it.

NerdDG · Answer

They could be psycho, crazy or murderer. A lot of people get arrested for stalking, harm and murder— people who knows them said they are always quiet and don’t talk a lot.

topramen1565 · Answer

I love them but I wish they talked more often. Everytime I date a shy or quiet girl, I'm always making conversation and it gets tiresome when you run out of material to discuss.

MadBoy · Answer

I'd like to know them more, they're probably just awkward in socializing and lonely. ... Sadly I'm awkward and lonely too so it either won't happen or won't end well lol.

Quidthonian · Answer

Nice and I would find them attractive. I would invite them out, but apply no pressure. I would love to see them come out of their shells, hoping that they are not a nut!

FatherJack · Answer

Better than loud , annoying , yapping girls that never shut up !

Trex706 · Answer

I think they tend to be the freakiest or the most fun once they open up to you if you are a guy

jamesgoldman · Answer

Given I don't approach women full stop, it could get to be problematic if they can't approach me, just an awkward impasse

Wise4myage · Answer

I like girls who are quiet, but the shy ones can be like talking to a wall.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I think they are both cute <3 <3 (( Hugs ))

exitseven · Answer

Besides being shy and quiet they can often be thoughtful and sweet.

alltafgradur · Answer

I like shy girls, especially if they relax and get less shy when I get to know her better and they all do

Hanrej · Answer

I like a girl who speak her mind. I'm not a minreader. So long as she can at least do that with me I wouldn't feel too awkward around her.

Medhat-M · Answer

I like them.. Too bad i always attract the opposite.. I guess two shy people can't work out right..

xBertix · Answer

They are naughtier in bed in my experience quiet ones are definitely the worst in a good way 😅

Anonymous · Answer

Women can get away with that easily since the burden of initiating interactions or making the first move has always falled on the guy's shoulders and probably always will

TheAfrikan · Answer

They can act shy but most are very very naughty, tbat is if you get to know them well. And they happen to trust you.

RunningWithScissors1 · Answer

I find the behavior of girls that are shy or quiet cute as long as it is not taken to an extreme and they will still communicate without having to play 50 questions.

Anonymous · Answer

I think they're shy or quiet. Go sit in the corner so people don't bump into you when they don't see you. Lol

Omar5881 · Answer

Shyness and quietness are two traits i deeply appreciate as a quiet observer

scott04sa22 · Answer

If she's too shy then she'll started running away from you

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Much prefer shy and quiet to the loud and obnoxious that is so prevalent today.

dolemite89 · Answer

sometimes come off as them being cold, if she’s my girlfriend already tho i don’t care if she’s more shy or an introvert

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Not my type. I think they're looking to be dominated.

ManHater · Answer

they are different. but the ones that are like security boxes and dont talk fuck...

mreber92 · Answer

Could be cool. But quiet and shy are much harder to meet

Better_off_here · Answer

i am okay with a shy girl i think it makes them seem sort of mysterious.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I'm Shy so I find them more attractive than Confident Girls.

FireFox001 · Answer

I like them. Most of them get real fun when they ease up.

msc545 · Answer

They are interesting but difficult to have a conversation with.

TinTan88 · Answer

They are super cute! More of my type, I always think it's a win when I can get them comfortably talking to me =P

Anonymous · Answer

if shy also means low self-esteem than she is not an option for me. otherwise, I don't prefer but not not a huge deal

lycanthrope3 · Answer

Shy girls really open up when they get comfortable,

alextrugreene10 · Answer

I think there my soul mate but she just don't feel me

JesseJayNeak · Answer

I like 'em better. Because opening them up is always satisfying

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

They are boring.. unless they have big boobs.. I find them waste of time

Anonymous · Answer

Those are the sex monsters. She was all about using my jimmy.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as she will spread her legs and hopefully be noisy then (but not a requirement).

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

They seem like cool people to be friends with

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

That's fine Probably just their nature

The-Wise-Phoenix · Answer

They are cute and feminine

FilmGuy93 · Answer

"No thanks," "I'll pass," "This ain't it chief."

bowenw · Answer

Still waters run deep.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nothing wrong with that.

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